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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/30/2005 7:36:41 AM | | No, If i'm truly inlove with someone i can't bare to see that person hurting, if he's hurting my heartbreaks. I want to do something, anything to take that persons pain away. So how could I allow myself to be the one causing the pain. Cheating would hurt that person deeply, if you really love them how could you possibly do that. Here i go babblin on again, anyways .. no way in hell could I or would I for any reason do that. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/30/2005 7:58:27 AM | | What a "QUESTION"......... If you truly love someone from the heart, that love is unconditional, This love has to be from the both individual's though. and when you find this one person to share your life with........ the "ANSWER" will be ........NO! | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/30/2005 8:05:27 AM | | If you are in a relationship and your needs aren't being met, whether emotionally, physically or otherwise then you need to look at the why...not use excuses as scapegoats.So many peolpe nowadays seem to not have any morals, self pride or even have the energy to make any effort to make something work! Much easier to be the victim and use it as an excuse to mess around etc god forbid we might need to actually work at something...so i guess my response to the question posted is...definately no! Things like pride, honesty, respect and self worth jump to mind as being more important than a quick bang! | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 12:28:15 AM | | Sorry to say, but you are all an unrealistic bunch. The sentiment is very nice and all - I have felt that way myself - but in reality it does happen. Hasn't the school of life taught you people that anyone can do anything under the right set of circumstances? | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 6:29:10 AM | I dont normally get in plentyoffish much, much less have time to read comments of others, but I thought your reply to the question was interesting.
It is wonderful to be your age and still be so naive. I am a man but I believe men are natural born liars when it comes to getting what they want. The question arises of why a long distance relationship is necessary when there is so much available in your own back yard.
I wish you good fortune tho. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 10:33:12 AM | Hasn't the school of life taught you people that anyone can do anything under the right set of circumstances?
NO!
"its amazing what a person can do (in love or not) after theyre drunk and not at full capacity."
Not amazing to me,saddening many times,but nothing amazing. People who drink most often know what the realm of consequences are and having that knowledge of not take/bare that responsiblility with them as they drink. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 3:27:42 PM | There should be no option there....if you love someone you should be committed to them & only them...when you are in LOVE you are in LOVE...no other person should sway you into bed besides the one you are in LOVE wit....love is a strong word...use it wisely... | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 3:30:32 PM | You know, it's amazing how much things can change just by switching a few words around. In another thread you will find page after page of almost totally unanimous posts agreeing that sex and love are separate things and that it is obvious that one can have sex without love, although the two make a magical combination that cannot be beat. Where are all those people now? If it is possible to have sex without falling in love then it must be possible to be in love and just have sex?
Personally, I choose to honour my commitments and have never cheated but of course it is possible. It happens all of the time. Pretending that it isn't love after the fact is just a rationalization. People cheat - period. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 3:49:44 PM | | Unconditional Love? That is such BS. There is no such thing as that. If that love does something harmful to a family member will you still love that person? Yes , you can love someone and cheat on them. You can love someone and not be honest with them.Example, married men/women who cheat but wont leave their wife/husband. It happens a lot in the real world. Its like there are "some" women can be in love and not have to have sex. There are some guys, while waiting get sex from some place else waiting to be with that love. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:49:03 PM | | See another example of a control freak trying to justify why he cant be trusted...if you gonna lie and cheat on the one you love, i dont wanna do business with you or let you wash my car.....its a character thing...power corrupts you cant say because your successfull or famous it makes something right thats obviously not...grab a brain.. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 7:27:48 PM | I didn't read anything other than the title, but, I'll tell you this, Angelina Jolie would walk by me naked, I'd smile, and say hello, and be thinking about my love...I'm so lost when I'm in love lol. It sure feels good though...so i guess....NO! Hell no! You outta you're freeking mind man? lol | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 7:42:49 PM | To answer this honestly, you first have to know what being in love is....and when you answer yes to that question...you cannot ever answer yes to this, because they are mutually exclusive...if you need a definition of what it feels like to be in love, I'll oblige, but trust me on this, if you are "In love" NOTHING! I MEAN NOTHING! Would make you do that...it's an oxy-moron guys.
Just my op...
Herv. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 8/31/2005 9:45:08 PM |
Unconditional Love? That is such BS. There is no such thing as that.
yes there is.. I experience it on a daily basis with my children. There is nothing BS about unconditional love. It does exist. It is very real, no matter what type of relationship it is.
OT: Cheating - no, not acceptable in any form or fashion for me personally in my relationships. But I disagree with the statement, once a cheater, always a cheater. This is not true in all cases.
As someone mentioned before, people do cheat because their needs are not met. I think this can happen, and have seen it happen first hand with my sister. She regrets every moment of it, she is the one that has to live with it. She has never done it again. To each his own, but do not be so quick to judge. | |
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| Can you cheat on a person you are truly in love with?
Posted: 9/1/2005 1:27:25 AM | all i gotta say is action's speak louder then words cause u got no idea how much i hear this from both parties yet they do so i'm not gonna say if i do or don't whoever the man in my life will be will know  | |
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