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masaq
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Joined: 8/2/2005
Msg: 27 | |
| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/16/2005 8:42:18 AM | After reading the forum I m a bit surprised by the ppl attitiude towards being virgin.
Well guys I am probably the only person on POF who at the age of 30 is still VIRGIN and thats what I chose to be. Trust me I have no regrets rather I feel proud to be chaste. I have great respect 4 women and they enjoy my company but at my age virginity is something u decide when to lose it. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/16/2005 11:56:45 AM | | I'm still a virgin at age 47. But 'handling it' in my case consisted of realizing that my personal inclination is not to have sex with anyone, that it isn't something I do or that appeals to me. And any prior worrying by me about having sex or about being a virgin at an advanced age was just social pressure, books and TV and so on telling me that I SHOULD worry about it. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/16/2005 11:25:48 PM | | Ted, good for you. I think our culture is unhealthily obsessed with sexuality, and constantly preaches a message that equates sexual activity with happiness. That's a big fat lie -- if you can't be happy without being sexually active, then sex alone will not magically make you happy. The mass media experience is designed to make you *less* happy and heighten your feelings of inadequacy, in order to sell you stuff that will somehow make you sexier and happier. Kudos for seeing through the masquerade. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/16/2005 11:32:21 PM | You don't first off. If you ever do reach that point you should ask yourself..why me? Then get up and walk in front of a car. The next step would be to find someone to have sex with.. preferably not a dead body...
O and to the person that said virgins are the best lovers..they know how to please themselves..YA THEMSELVES no one else..In fact they are the worst..they are nervous, unsure, know nothing and cant handle it for more than a minute if that...so I'd suggest getting some experience from the dog pound and working your way up to something attractive...
B*t**y yes.. honest...yes... | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 6:28:45 AM | | well, up until i was 20 i was, and i was proud about being diffenrent from societies trappings and standards, but now that i have had sex and broken up with the girl i first slept with, i am glad i am that much more experienced, but that doesnt mean im out to screw for the sake of screwing. I had intended to wait til marriage (wierd for a guy, i know) but plans change. In short, dont go out and get a hooker just to lose your virginity. It doesnt mean enough to risk getting any std. You want your first time to be with someone you are convinced you are in love with, so that when you do lose your virginity, you have that "i wanna marry this girl" feeling, and that my friends, is part of the experince. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 7:27:14 AM | Please forgive me for being rather curt above....I tend to spout off many one-liners in an (often pathetic) attempt at wit. However, when warranted, I will follow those up with pedantic and heavy-handed analyses. Are you still there. O.K. then.
Sex is wonderful. Sex is orgasmic. Sex takes two people out of their ordinary mundane lives and takes them (ususally just him, but whatever.... ) up to the clouds where they can drift for awhile.
Why deny yourself this pleasure, especially in today's world? It's not like it's virtuous. I know you virgins are thinking, well, I'm not doing it for anyone but myself. But what are you doing, really?
You think you're better than other people, don't you (which you will no doubt deny), you wear the fact that you're a virgin like a badge of honour. You hide from the often trying, awkward and difficult realm of human sexuality and emotions and in so doing, are depriving yourself of one of the greatest pleasures the world has to offer.
Have the courage to throw caution to the wind, to deal with all the emotions, all the wonderful and painful issues that may arise, and for the love of G-d and all his marvelous creation, have sex!  Devil may care! If you are still burdened by medieval edicts of chastity, I feel sorry for you and you for me, but otherwise, go for it!
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 12:41:25 PM | In my case, I'm not denying myself something, I'm being myself. I don't think I'm better than anyone else, just different from most of them.
Many people are interested in sex, and I have no problem with that. I think it's quite reasonable that they want to and do have sex, and I don't think abstinence or chastity or waiting until marriage should be pushed as the approach for everyone.
