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Posted: 10/22/2007 5:31:21 PM | Its a tough question.
When i was young i dated young (as in same) now im older 32, i date a dam site older. Its my preferance.
It comes down to maturity and where ur at in life.
For an example of this im into classical music and the arts etc and i cant seem to find a guy similar age who likes same kind of things as me, older yes.
I think it fine for older men to date much younger women (legally of course).
We live , learn and grow from experence.
I wouldnt be happy though if my 18 yr old was datin a 50 yr old bloke tho!
However it is legal and if id of wanted to i wouldnt of listened! | |
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Posted: 10/23/2007 6:02:02 AM | | I might date a man that is around 5 yrs older me, but I'm usually not interested in men who are much older than me. | |
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Posted: 10/23/2007 4:11:48 PM | | Age is just a number, It it works for both people than its all good | |
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Posted: 10/23/2007 5:47:18 PM | who can say if it is right or wrong only if it is against the law is it wrong. i am 20 years older than the mother of my oldest son and 16 years older than my ex wife. most of my girlfriends have been in their teens or early 20s.
i used to get comments from people and called all sorts of things but so long as the 2 people involved are happy together then what right does anyone have to try and stop them? | |
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Posted: 9/11/2008 2:29:58 PM | Well, as far as POF is concerned................I don't see very many younger women that are looking for men that are 10+ yrs older.
Usually, the younger crowd only list around 5 yrs. older than themselves. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2008 2:46:46 PM | It's not wrong... as long as she's over 18 or 20, you're a lucky guy, that's what that means. I can relate though. Dated a younger girl (10 year gap).
The only issue you may have is she and you may have vastly different goals in life. Good luck, mate! | |
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Posted: 9/12/2008 7:10:52 AM | | age is only a number it should not matter as long as your not breaking the law and its what you both want | |
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Posted: 9/13/2008 7:56:59 PM | | It's different for everybody...I prefer my men to be in the 30 something to early 40 something range. It's the maturity level that does it for me. I've dated very very few people that were in their 20's (even when I was a twentysomething!) for that whole reason. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2008 12:12:25 AM | I've never dated a woman that was more than about 4 years younger than me.
Now that I'm 35, the idea of dating a 20 something would be intriguing, I must admit.
However, I personally, wouldn't think that I'd go below a 25 year old. Gotta give em time to experience the bar scene and reach some conclusions about that. | |
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Posted: 9/14/2008 2:57:15 PM | | Now that was an insight to your judgement and maturity. You go girl! | |
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Posted: 9/14/2008 11:54:01 PM | | Most the time when I see a huge age difference in a relationship, I think that the older is avoiding the expectations of accomplishments and accountability that someone in their own age group would have of them. I think this when I see the woman being the older also. Often when someone is so full of crap, only a younger nieve will do. When wealthy men are the older and do it, I think he doesnt want to hear shit from a woman other than "yes dear" lol. Older wealthy women just wanna get laid..... My dad was 17 years older than my mom, ( 23 & 40) it was his 3rd marrage, her first. She was looking for daddy and he was just wanting someone who would have so much hope that a 3rd time looser wouldnt bother her.... now he is on his 6th and final. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 11:52:24 AM | | I've purposely avoided dating women considerably younger than me. I always had a psychological issue of feeling kind of lecherous if I were to do so. Add to that the fact common interests between two people with a great age disparity may be minimal and I've just yet to do so. I am becoming more open to the idea recently however. But, realistically, how many 20-25 year old women are going to be interested, genuinely, in a near 40 year old man??? | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 12:14:31 PM | | I'm 26 yrs old. I might date a 30-35 yr old man. But I probably wouldn't date any man older than that. I just think that I wouldn't have that much in common with a man who is significantly older than me. | |
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Posted: 9/15/2008 12:29:24 PM | It's just an absolute crying shame I miss your personal cut off age by four years (and that I'm not your preferred ethnicity). Otherwise I might've had to visit Massachussetts LOL
No, seriously though, you are a very beautiful woman. But don't mistake my silly flirtations as anything serious, forward or offensive. My bark is far worse than my bite (right, whiskey girl??).  | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 5:33:05 AM | preferably I like younger men, not too young that they feel like they could be my son if I had one! Also if they are still sowing their oats they would be a waste of time for me!
Compatibility seems hard to find, no matter what the person's age is. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 9:56:13 AM | | I'm 31 yrs old. My younger age limit for dating is generally around 25. I might make a few exceptions to that if a woman in her early 20s was really mature for her age. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 11:47:04 AM | I am 30 and I'll be 31 this year. I married a man 5 yrs older then me, we are now divorced. I dated men younger, but it never got past "dating" and as for dating older men, I dated one who was 8 yrs older and it was good. I also dated and now have a BF of 28 yrs my senior, but I don't mind the age difference.
I think it really is to each their own....everyone has an age range they like. I have been always open and therefore found my best relationship has been my current and that is with 28 yrs difference. | |
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Posted: 9/16/2008 3:11:49 PM | | I believe that this decision is yours and yours alone to make. For some, myself included, I don't like to date women that are too much younger than I, because the younger they are the less they seem to understand about relationships, communication, your priorities, etc; they don't have the life experiences yet that I have (in most cases, b/c you can't label everyone) and their interests are often somewhat different than my own. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2008 8:23:36 AM | | I've made a rule never to date anyone younger than my daughter or older than my Mother, other wise I don't care what age the woman is, as long as I like her. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2008 2:07:26 PM | | ^^^ I don't have a "set in stone" age range; but, my loose age range is 10 years younger than me, and 10 years younger than my mom. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2008 6:46:46 PM | it is hard enough to find someone that you like, like spending time with, and want to be with. why put more pressure on yourself than you need? as long as they are not, say 17.. i personally think it is okay...
i like older men... older men like younger women. what's wrong with that?
i could never see myself with someone more than, say 5 years younger than me... well, maybe if he was totally hot (smile) and really mature. oh yeah, and had a good job. | |
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