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 evelinasinger89
Joined: 6/23/2011
Msg: 551
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i like older guys,i like the older look, im 22 and my age range is 25 to 32,but they have to be mature,so i dont think its wrong
 Telegram_Sam
Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 8/21/2011 11:05:06 PM
The last one was 16 years younger. There were some good times but it's difficult dealing with someone who's just working out things you figured out a decade earlier.
 domo30
Joined: 6/7/2010
Msg: 553
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Posted: 8/22/2011 10:14:24 AM
I agree i am just not attracted to men my age physically. I usually date guys between 25-30.
 bravehart64
Joined: 6/3/2009
Msg: 554
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Posted: 8/23/2011 2:22:50 AM
Personaly I dont actively persue younger women .Then look where l live a college town .And I feel younger women have fewer hang ups as to money .And hey what the hell I dont look my age and get checked out by younger women .

So hell yes its an option .
 Canberraguy83
Joined: 8/6/2011
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Posted: 8/23/2011 2:43:51 AM
I think that it would be wrong only if you were somehow forcing them or using a position of power or authority to coerce them into a relationship they do not otherwise want to have.
 ClaireChristine
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 556
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Posted: 8/23/2011 7:00:42 PM
I think anyone around 10 years younger is fine. You need to have things in common
unless you are just in it for the sex..... Men think to catch a young chick gives them cred and kudos and maybe it does. Envy of other men etc.

I was with my partner 13 years older for 10 years but the age gap lessened as we matured. It all depends on the individual. SOme men never grow up and some women mature early.
 legallybronzed
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 557
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Posted: 8/24/2011 9:55:32 AM
Personally I prefer older men. I haven't dated anyone my age in over 8 years. Maturity is what i'm looking for. Young guys my age still want to party be with their buddies all the time, they want to date but it's not the kind of dating i'm looking for, sure they are intelligent, but it doesn't really start coming through until their later years when they settle down a bit. There is something to say about a man with a little grey hair. He is distinguished, handsome, intelligent, still wants to have a good time, and is a better lover. The only negative thing I can say about the ones i've come across is that they are stuck in their ways and their annoying habits are hard if not impossible to change.
 domo30
Joined: 6/7/2010
Msg: 558
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Posted: 8/24/2011 10:21:21 AM
pass on the gray hair absolutely not. Sorry i refuse to date someone my dads age
 onyxmanicure
Joined: 2/13/2011
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Posted: 8/25/2011 2:26:59 PM
Id date a guy who was older IF we clicked

but for the most part I prefer someone my own age .

the arguement that older men are more mature is a myth Im 24 and have dated a 40 year old who acted like he was younger than me ... its not cute its aggrivating
ive also dated a guy who was 22 who was very mature things just didnt work out because of other circimstances

and to the older guy who said younger girls are better than old mares ... for the record no decent woman regaurdless of age would ever date a disgusting pig like you ....
id also like to share that the younger we are the higher of a sex drive we have. i dont think your old balls could keep up with a 21 year old girl ... shed be ready for round two while you where snoring ......

i wonder how long it would be before she was using you for your money and stability and off riding another charming young stalion unknown to you ...
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 560
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Posted: 8/27/2011 3:49:19 AM
I seem to attract younger girls ... anything younger then 24 is to young for relationship and I'd feel iffy sleeping with 18 year old.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 561
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Posted: 8/28/2011 11:45:00 AM
I keep my 'interests' ...older than my daughter...younger than myself.

*- Unless Ms. Awesome finds me....I generally stay within those parameters...!!
 Tom_Bear
Joined: 8/22/2011
Msg: 562
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Posted: 8/31/2011 7:07:02 PM
I'm 40 and I've been getting responces from mostly women in their 20's - 30's.
I actually talked to my ex (who is my age) about it and she said that I was just being a cradle robber ... just as her 24 y.o. boyfriend came back with their drinks. Hmm.
 domo30
Joined: 6/7/2010
Msg: 563
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Posted: 8/31/2011 8:06:11 PM
I dont respond to emails from men in their 30s unless I find them physically attractive. Bring me some 25 yr olds Im in heaven
 LabradorOokpik
Joined: 6/30/2007
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Posted: 8/31/2011 10:58:53 PM
I'm 40 and I've been getting responces from mostly women in their 20's - 30's.
I actually talked to my ex (who is my age) about it and she said that I was just being a cradle robber ... just as her 24 y.o. boyfriend came back with their drinks. Hmm.


What's good for the goose is good for the gander!

