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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 9/12/2005 9:34:27 AM | okay here is the deal, all those qualities are awesome to have. It is nice and refreshing to hear that stuff, but it sends up red flags to us. Sometimes you can be too affectionate or too sensitive. No one wants a guy who is going to profess their undying love to us with in an hour of meeting us. Sometimes guys have the tendency to smother women. We are emotional creatures but really, we arent emotional in the same way.
so if you can be affectionate and sensitive in moderation you are awesome, if not then women are going to be put off by that to some extent.
(that is just my oppinion...dont bash me with hate emails) | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 9/12/2005 10:20:03 AM | | Its funny but I have found that men/women seem to say one thing on here,but when you meet they come across different.Hmmmm unless I'm meeting their twin.what do you think ..ladies/gentlemen.Or could it be that at my age I am just reading something into the profiles that really isn't there.But than I have notice its easy to tell and hear what makes one feel good.But there is so much more to a relationship.It seems these sights bring out the players and thats sad.As to the reason for this forum.Yes guys I think most of us would be very lucky to get a sensitive,compassionate,effectionate man or woman.But wouldn't it have been easier to just say one thats respects others feelings,You know treat others as you want to be treated. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 9/12/2005 11:10:48 AM | Are they sought after? No. Relax I am just teaseing. Yes normaly...someday you will find someone...If it takes awile to get a good one, just relax and enjoy finding a good one. Most girls will be attracted to a man that they see is nice, and don't act like they are tring to be. Some day you will see. She is out there looking just like you are. When you least expect it, she will pop up. So stay the sweet person you say you are, and good luck. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 9/13/2005 11:26:11 PM | | Bitsy, I don't buy that line about players and head games and any of the other cliche things that people put into their profiles. It is not easy to learn about another person. You might have missed out on a great person because you thought that he was a frog and always would be so. It just takes a lot more patience than people are willing to give. People also have to have more respect for boundaries. Even the apparently sensitive guys push for instant dates and then call us bit*hes because we are not chomping at the bait. People are complicated creatures and we have different ways to try to narrow down who we would like to let into our lives. If I hear another "I'm not into head games...players ..."I don't know. I'm out of here. It fits in with all of the people who like to walk on the beach, eat by candle/moon light, sunsets, holding hands. The obvious is shared in the profiles. The individualist fails to describe what makes him so. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 9/13/2005 11:32:59 PM | Do women want sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men? Does anyone even know what such a creature looks like? Do you men who claim to be all of these things even know who and what you are and have you ever really taken a close look at your personalities, listened to the things that you say here in these forums and out there in the world?
1. Sensitive: is both a positive and a negative personality trait. Be careful what you wish for. Being sensitive implies a nice, caring person who is likely considerate, understanding and mindful of others. However, he also tends to take things too seriously, too personally, is touchy or tends to overreact emotionally.
2. So, you say you are compassionate. Then you have a tendency to be sympathetic and merciful but also to show pity for others. And who really wants you to pity them? You also complain and invite or welcome pity. Pitiable.
3. Affectionate guy also? So, you have a warm regard. You display a loving fondness towards your lover – like a brother. Nice, very nice. Affection is a positive feeling of liking. I want a boyfriend who treats me like a sister. NOT!
Conclusion: sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men might be considerate of your feelings. He will pity you just as much as he pities himself – feeling hard-done-by. When he takes something that you say too personally, he will dump you – probably over email because he is too emotional to face you and wants to show pity for himself as much as for you. When things are going well, he is warm and affectionate. He likes to cuddle. He’ll snuggle with you like a puppy, a child, brother, sister, friend, teddy bear, your old snugly blanket. Yah sure, I want to be someone’s snugly blanket…. Or sister replacement.
Bottom line on this stuff, there are millions of personality tests on the web. If you believe that you know who you are because you, in your ultimate wisdom and insightful nature, have decided that you are sensitive, compassionate and affectionate, why not just double check by doing a quick personality test. What do you have to lose if you keep finding that you are being passed over? NOTE: There a many free tests.
You guys that are glomming together, patting each other on the butt and saying, “Yah brother, I know what you mean. Women don’t appreciate me either. So obviously these masses of idiotic and pitiful women want mean jerks.” You guys sound nasty – nasty. Resentful. Bitter. Do you really want to invite pity through these threads? If so, I guess that all of the above is true and why would a woman want you.
I want a freind -- an equal.
And women, you too be careful what you wish for. Listen between the lines and beware of men who are easily moved to anger. Take care of yourselves. Just because a man claims to be sweet and sensitive – well, read Little Red Riding Hood again.
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/19/2006 1:48:50 PM | Women say, and crave, affection.
BUT
An extremely effective propaganda campaign, by a few manhaters, who have the sheeer nerve to call themselves feminists, has convinced most of the worlds women that
1/ All sex, including sex in marriage is rape
and
2/ All affection is harrassment.
This sometimes goes to ridiculous extremes. Try this one.
Texas Child Suspended After Hugging Aide
WACO, Texas — School administrators gave a 4-year-old student an in-school suspension for inappropriately touching a teacher's aide after the pre-kindergartner hugged the woman.
A letter from La Vega school district administrators to the student's parents said that the boy was involved in "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment" after he hugged the woman and he "rubbed his face in the chest of (the) female employee" on Nov. 10.
DaMarcus Blackwell, the father of the boy who attends La Vega Primary School, said he filed a complaint with the district. He said that his son doesn't understand why he was punished.
"When I got that letter, my world flipped," Blackwell said in a story in Sunday's editions of the Waco Tribune-Herald.
La Vega school district officials said student privacy laws prevented them from commenting.
