| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:23:54 PM |
There is tons of pressure put on women dealing with the same subject as well.
They aren't viewed as being weird for being a virgin at a certain age. Men are.
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Joined: 9/17/2008
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/21/2008 11:33:50 PM | I am 23 and a virgin, and I only have myself to blame I suppose. No way I would get a hooker, but I totally have that hopelessness feeling. I have waited this long for that special someone (or anyone for that matter) to come along and love me, but I just dont foresee a girl in my life in the future.
I want to get a girl, but I just legitimately dont know how. I dont drink so I dont go to bars. I guess I could just like walk around the mall for several hours like my friends tell me to do, but I dont see how that could possible help me.
Meh, I've lived this long along and I am happy, so I dont mind if I never find a girl. Of course, I would be way happier if she did finally come along somehow. | |
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JTinAZ
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Joined: 9/13/2008
Msg: 304 | |
| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/22/2008 12:35:45 AM | | How would I handle if I was a virgin past the age of 25? I would handle my cash over to a hooker so I could get it over with!! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:55:10 AM | | Regarding the whole prostitute argument. I don't think the knowlage that the only way I was able to have sex was by paying someone to do it would make me feel much better about myself. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/22/2008 5:57:05 AM |
Regarding the whole prostitute argument. I don't think the knowlage that the only way I was able to have sex was by paying someone to do it would make me feel much better about myself.
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/22/2008 10:44:04 AM |
There is tons of pressure put on women dealing with the same subject as well.
If a women is a still a virgin past 25 it is probably by choice because it's very easy for a woman to find sex if she really wants it. No so for men. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/22/2008 7:14:33 PM | It's alot easier for women than it is guys. It is not as easy for a guy to get laid than it is a woman.
If it were I would be getting laid right at this moment............
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/22/2008 10:07:39 PM | | Yes, it's true that I could probably be able to have sex right now if I wished and lose my virginity. That does not mean, however, that I don't get harrassed by those that feel that I've made a bad choice. Just the same as a man that has chosen the way I have. it is not easier to be a virgin just because I'm a woman. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/23/2008 12:46:58 PM | | I'm having my second virginhood, I think the cherry came back, I really don't like this state of affairs, or lack thereof. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/23/2008 8:12:57 PM |
Regarding the whole prostitute argument. I don't think the knowlage that the only way I was able to have sex was by paying someone to do it would make me feel much better about myself.
Depends how you look at it. In reality....you always pay for sex as a guy. You either pay the prostitute up front....or you spend money on your date to the same general effect. Actually, the date ends up costing more..... amazing what you learn in the military.
To the OP....get laid if you want or don't. It doesn't really matter much if you wait or have it sooner. I would caution you though, that the longer you go, the harder you are likely to fall for the person you are with for the first time (i.e. girlfriend / boyfriend).
Me I believe in test driving before I buy....but that is just my advice to you. Cheers! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/25/2008 3:13:45 AM | I made a personal choice to focus on my degree, and I lost my cherry just before my 25th birthday a few months ago to my boyfriend. Yum, yum, yum. We'd been apart for a year, and the first night we saw each other again, we were voracious. Hot, sweaty, breathless, and raring to go again. And again, and again, and again.
If you're a late bloomer? Deal with it. It's not the end of the world that you haven't had sex yet, and anybody who calls you a loser is just a jackass. If you want sex, go for it. If not, then chill and keep doing what you're doing. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/25/2008 6:52:37 AM | well after 25 years if you havent found something you would like to sleep with your probably not going to. I would find a space ship and then continue my search else where.  Cheers good luck | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/25/2008 10:04:15 AM |
well after 25 years if you havent found something you would like to sleep with your probably not going to. I would find a space ship and then continue my search else where. Cheers good luck
So does the same apply for the reverse scnario: if you haven't found anyone who'd like to sleep with you?  | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/25/2008 11:01:29 AM | Rofl. I just realized that Richard Branson's company VIRGIN are the ones trying to get domestic space flights off the ground. Maybe I should ask them for a spaceship.  | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/27/2008 8:57:49 PM | I'm not sure how to deal with it.
Until 25, I had a steel will to resist premarital relations of any kind due to my faith. But at 25, my faith collapsed after years of deconstructing it, and I became agnostic.
I no longer had a rationale for being a virgin. Now I've missed several rites of passage, even kissing, becoming old without having matured.
To this day, I remain a 31-year-old intimacy virgin. It's not getting easier to overcome either. | |
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maenad
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Joined: 9/24/2008
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/27/2008 9:06:16 PM | It is each others choice but it also depends some of us were probabaly shot down when we were younger and maybe it is hard to trust people again or have our hearts healed, i think you have to find the right person, i did and he was suprised when i told him i was still a virgin, he was worried about having sex with me he thought i should have saved it until i found someone who i lived he was my fwb and as i said if you cant trust your friends who can you trust, lets just say it was totally wicked and good and the further experimenting was even better, and i must say he was very satifisfying in all ways
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/27/2008 10:02:14 PM | | I was very religious too, fornication was a no no. I was almost married, but still never had sex, I had other chances too. To tell you the truth, I only regret not having sex with the girl I almost married. All the other's wouldn't of meant anything. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 9/27/2008 10:17:27 PM | | well,let me tell you i was a virgin till i was 35...crazy, but true. and now when i hear people say that they haven't had Any for months, i laugh and sayThat ain't nothin. right now i'm going on 2 years. talk about a dry spell... | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 10/1/2008 11:48:43 AM | I noticed that I can view everybody's profile including mine, Even though my profile is not supposed to be shown. Good thing I made a profile just for the forums.  | |
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