But I personally am atypical, not like most people in that way. The idea of actually having sex with anyone doesn't appeal to me, and speaking from long experience in being myself, I have to doubt that I'd like it if I did have sex. And I don't want to be treated as someone who's hiding from something, when it's now that I've stopped hiding, and become more aware of what it is I truly do and don't want. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:11:06 PM | | now ive heard it all well saved me the ten dollars for going to see the fourty year old virgin all I had to do was enter the forum.I personally dont have a problem with it but come on now nothing feels better than being with a woman.you'll never know what i mean until you try it. It's kinda like describing skydiving to someone you can try to put it into words but they can never capture what it's really like. man i bet you have a hand shake like a vice.I suggest that you quit whatever job you have and become a professional armwrestler. you gotta have one really strong arm by now | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:41:00 PM | i'm 35 and still a virgin!!!...the farthest i went was holding hands and hugs and kiss on cheeks not even on the lips with my past boyfriends... but i feel normal though... i was brought up in a Christian family in the Phillipines with the belief that sex should be done within the bounds of marriage...i always abide by it...but when i migrated here in California...somehow i felt like virginity is something to be ashamed of... but i dont wanna get affected by people who teased me for being a virgin at my age...i have a great respect for those who arent virgins...i just hope they do the same to me... i'm proud to be a virgin at my age...im not afraid to lose it but i would rather lose it for a good reason like an expression of love with my future husband than just for the sake of losing it and having the experience... i hope others would understand my point... | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:51:38 PM | Hmm I think virgins are jealous of others, and none virgins are just mad that they lost it to freaking whores and losers.
peace! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 2:22:55 PM | | dunno, can't relate on a personal lvl. Out dated religious reasons? Hope not. IF so, then you probably wouldn't be too keen on getting a prostitute eh? I wouldn't, but problem solved. Just use mega-protection, and watch out for cops. Happy humping! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 2:29:10 PM | "non virgins are just mad that they lost it to freaking whores and losers."
^^^ while I think its great that some ppl save themselves, please do not assume that we all are mad that we lost our virginity to "whores and losers"....I am not assuming that YOU have not gotten laid because your penis is so small that you need a toothpick to hold it up...
I am VERY much satisfied with who I lost my virginity to and would never trade the experience in to get my virginity back....
OT: if you are unhappy being a virgin at 25, and dont want a hooker, then go online...you are bound to find someone out here who would help you out! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 2:55:20 PM | | O dear there is so much ignorance in this thread.... Just remember everyone is different and has there own perspective on things.... Don't assume you know what a persons reasons are or how they feel... I can't stand when people place there "OPINIONS" as the truth, it's NOT! | |
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Jmz79
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Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 45 | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 7:33:02 PM | | I guess I don't feel akward saying this online but I have a very tough time with this subject to say the least. I've only admitted it to a couple of really close friends of mine and they had no idea. For a long time I was the "I'm going to wait until I'm married" or "in love" old fashioned type guy. I waited to long and now I'm 26 and a virgin lol, its affected my confidence around women and most importantly my communication skills with women, especially ones I find sexually attractive. Its ironic because I'm one of those guys that just adores women and now there is some mental block in my head that is keeping me from doing so. Someone said sex today is based on societal pressure and that if you're not happy without sex you won't be happy with it. That maybe true but not for everybody, each person's situation and personality is different as a result so are the consequences of their actions. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 7:52:28 PM | OP-
Izzat 25 years in "Duck" years or "man" years?
I kin see how a filly might react upon first meetin' ye's in some upscale restaurant.
She's all excited 'n all. And you can see her on her cellphone by the Maitre' dee, askin' ye fer final directions:
"How will I recognize you?"
"Well, ahem, I'm at table number 14."
You can see as her eyes count the tables and finally reach your table.
The look of confusion as she starts to count again.
"All's I see is a DUCK."
You blush involuntarily.
"Why yes, that'd be me.."
Now I can see how 25 years can come and go without getting lucky.
Funny, ye kin never keep their attention long enough to get 'em back to your place and get'em in the mood by watchin' your video of "Howard the Duck."
Danged picky human girls. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 7:59:16 PM | Just the same, I'd be a little more circumspect about advertisin' that you wuz a virgin.
Some fellers from some Island nation, wearin' bones through their noses, might be wantin' to introduce you to their Volcano-God.
By the By:
To all you virgins out there...
THANKS FER NUTHIN! | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:03:05 PM | | un****able* thats sad* u call yourself un****able* u dont have much self-esteem in yourself* suck it up and go say hi to a girl maybe you will get lucky | |
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