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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/15/2005 5:08:38 PM | Well, I have only known one really romantic woman....lots of talk, but only one who did anything about it.
When we broke up after a couple of years of living together, she had a buddy of mine take me downtown and was supposed to lead me around and then drop me off at the Hotel Vancouver at a designated time - he wasn't very subtle or devious so I figured out something was up immediately. All I knew was I had to ask the front desk for her....they gave me a room key - the honeymoon suite.
When I got there, she was lounging on a settee in red lingerie, had a bowl of fresh, chocolate covered strawberries and champagne, had run a hot tub and was ready to go for about a day or so.
That was clearly the greatest break-up I've ever had.....hands down. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/15/2005 5:40:11 PM | I DON'T BELIEVE YOU GIRLS OUT THERE. I HAVE A WONDERFUL GUY. ( MET HIM ON PLENTY OF FISH. I THINK YOU SHOULD GIVE HIM A BACK RUB , WITH WARM OIL. IF HE CAN DEAL WITH IT,GIVE HIM A BUBBLE BATH,THAT YOU OOPS FALL INTO ABOUT HALF WAY THROUGH WEAR NICE CLOTHES FOR HIM AND I DON'T MEEN JUST OUTER WEAR. LOTS OF SILK AND LACE. IN RED AND BLACK. MY GUY LIKES BLACE. HE ALWAYS SENDS ME INTIMATE E-MALIL ALWAYS SEXY. WHEN I TALK TO HIM ON THEPHONE HE TRIES TO LEAVE ME PANTING- BECAUSE INSIDE WHAT HE IS SAYING THERE IS ALWAYS A PLAYFUL SEXY DESIRE AND HE IS TELLING ME WHAT HE WANTS. AND WHAT TURNS HIM ON. TO TELL THE TRUTH,I THINK MOST WOMEN ARE SHY OR BACKWARD WHEN IT COMES TO PLEASING THEIR MAN.I KNOW I WAS. THEN I LEARNED HOW TO GO ABOUT PLEASING MY GUY. AND I THINK IT IS BETTER BALANCED. SO GOOD LUCK GIRLS. AND REMEMBER TO PRACTICE AND LEARN TECHNIQUES FOR TURNING YOUR MAN INT A PERSON WHO CAN'T GET ENOUGH bye: MAVIS | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/15/2005 5:59:07 PM | Isn't romancing a man like, giving him a beer, feeding him and his buds on Super Bowl Sunday.. then standing back quietly so they can acctually watch the game. When the game is over, giving "it" up, and if his team won.. giving "it" up without the after cuddle?
Tell me I don't know how to romance a man!
*kidding*
I happen to know men secretly like flowers delivered to their work... for no reason. And it is an extra bonus if you write something sexy on the card that makes mention of how awesome they were the night before.  | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/16/2005 4:04:06 PM | Yup!
Looks like at lease a couple of the women who've visited this thread have given the topic some thought, and acted on those thoughts too! I always believed, too, that most women thought "romance" was all about the man and what he could or would do for them. I really don't think too many women think they need to or should consider being romantic TOWARDS a man! BAD ATTITUDE GIRLS!!! Listen up! LOL!! Romance is a two way street ..... and even if men don't "expect" it, they're bound to enjoy it!
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/16/2005 4:24:51 PM | Mystry ....
{BIG SMILE} ..... I really didn't have to say anything at all! You've said so many things perfectly attuned to the subject in this thread (and several others too!) so ELOQUENTLY that my comments are pretty superfluous. Thanks ....... you're obviously a kindred spirit! 
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/16/2005 8:01:04 PM | My idea of a romantic evening................
A lobster dinner ..paid for by her....
followed by a long walk....(she whispers she is not wearing knickers)
A game of pool (she lets me win)...LOL
Back to my place .....fun with soap & suds in the shower
slow un hurried lovemaking.......
