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 SJC25

Joined: 2/5/2008
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What's the lamest excuse for getting shot down ??
Posted: 6/25/2008 7:23:59 AM

The next person might find the unattractive schmuck to be attractive and charming....I know myself that a man told me I was unattractive, next day met one who thought that I was gorgeous, a lot has to do with how open minded men are too a woman's weight and if they find most women to be attractive (they truly love and admire all types of women)....


EXACTLY! For example, in response to a previous post, I have a serious thing for bald military men who listen to country music. (Lucky I live in a southern military town, isn't it?)
 heidi_lynn

Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 102
What's the lamest excuse for getting shot down ??
Posted: 6/25/2008 7:54:48 AM
my separated husband of 3 years kept telling me that his d**k was sticky and couldn't f**k me due to that. The other lame excuse he gave me when I wanted foreplay was why do I need to warm up the oven...cant I just stick it in and be done with it tonight! Needless to say our sex life SUCKED...will NEVER EVER EVER be in a low sex marriage again!!!
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Posted: 6/26/2008 7:33:16 AM
Her: No, I can't go out Saturday. I'm committing suicide.

Me: Okay, doing anything Friday?
 GotFin

Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 6/26/2008 11:14:39 AM
From a female (age 40) friend: "He paid our bill in cash with exact change. Obviously he is cheap".

Same female will not even TALK to a man unless he has long sideburns like George Clooney.

2 years ago this same woman (who is from another country) was complaining about how unreasonable American women are about dating. She has clearly "jumped the shark" into coo-coo land.
 bostonsportsgal789

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 6/26/2008 1:41:19 PM
A man claimed that I lived too far from him. We only lived about 20 miles apart from each other and he had a car.
 exciting1

Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 106
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Posted: 6/26/2008 7:45:02 PM
Three weeks ago a man had planned a few days in advance to meet me on my birthday. Well, that night, after I already get to the event alone , he calls to say he's been sick and was busy all the week before etc. He said he thought he had the salmonella from the tomatoes. Well, he lives in east TN and there still have been no reported cases in east TN. We finally got a few reported cases in middle TN but there still is none where he lives. Geee, he had some hard luck

So did anybody else get stood up for the salmonella???? ROFL
 wcms1963

Joined: 6/1/2008
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Posted: 6/29/2008 4:00:09 AM
"I prefer someone I can look down to....."

I'm 5' 11"+ and my date seemed shocked I was taller than him even though my height was listed in my stats, and again in my profile. I like to think of him as Mr. Short-On-Personality.
 exciting1

Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 108
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Posted: 6/29/2008 10:42:58 AM
Yeah, it's like that men assume women are lying about how they look even with pics. There are some guys who somehow expect a stick figure to meet them even after seeing my pic. And I've seen posts of other women who even say they are bbw with pics have had that happen. Well, my one pic goes all the way to my hips; I've had pics up that went to my knees; and I think I have a standing up pic at a campfire on here now too. So if that is not enough for a guy to tell reasonably what I look like, then he is blind. If he wants more, and I've had that happen too, then he's wanting to see more skin showing or he has such physical standards that there's no way that I nor a high percentage of women would meet anyway.
 NJreporter73

Joined: 4/27/2008
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Posted: 6/30/2008 6:08:33 PM
Here are the excuses I have dealt with:

"Thanks for dinner, I'm moving to another state."

"This guy I was seeing casually for the past five years that I never told you about finally decided to get serious."

"You talk...'white'. How come you don't watch 'Flavor of Love'?"
 hilltop70

Joined: 3/4/2008
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Posted: 7/1/2008 6:29:48 PM
i mostly get ignored totally ON THIS SITE
 wendellfish1

Joined: 10/12/2007
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:46:23 PM
"I don't sleep with guys I like."

i absolutely LOVE this one, never heard it, but love it!
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:48:17 PM

i mostly get ignored totally ON THIS SITE


Sorry, what? I wasn't listening.
 wendellfish1

Joined: 10/12/2007
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Posted: 7/1/2008 10:51:40 PM
Her: No, I can't go out Saturday. I'm committing suicide.

Me: Okay, doing anything Friday?