After Blackwell filed a complaint, a subsequent letter from the district said the offense had been changed to "inappropriate physical contact" and removed references of sexual contact or sexual harassment from the boy's file.
Administrators said the district's student handbook contains no specific guidelines referring to contact between teachers and students but does state that inappropriate physical contact will result in a discipline referral.
Texas Child Suspended After Hugging Aide
WACO, Texas — School administrators gave a 4-year-old student an in-school suspension for inappropriately touching a teacher's aide after the pre-kindergartner hugged the woman.
A letter from La Vega school district administrators to the student's parents said that the boy was involved in "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment" after he hugged the woman and he "rubbed his face in the chest of (the) female employee" on Nov. 10.
DaMarcus Blackwell, the father of the boy who attends La Vega Primary School, said he filed a complaint with the district. He said that his son doesn't understand why he was punished.
"When I got that letter, my world flipped," Blackwell said in a story in Sunday's editions of the Waco Tribune-Herald.
La Vega school district officials said student privacy laws prevented them from commenting.
After Blackwell filed a complaint, a subsequent letter from the district said the offense had been changed to "inappropriate physical contact" and removed references of sexual contact or sexual harassment from the boy's file.
Administrators said the district's student handbook contains no specific guidelines referring to contact between teachers and students but does state that inappropriate physical contact will result in a discipline referral. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/19/2006 1:55:03 PM | okay here is the deal, all those qualities are awesome to have. It is nice and refreshing to hear that stuff, but it sends up red flags to us. Sometimes you can be too affectionate or too sensitive. No one wants a guy who is going to profess their undying love to us with in an hour of meeting us. Sometimes guys have the tendency to smother women. We are emotional creatures but really, we arent emotional in the same way.
so if you can be affectionate and sensitive in moderation you are awesome, if not then women are going to be put off by that to some extent.
(that is just my oppinion...dont bash me with hate emails)
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Now you have a problem m dear.
When guys tell you the truth, (which I am about to do) your ego won't tolerate the fact that you are ignorant and it keeps telling you, from inside your head, that this is a hate e mail and should be ignored.
Now here is the truth. It is more than possible for a guy to be genuinely in love with you within an hour of meeting you.
British Admirial Teddy Evans (Last man back from Captain Scotts ill fated Antartic mission) had returned to London and was at some formal dinner. He had been seated beside a young woman as aristocratic as he was, and, althugh he knew who she was, he had never bet her before.
He spoke to her for the first time during the soup course, proposed to her during the fish course, and his proposal had been accepted by the end of the meal.
You problem is that you still think that romance is meant to follow a schedule. Nothing further from the truth. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/19/2006 1:59:20 PM | | I love it when a man is sensitive, but he must be decent-looking as well. I'd have zero interest in a nice man if he was physically unattractive. My boyfriend is attractive on the inside and out, and I don't think I should settle for less. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/19/2006 2:49:06 PM | LADIES…
PLEASE CLOSE YOUR EARS & COVER YOUR EYEYS>>>
I have a name for you little man and it is called PLAYER!!!!
If you think that blowing smoke up the ladies *** is going to win them over, you need to also know that most woman despise being played, and little man, I call a spade a spade and I can see right through you.
What you wrote is very visible to a real man that you are just simply using this forum as a cheap plea to win over women with cheap words which come across like cheap cologne.
Grab some balls and be a man, show some confidence and some self respect, and then maybe you will get some respect and attention from real ladies looking for real men.
Only attention you deserve right know is to be treated like a boy.
MY TWO CENTS...
RANGER JIM | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/19/2006 2:59:42 PM | I disagree... sensitive men arent wimps-- but there are different levels of emotions that everyone expresses.
Whats sensitive to one person may be smothering to another. Some people want to talk ALL the time, others are content with actions to express caring.
Read the book "The five love languages" it may provide some insight.
And lastly, some people are extremely out of touch with themselves, and though they think they're considerate and caring- they may not actually be. | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/19/2006 10:45:10 PM | OP: Just my opinion,,,,, You sound like a really nice guy with some great values, but as a woman I see in from the female world. All I see for the most part are women saying they want a kind, loving, sensitive, caring man BLAH BLAH BLAH!!!!! But for the most part their actions show what they truly want is a bad boy that is gonna kick their ass everyday of the week,,,,,LOL,,, NOW PLEASE ALL WOMEN DO NOT ATTACK ,,,,, Their are good women I just beleive for the most part women never really know what they want. I come from the south where women are taught from a very young age to give a man the respect he deserves. Maybe that sounds like the old way of life but I can tell you this it worked for me I was happily married for 21 years until my husband passed away. And he was one of those nice guys so not all women are searching for ***holes but I do think alot of women today are very confused about what they want.......GEORGIA GURL,,,,, | |
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| Sensitive, compassionate and affectionate men, are we sought after?
Posted: 12/20/2006 12:05:30 AM | i'm a sensitive type and fortunate enough
to have a fair amount of female attention in my life,but women
do have mixed feelings about this type--
after all we'r all influenced by the data in our genes, just as men are
sometimes over preoccupied by large breasts [in the
old days it meant more milk for the babies,better chance for
survival], women still in many cases linger over macho and sometimes
deadly men[ hence the popular myth about attraction
to bad boys]. when people used to live in caves, and in medieval days, sensitive
men often didnt survive battlefields, so women
unconsciously and otherwise selected men who were better at fighting
and
hunting....the ability to write poetry was more optional
now society is changing and we sensitive men are
coming out! with guns blazing!!!!
just kidding guys,,,,,,lets be compassionate to everyone with
whatever qualities they may have
bottom line---sometimes its good to be sensitive, sometimes
toughness is the order of the day | |
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