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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 10/22/2009 6:36:21 PM | My former girlfriend use to set the mood in her bedroom, light a scented candle, put on some of that peaceful mind relaxing music and start acting more sensual. It was nice having her focus on me through this way. I realize she was getting what she wanted but was all good regardless.
I actually purchased a book because I had no idea how to give a women what they want. It was a good thing cause it gave me a few ideas into the workings of a womens mind and what they want from thier man. We are clueless, we try but its true we think completely different in many regards. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 10/22/2009 7:04:04 PM | One woman asked why didn't the guys leave?
Good question.
If a guy wants a woman he has to accept the fact that she will give less and be the more selfish one. There is no way around this. A man who is dating has already accepted this. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 10/23/2009 10:15:37 PM | Some ppl like to please and some do something different...no two men or women are the same.
I have always been very romantic to the "One" in my heart...but found the men not to be as romantic (poor choices, who knows)...but as one who is a giver, this never bothered me.
It makes me feel good to be this way...so back to what I first said...
^^^As for "Women being more selfish" it goes both ways...^^^
There are "GIVERS and TAKERS"
You just have to hope to find the same romantic kind of partner.
Heres to hopeing... | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 10/23/2009 10:21:51 PM | No it doesn't go both ways. Of course men might be selfish but that is the exception.
Just think about all men do for women. Men provide, protect and nurture MORE than women do, give more emotional support, act chivalrous, give more affection, give more in bed, accommodate women more than vice versa, are easier to please and deal with, are less critical of women, initiate everything, pay for everything etc etc etc
Most women date multiple men and always keep back up options. The average dude doesn't have as many women chasing him as the average women has men chasing her. Men don't even get to pick who to have sex with. Men display women choose. Men bear 100% of the rejection.
Women always marry up (financially and in terms of looks/personality), are always more picky and always have more partners.
Women are the center of sexual attention not men. Women can't even give men this type of attention and we're supposed to believe women are giving men romance? | |
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1jamez
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Joined: 3/21/2009
Msg: 431 | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:18:00 PM | Im definitely a giver, and until now I found another giver.. weeee. Its about time, took me a while to find someone who would appreciate all the little details I did. Drawn bath, home cooked meals, full massages, foot rubs (dont meant to toot my horn there, but I rock in that department). The thing is that once I notice someone is unappreciative, they get to heat their leftovers in the microwave and will sleep in the couch for good (ask ex husband how comfortable the couch was for 3 yrs). So be appreciative of the little things your lover does, be it a small poem, or washing the dishes. This goes both ways..always. Tender Loving Care. xox  | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:26:09 PM | Men being selfish the exception? In what world? I have had many a selfish lover, and I was beginning to think you men are devoid of emotions. Or learn to hide them pretty well, but then I met a couple great guys. I actually got looked over by my first choice fishy when I was in here, cause he assumed I was a party going 30 yr old. I'm tired of ppl assuming things without finding out. Dont assume, you make an ass out of me and u. It goes both ways because men can actually juggle several women at a time, date and call them all honey/baby/sweetie/ instead of their first names, have million excuses why they cant see you saturday night, or why they cant stay over the whole night...etc. I can go on and on, but im sure you have a story for each rebuttal. The point is that both men and women who aren't empathic and compassionate, care for anything but themselves. So if you attract those kind of people, take a hard look at what you are offering also. | |
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