***i ACTUALLY laughed out loud with this one! you're lack of compassion....GENIUS! :)
 Bluz_Angel

Joined: 1/28/2008
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Posted: 7/2/2008 3:55:12 AM
Oh I've heard all kinds of things.

Sorry to break your heart, but I am leaving the country soon.

I can't date someone who doesn't own a car

I never thought I was b--sexual, but last night I got drunk and well

My all time fav

If you don't think people should have the right to carry fire arms, then you can't be in my life.
 Topgear1

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:52:26 AM
Being stood up would at least be a move in the right direction for me...

I don't get excuses they don't even bother they just turn a cold shoulder and walk away.
 Modernboy77

Joined: 5/26/2008
Msg: 116
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Posted: 7/3/2008 4:43:57 PM
I was once shot down with a 'you're a nice guy, I just want to be friends.' At the time it was terribly, but now I can laugh about it...as she's one of my best friends. I had another girl shoot me down because I didn't know the works of an author, to whom I can't remember now. Funny thing is, I wasn't even trying to pick her up or anything.
 Bluz_Angel

Joined: 1/28/2008
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Posted: 7/3/2008 4:44:34 PM
That makes me a little sad.
 casualandrelaxed

Joined: 3/4/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 7:32:04 AM
mine would have to be : you have blonde hair and blue eyes, i wouldnt be interested. and no this person never actually saw me.

i will admit to being attracted to brunettes, but i dont say no too blondes or red heads lol.
 TaxiBrad

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 119
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Posted: 7/8/2008 6:33:14 AM
I have gotten several "You remind me too much of.... a family friend, old b.f, uncle, cousin, father, sister's hubby, and such".
 lorraine74

Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 120
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Posted: 7/8/2008 8:36:40 AM
I usually get...'Im only looking for no strings fun...You up for it?'

Or...'Youre gorgeous' (I then say Im in a wheelchair)...Then I get...'That doesnt bother me hun but Im really not looking at the mo!'

I feel like saying...'What made you think I'd want you anyway!!!!!'

I will admit though...If I dont fancy someone I tell them Im seeing someone. We dont have to fancy everyone!

L XxXxX
 djsharc

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 121
What's the lamest excuse for getting shot down ??
Posted: 7/8/2008 3:15:47 PM
My lame excuse is "I have to go home and floss the cat."

"I'm sorry the date was so short. I apologize but I need to go home and floss my cat, Killer. It's Friday floss night and I just fed him real chicken this morning, so, uh, see ya!"
 Lucky_Me

Joined: 5/15/2005
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Posted: 7/18/2008 10:19:04 PM
Here's one that happened to me tonight:

"You are REALLY NORMAL! Most people are crazy and if you were crazy I'd rip your clothes off"

Too normal, sometimes I can't take dating. Actually most times.
 Moving in Stereo

Joined: 11/20/2005
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Posted: 7/19/2008 10:00:57 AM
I'd go out with you, but I have to re-grout the tile in my bathroom . . .

I just remembered . . .I NEED TO ROTATE MY TIRES.

I'd go out with you, but my girlfriends and I will be camping out to get good tickets to the Gary "U.S." Bonds concert.

LoL . . . (i think)
 2ofcup

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 7/19/2008 11:43:21 AM
I had a woman tell me that I lived to far ......I pass her house on my way to work....I work 7 miles from home.
These same women after seeing my truck pass by her house one day took notice that I was driving by........ A week later I was contacted by the local police....she had told them I was harassing her.
I told the cop that I had meet her for dinner a 2 weeks prior. He told me that she was woried I was stalking her.......I asked how long had she lived there, ( I knew the answer, I had thought about buying the house she lived in before she bought it.)I was told not to worry about it and that I if i didn't stop driving by her house he was going to have to get ugly with me.
I told him he was going to have to tell my boss why I was going to have to leave my job of 16 years....he had a blank stare, then I told him ...she lived at the end of the Rd I worked on.....3 days later the house was put on the market........Her husband had found out about our date.
 segerlover

Joined: 7/10/2008
Msg: 125
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Posted: 7/20/2008 4:11:30 PM
how's this one?
"i was beginning to like you more then i thought you liked me so i thought i'd better end it before i got hurt."
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