I'm your age and have been messaged (on this and other sites) by a guy who was 19, a man who was 64, and men of every age in between! I personally don't have a preference for older or younger, I used to like younger, but if I happen to become attracted to an older man, then I like an older man! I don't rigidly stick to age requirements, and most recently, I have found that men I am most attracted to happen to be close to my own age.
 Frankc3015
Joined: 9/4/2011
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Posted: 9/8/2011 9:53:50 AM
What is right anyways... by nature men no matter how old they are, will always be attracted to beautiful young women.. Now laws have been put in place like consenting age who set this rules, whoever has the power so 18 is legal its legal...when u hold hands with a younger woman usually older women get mad and call you a pervert why?? Its all a culture socio crappola.... If u click work it
 judnyc70
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 566
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Posted: 9/10/2011 5:44:13 PM
I just finished a LTR with a Girl who was 22 and we started our relationship when she was 19 and I was 37. She likes older guys but thought I was 30 when we started dating. I also was dating a gal who was 27 when I was 37. My longest relationship was 6 years with a woman who was older then me by a year and a half.
I actually feel its more then a physical thing that I look for in a mate. Compatibility is more what i am looking for now, younger or older
 skyrocketbursts
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 567
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Posted: 9/11/2011 9:41:51 AM
i dont think there is anything wrong with older guys dating younger women i actually prefer to date younger women, although i dont get to date many women at all sadly as i am a fairly busy person
 Pugalist
Joined: 8/5/2011
Msg: 568
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Posted: 9/13/2011 9:43:35 PM
I think there are different strokes for different folks...That being said, I'm 3..... and I can't date younger women. I just don't find that I have anything in common with them I have high standards so it's tough sometimes to find women beyonda certain age that keep themselves in shape and attractive, but I'd rather stay home alone then go out and listen to some 25 year old talk about Jersey Shore, their purse, boob jobs, clothes, the Kardashians, etc.... I just dont have it in me... I LOVE women my age or older who are energetic, in great shape, and accomplished because we can relate to one another and have more in common and to talk about. Plus an older woman is almost always easier to have a relationship with because she understands intimacy and communication, and she's most often, better in bed...;)
 BigObigD
Joined: 6/4/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2012 4:55:28 PM
She was 28 I was 71, SHE CONTACTED ME FIRST. WOW WHAT A TWO YEARS THAT FOLLOWED.
 BigObigD
Joined: 6/4/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2012 5:06:12 PM
Missed the original post, but the "YOUNG CHICK" (over 40 years younger) that kept me happy for rwo years never ask for money.
 BigObigD
Joined: 6/4/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2012 5:13:02 PM
YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE MISSING
 redsox322
Joined: 11/3/2011
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Posted: 5/26/2012 7:24:52 PM
I def couldnt date older. hell I dont even date my age lol
 Paranoia
Joined: 6/6/2009
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Posted: 6/21/2012 4:37:10 PM
Ive only ever dated guys my age but I would love to date an older man. I can't help it I'm attracted to older men. Its not something out of the ordinary I know a lot of younger women who think as I do.
 Gorgeouscomedy
Joined: 9/2/2010
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Posted: 6/21/2012 5:00:16 PM
I try to keep it to five years difference it either direction of my age [perferably closer to 2 or 3 yrs]. I've never dated an older guy and never would. Seven years older than me is the max I'd go. I think 10 years is the max anyone should go.

I feel like women who date older men have daddy issues and guys who date younger women are trying to prove something [or just want an immature person they can control].

Whenever I think about women who marry older men, I always picture the poor woman being flung back into the dating pool in her early 50's because that "attractive, older man" she fell for is now deceased. As tough as dating is in your 30's, I bet it's WAY harder to find someone when you're a 50 year old woman . . . because guys your age want younger women, and can often get them!
 macongtr
Joined: 11/9/2010
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Posted: 6/22/2012 9:32:36 PM
I'm 43 and I don't pursue younger women, but I don't rule it out. I think Louis CK said it all about dating younger women: (99 percent accurate quote) "Well, what are my options? All the women my age are either married or sitting at home pissed off at the world." I love that guy....
And it's true. It's hard enough to meet someone as it is, and I see it as just excuse #8143 why you don't want to open up to someone you click with. The operative term here, is click. I need someone I can enjoy a conversation with, or some music and good food and sunshine with. That's my only rule at this point.
So if you 40-something women want a man your age, turn off the damn computer, put down a tin of food for the cats, hide the romance novels and get out there and be somebody!

(Hee hee, it's cool...I love cats and romantic lit and I don't care who knows it)
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