| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/19/2008 6:12:31 PM |
Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
I think some people can cheat on those they are in love with. Some people just make really really dumb decisions. I also can see how a guy might have difficulty keeping it in his pants if a beautiful woman was offering to ravage him in a million new ways, especially if he was already drunk to begin with. But just because I can see how it could happen doesn't mean that it is okay or that he should be forgiven for it.
I personally couldn't cheat on someone even if I was not in love with him. Cheating is just one of those things that I could never do. I'm not sure I could promise I'd never fall for another person, but I'd end my current relationship long before I allowed anything physical (or even emotional) to happen with someone else. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/19/2008 6:52:57 PM | | i agree if u truly love someone cheating u couldnt do it..unless that person drove you 2 it which is possible but if u have a relatively loving relationship and truly loved sum1 ucouldnt cheat | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/20/2008 7:54:56 AM | Hmmmmm... can you? hmmmm... can? Based on our physical capabilities, the answer is by and large yes, one CAN...
would?... there is the question... would you? This is based on the mental/emotional/moral attributes of a person and that reply is going to be individualistic and only right for the one answering the question.
Would I cheat on the person whom I love? No, this I wouldn't do because when I love, it is with all of me... my heart, my mind and my body - to me, the physical (sex) is a part of the love. And this is right for me.
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/20/2008 9:03:35 AM | | i could never cheat even if i didnt love them so my answer is NO!!!!!.Ive never cheated or had a one nite stand ...ok so now you can bash me , sorry i have morals and standards..wait im not sorry !!!!!! | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/20/2008 9:15:09 AM | Would I? No.
However, you can love someone and still be unhappy about some of the things they do or don't do, or about how they treat you. I'd say it's possible, because it's possible to have a weak moment or lapse in judgment. Some people can even keep control through those times, but some fail. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/20/2008 10:21:30 AM | Cheating is the cowards way. Why do people cheat? Because they are unsatisfied, unhappy or just low class, yet they don't want to surrender the security of their marriage. That is unacceptable and demonstrates no consideration for your spouse or significant other.
If you are so unsatified or unhappy as to need to be intimate with another, annouce to your spouse or significant other that you want a separation. Then go do what you want, however you risk losing your relationship. You will then discover which you desire more. I have known couples who did this and by doing so rediscovered how much they loved each other. The grass is always greener. Maintaining a long term relationship can be tiring work, however, being single is no piece of cake either.
If a spouse or significant other has been a loyal, steadfast companion and you secretly violate that trust, what does that make you? | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:31:49 AM | | I love my wife to bits...We've only been married 3 years but known each other for 10 years......I would do anything for my wife and try to give her everything she wants, but saying that, when it comes to sex, we just dont seem to be compatiable......She usually wants it once or if im licky twice a month, I just need more. I havnt done anything about it yet, I have just registered with this site and I wouldnt want my wife to find out, I wouldnt wanna hurt her, but I just need more of an active sex life,,....And yes, I have tried to talk to her about it but she says shes just not into it....Well I am, Ive told her this and shes said I should go get SAFE sex elswhere....I havnt discussed it again and im gonna just take her word literally...I love her but I need more!!!!! | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/20/2008 11:45:42 AM | absolutely you can love someone and cheat on them. its not as simple as saying if you love them you wont cheat on them and if you do you must not really love them. women with-hold sex from all the time, i call it the power of Pu$$y. now im not saying all women are like this so dont fly off the handle. but women use it against there S.O.
so after a while when a man hasnt been satisfied he may not look for the opportunity but if it comes along its alot harder than you think to say no. i dont personally like cheating but when your not satisfied at home, you will get it somewhere else, even if you are in love with your S.O. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/21/2008 8:23:52 AM | Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
^^^ would you like it if it were done to you? i am guessing the answer would be heck NO. loyalty and respect is rare now days but i still believe in it because its who i am. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/27/2008 12:47:43 AM | | I would say no! if you are get what you need and you are giving what she needs it sould be all good, but that rarly happens, if you feel the need to cheat there is a problem! if you can fix the problem, fantastic! if you can't...move on. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/27/2008 1:22:10 AM | yes you can... sometimes a person may do so if they feel neglected and the person may actually turn to someone else for comfort... people sometimes do this when they feel the relationship is falling apart...
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/27/2008 4:12:22 AM | | Its called being selfish, immature and thoughtless. Im not sure if it has anything to do with love, it has more to do with respecting yourself and the person you're with. I guess disrespect and love don't go hand in hand, anyway. I could be wrong. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/27/2008 8:49:48 PM | | If you're the cheating kind sure...these kinds of people just lack any element of compassion and only think about their needs...if you're not the cheating kind...then no. If they love you and try to win you back...it's not because he truly loves you and has learnt his lesson...once again it's only about satisfying his needs...once it's satisfied then he's off again...so yes it is possible because they lack the compassion gene and so his actions are irrespective of how much he feels for you. Unless the care and love can get soo deep that the compassion gene kicks in...that could be possible. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/29/2008 10:38:32 PM | People cheat bc they are greedy, selfish and fearful. They want to keep what they've got but they're afraid if they're honest about they're greediness, they'll lose the person. So they decide to cheat instead. Either that or they cheat to punish the other person. Cheaters are weak. I hate to judge too harshly though bc everyone is capable of doing unsavory things. But it usually comes down to fear. And i think by definition fear and love cannot exist at the same time. love conquers fear. fear induces cheating. something must have gone down hill before the cheating though. i'm rambling. what was the question? | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/30/2008 5:50:11 AM | Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
The answer is NO.
People ask why do men/women cheat.......the answer is simple...the man/woman does not love his/her girlfirned/boyfriend/spouse. its jsut that simple. When you love someone you dont wnat to ever hurt them especially by cheating on them. so instead of asking why or how could you, you should be asking for divorce instead (if married), no if, ands, or buts. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 10/30/2008 11:44:05 PM | Kittenhere
that is the overall point when you get down to it...
if you truly do love someone you certainly don't want to hurt them... but then there are those that are not healthy mentally of spiritually and they commit acts that are anti social... which cheating is... it is anti social behavior...
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 11/6/2008 1:46:44 PM | I think a lot of this cheating business is due to an unatural practice being forced upon most marriages West Of Constanople. In that monogamy is not working for so many males.
Besides most females are not nearly as sexually hungry as most males.
See the arguments on 'polygamy' and one might make a connection that just maybe the rules are wrong! | |
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