The year 1989 does evoke some fond memories. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/16/2005 9:09:24 PM | Well, my bedroom is romantic for me, and if he notices, then more power to him. I have thick comforters and pillows, a burgundy canopy and middle eastern lantern hanging from the center. Before my date gets there I spray the sheets with rose linen spray, light tea lights and have his beer on ice by his side of the bed, and his snack of choice. I rent a movie I think may interest him then we watch all of fifteen mins of it before I boink his brains out.
And we won't even mention if he stays for breakfast, except pecan waffles and mimosas? Yum, as good as he WAS!
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/17/2005 1:43:47 AM | WHOA!
I'm a huge romantic!! The last guy I dated really got to enjoy the full extent of how romantic I can be! There was a couple of nights, after he had gotten off work, when walking out to his car, only to find a dozen roses underneath his windshield wipers! I think MORE women need to give MEN flowers/roses - - - it's wonderful to see the reaction on their faces! Most men are astonished by it, mainly because they NEVER recieve them....but GIVE them! I love leaving little surprises - like little love notes - tucked away in "his" wallet, near the cash, so later during the day, when he goes to eat lunch, he'll find that note! I know I love to get 'em (though rarely does it ever happen), so why not return the favor!
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/17/2005 2:34:24 AM | the biggest misconception that men have about romance is that they think it involves DOING something romantic as in writing poetry, planing a romantic getaway with bells and whistles, etc etc. You can simple SAY romantic things with as much weight as performing some intricate romantic ritual. They aren't romantic 99% of the time and turn one day out of the year into a romancefest that involves like 500 things for her in ONE day.
Romance is a process that evolves, it includes spoken words such as "your eyes sparkle when you smile" to writing small love notes for her where she can find them such as a simple "Thinking of you".
Romantic acts and gestures when they ARE a part of your life are simple and very easy to perform. They do not have to be a marathon session of romantic gestures all piled into one day and the other 364 days are as barren of romance as a desert.
You eat and sleep every day, romance should be a natural part of your life just like brushing your teeth are. Imagine being with a person that throughout your dealings with them manages to show or say romantic gestures that don't feel like "ok I did my romance part, now where is my sex?" lol
Romance, above all, does not imply you are expecting anything in return. If you overdo romance it will cheapen its effect just as NOT doing it will leave a women to feel unloved.
Another big mistake guys make when they show or do romantic gestures is to downplay it with humor like she is part of your comedy act. There is a time and place for humor and romance should be fun but take the time to make it hearthfelt and curtail your need to be the comedian of the hour when you do them.
When you mix romance and comedy you will come across as a goof and the romantic gesture will not have the level of respect she deserves to have the romantic gesture enveloped in. Downplay the comedy and amp up the intent. I can't stress this enough. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/17/2005 5:41:57 AM | ^^^^ Good points Mr Fly!
Speaking for myself, I may add the "humor" as part of being nervous about how the gesture might be accepted. So really it is my own temporary lack of self confidence. Typically that changes as the relationship grows.
And indeed, overdoing it lessens the impact of the gesture. But who defines overdoing it? | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/17/2005 6:34:56 AM | | yes I hear ya, but a romantic gesture is something that develops as a part of who you are as a being. If your nervous, you shouldn't be because she might accept it the wrong way. A heartfelt gesture comes from the heart and an equally receptive heart to the gesture WILL get it. A heart that doesn't, won't get it, so you have lost nothing. Nothing from nothing still leaves nothing but at least you don't compromise who you are. I hope that makes sense. | |
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| Why Is It Women Don't Seem To Know How To ROMANCE A Man?
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:29:18 AM | Passionfly, you said it exactly. Romance should become part of your every day life. Its the little things that add up. Just a note, or a simple single flower, doesnt even have to be a rose, just a wild flower, waking up early and bringing a cup of coffee to bed for them. I could go on and on. There are so many ways. And Yes I even do the big things for my man. I have bought a wonderful dinner, then taken him home run a nice bubble bath, massage, and anything his heart desires from that point on. But it truely is the little things that stick with you thru out the relationship.
Thanks for putting it in such wonderful context Passonfly.
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