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go to tijuana man......problem solved
So you can pick up an eleven year old girl forced into prostitution? | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 11/24/2011 10:53:23 AM | You don't handle it. We're in 2011. Go hang yourself. RIGHT NOW.
Seriously, who cares? No one's going to find out if you dont tell them...and its not a thing to hide anyways, who gives a crap?
I've never had sex with a virgin before, from what I here it gets bloody,a nd although I've seen lots of blood in my time, my bedroom isnt I place I want to repeat the experience in LOL | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 11/24/2011 3:52:15 PM |
Hey Capn America
do us all a favor and use your own advise
Aw come on, can`t you take a joke? 
Well, I could always use my own advice and hang you, but I'm the pacifist type now, so I don't do that stuff anymore
But you missed the point, point is, who cares if your a virgin? Go be a virgin, be everything you can be, it changes nothing to your personnality. I've met 40yold virgins, just by happenstance, and they werent as weird and screwed up as other non virgins I met | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 1/9/2012 5:43:05 PM | I am still a virgin at 40 and it has not been a problem for me. I never planned on being a virgin this long. My reason for being a virgin is that I have an Aspergers challenge that makes me shy in social gatherings and hard to meet woman. When I was set up on a dates I would say the wrong thing or be to nice of a guy for her.  I am still hoping to meet and have a life partner.   I just have to try different ways to do that.  | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 1/9/2012 10:18:19 PM | | just go to a hooker or escort, i would not think less of you at all, especially because of your age, besides, there is no initiation involved in that, no stupid tests, mind-games, conversation, talking involved, it's just a simple bam-wham and thank you ma'am. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 7/7/2012 10:00:16 AM | oy vey
Im only 24 so hopefully I will find someone worth bangin lol by that time.
It isnt easy though alot of temptation but all that for 2 mins of heavy breathing, slapping and rubbing? no thanks I want passion, deep love and chemistry so I will wait til then :/ | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 7/7/2012 10:21:11 AM | Gads, where do kids this idea that virginity is akin to some sort of disease.
Me, I was a virgin til 30, even through several serious relationships. And, yes, this was post sexual revolution, even back then.
While sex is part of a healthy long term relationship (i.e., marriage) placing too great an emphasis on the physical before the emotional skews the balance of what makes for success. Are there outliers? Of course. Or so I've heard. I have yet to meet one. What I do know is that in none of the long term relationships I've known was there a history of promiscuity.
Try before you buy; kick the tires; test drive; etc., why oh why.
And then there's "are we sexually compatible?" I am the first to admit I am not that experienced but I cannot imagine that the quality of sex I share with a lover (lover!) the first few times is indicative of the satisfaction we would know as the relationship deepened.
So, put your unease concerning virginity on the back burner and live life fully.
TK | |
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Posted: 7/7/2012 5:02:24 PM |
I was a virgin til 30, even through several serious relationships. But not serious enough to marry.. how did the women you were in a 'serious' relationship with feel about dating a virgin? Were they virgins as well? | |
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Posted: 7/7/2012 5:38:03 PM |
But not serious enough to marry.. how did the women you were in a 'serious' relationship with feel about dating a virgin? Were they virgins as well?
Is this a serious query, or a snarky remark?
Perhaps I was selective about whom I dated, but 30 - 40 years ago it just did not seem to be the sort of pressure we are surrounded by and experience today.
The first lady we were not ready for marriage - university and poor as church mice, and as time moved on so did we; another lady, dancer, probably not a virgin, certainly more experienced than I, we met rowing crew in Seattle, very physical lady, very sensuous, hmm, up and left for Hawaii quite suddenly; eventually, reacquainted with the university lady and we married.
Honeymoon night was, yes, awkward yet exhilarating as we found out all our parts did indeed fit. Ikea has nothing to compare: tab M slides into slot F.
TK | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 2:04:42 PM | I was a virgin at 30 years old. Really.
And I handled it just fine.
What I miss most about it is the things I could quickly learn about people according to their shallow reactions, assumptions, and ideas when I revealed my status. It was pretty damned entertaining, and sad. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 4:59:28 PM | | Men who are still virgins at age 18 need to find an escort to take care of this problem. That way when you do finally get a girl who isn't doing it for the money you won't look like a loser who doesn't know what to do. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2012 6:07:14 PM | | Doesn't anybody think about STD rates anymore, or does everybody but me have an STD? I have next to no sex life, but I also don't have an STD mess to go along with it. STDs are expensive and harmful in so many ways. Then you have to look down the road at your kids who are born with those STDs...they will always wonder why they have this disease others don't...were their parents irresponsible. Herpes still transfers through condoms and things can happen where the condom breaks. You have to also look at when your so old that nobody wants to have sex with you anymore and all you have is STD(s). Also, if your a guy, women can pull any number of sexual harassment claims on you and the government/court systems are almost always on the woman's side because the guy is expected to make the first move...I don't even want to risk making any move and have been single for almost five years. I'm not going to lie, I spent a lot of time studying and not much dating so that I could make a living; I hate my life, but I have too much of a conscience and there are so many other problems, I don't want to deal with in taking the risks that most guys take. Making a living comes before a chance at a woman that will probably reject me anyways. There are SOOO many consequences that come along with just having sex to have sex or to loose your virginity...Being a 25 year old virgin is something you should be proud of, but in this backward ass society with a bunch of insecure people and too sexually experienced women, it's not for a man. So many stupid women want experience and confidence, but those women will also get a set of diseases and drama with it. If I'm going to have sex with someone...I want it to mean something. | |
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| how do u handle being a virgin past 25
Posted: 7/15/2012 12:28:13 PM | smh.
Im 25 and still a virgin.
It isn't bad, but i do hate it sometimes.
I've dated & everytime i would tell the person i was dating i was a virgin, they'd lose interest due to my lack of experience..or thought i was "weird" in someway.
Either that, or i'd get the pity response "you should wait for someone special"
....uh, im 25..you don't think i've waited long enough? | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 6:35:38 PM | ....uh, im 25..you don't think i've waited long enough?
I think it depends on why you are waiting. If you have a religious conviction then another girl who is a virgin will value your virginity. It is refreshing to hear that many of you are still virgins and over 20. It scares me for health reasons how so many ( young and old) will hook up with people randomly and not consider their health or that of another. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2012 7:09:10 PM | | Geez, this is one of the things that entertained me when I was a virgin. I wasn't "waiting" for anything. I wasn't trying to remain a virgin. I likewise wasn't trying to lose it just for the sake of losing it, like it was some kind of disease. I like women, am definately heterosexual, and have a healthy and capable appetite...but I'm not going to f**k something just because it's there. If a woman is dingy or uninteresting in any of the ways that so many of them are, or has that problem of having some basic sense in how to approach each other and conversate, I'm not going to be turned on. Did I want to have sex when I was a virgin? Yes, I did. But getting with someone just because they're there, and when that someone seems to be ditsy, boring, or a game player...is not any kind of sex that I think is worth my time. | |
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