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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 9:35:21 AM | AprilThunder said:
"In the real world, I have no problem attracting the ladies. On these sites, I have a much different reaction. I can't help but wonder, is it my profile has problems? or is it the ladies receive so much email that they can't be bothered to send one? or???
I have been contacted by 3 women from this website who I didn't know. Oddly enough, the 3 other women who contacted me already know me. The point I'm trying to make is this - it's easier to approach someone who is familiar, regardless of their gender. Men and women both do it.
It's easier to 'flirt' with someone you've been introduced to at a house party for example than it is a total stranger with no introduction. But I'll say again, nothing ventured - nothing gained. | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 9:37:51 AM | When women approach me here, it results in a date in the majority of cases - almost without exception actually, if they meet the things I am looking for.
The opposite is never the case. | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 1:22:52 PM | | Personally, all of my life I have hit on guys. A lot of men looked at this girl next door face of mine and didn't believe that I was serious. So, I use to try again. Now days ....if I hit on them once and dont get a response ....I stop. That is just my way. No sense in making myself feel like a fool. I have come to realize that men still want to be the hunters, so I left them make the first move.....you will hardly see me making the first move on a guy anymore. I get so many more men wanting to just talk to me...if I play the shy one and let them decide for themselves. | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 2:40:00 PM | @bucsgirl:
Our little country here just might be ripe for a shakeup. Not too much military to get in the way. Except that people like you who are blessed with too much good old common sense never seem to wind up running countries, anywhere...
OT
@whisperatnight
I'm again puzzled by my species. Being approached by someone like you would certainly be a dream come true in my book. | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 2:42:55 PM | | tunes Thanks hon. Don't know if I'd make a good politician I'm not good at lying to people or taking money. It would TRULY be a shakeup though, that I can promise you. And I agree whisper is a lovely lady, any man that could turn her down oughta get his head checked for leakage! | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 3:04:48 PM | @bucsgirl:
And I agree whisper is a lovely lady, any man that could turn her down oughta get his head checked for leakage!
I've noticed that the streets and sidewalks are much more slippery than they used to be. I wonder whether this might be causing it?
@Montreal_Guy:
Bucs or Martin? Who do you think would be better? | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 3:20:18 PM | Ah rats tunes!! Didn't realize you are from Canada!! I was talking about tearing up the White House....hahaha I think we seriously need a woman Prez.
Slippery streets...haha you're a funny guy!!
OT: Men should be gracious to any woman who hits on them as women should always display the same grace and respect. Unless either is being crude about it!! Even though traditionally men make the first move, consider that a lady being brave enough to walk up to you deserves at least a polite answer and not to be treated as if she's overly agressive or desperate. Just say whatever you need to to give her the message but do be considerate of her feelings. I think that's what women want and are afraid of, men too. If you can't give someone a dignified polite turndown, then call your mother, she'll tell you what to do!! | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 3:51:06 PM | @ bucsgirl:
I love all your posts here (and elsewhere), but this last one hits it out of the ballpark. Whether anyone likes to be hit on or not, a dignified polite turndown isn't so much to expect.
OT: Can't pretend to understand those who don't like being hit on as it is a compliment. Don't have to like the other person or the method used, but at least appreciate the compliment that the person thought something of you and had the guts to do something about it instead of admiring from afar and letting an opportunity slip by. | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 4:05:51 PM | love Thanks for the kind words.
OT: Really now aren't we all adults and shouldn't we expect adult behavior. If you get "hit on" or approached and the approach is considerate and not tacky or lewd, then give them a polite response. Make your parents proud. | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 4:11:35 PM | i usually have success when i hit on a guy, it doesn't always work out that we want the same things from each other however... gawd I'm so tired of flings and people not straight-talking!!  lol | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 5:19:45 PM | montreal and bugsy If I saw you guys out, heck I wouldn't even ask, I' d just grab your arm and take you to my car and be off with you!! hahaha
OT: Alright ladies, we've heard it, they like it they want it. So let's give it to them!! | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 5:21:21 PM | Well, to maintain my male pride, I would put up a struggle....for 10 seconds.
Don't want anyone to think I'm too easy. 
( Stands in flight suit on carrier deck)
"BRING IT ON !!!!! " | |
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| Do guys take kindly to a women hitting on them?
Posted: 8/14/2005 5:39:30 PM | montreal looks like bucsgirl hits on/strikes from behind, so you wouldn't have time to react any way. like the black widow, once she has you there is no escape. wow what a dream that would be. | |
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