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 ~AlbertazAngel~

Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 25
OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 9/14/2006 10:49:33 AM

I DO want sex


me 2.. is that wrong?.. where`s dr. phil when ya need him?..
 Sindee

Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 26
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OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 9/14/2006 11:50:37 AM
I totally agree with you re: good hygiene and taking care of yourself aka clean clothes, daily showers, clean hair, etc. A little overweight can be compensated for as long as the person is not unkempt (dishevelled; untidy; dirty; not kept up)...even if they aren't hygenically tip top or they look like they just "blew" in from god knows where...it is still no reason to personally berate them. Like soap and water...a few good words go a long way!
 dorkfully geekalicious

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 27
OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 9/14/2006 12:27:29 PM
Oh get off my back! You got your point across the first time, no need to overdo it.
 Sindee

Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 9/14/2006 12:34:13 PM
a little defensive dorkfully??? This was not directed at you, but, if you took it as such....so-be-it.
 Chrysostom

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 29
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OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 9/14/2006 1:04:22 PM
If I may,

I Chrysostom do hereby identify with Ace's statements and as a 24 year old male put out the same invitation to my own age bracket.

--End of Advertisement--
 flowerchild28681

Joined: 3/6/2005
Msg: 30
OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on.
Posted: 9/14/2006 4:14:40 PM
hi ace,
my first time at this but will give it a go....
ive been dating online for almost 5 years...and alot of men are on here looking for sex..but theres also alot of women too
my experience has been that you talk to them until you are comfortable...if a man brings up sex in the first 3 sentences you may as well run then..same goes for a woman
i think were all on here looking for someone to love...
i started over at 47 after 25 years of marriage...
and yes i have my list of what i want in a mate..dont we all
having been overweight most of my life i find most people dont give you a chance to show who you are inside...thats why ive learned to look at the heart and not the outside..
as one of the other people said..most of us are average....and if you only limit yourself to one ideal...you may miss out on the one person who you could fall in love with
dang ive went on and on...sorry
beth
 ~Bob~

Joined: 9/4/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 9/14/2006 8:24:08 PM
Word up Ace...you will never get what you want unless you ask for it! So, your first step has been taken. I do share some frustration here with the generalizing and the muckraking and the finger pointing and all of the beautifully immature behavior the otherwise adult fellow fisherpeople here seem to so enjoy.

After only a few relationships, all of which were unsatisfactory, which was always agreed upon by both parties, I have realized that these things actually take quite a bit of work. Do I believe I'll meet someone special and live "happily ever after". Sure, perhaps. Actually I already know who I wish that Utopia to include, but I digress.

I have only one bit of, I hope constructive criticism, and it involves a phrase in your profile.


If you want a good man, who is NOT perfect, but who will do his best to make you happy...


Now I will say that this statement is admirable, and applaud you again for your honesty and straightforward earnest longing for a companion. But man, don't ever fall for somone who you must make "happy". People who aren't happy should not start new relationships until they can figure out why they are unhappy.

If you are unhappy, the people you meet will know and the women you meet, whether they're attracted to you or not, will decide to keep looking.

FIND HAPPINESS WITHIN YOURSELF, however that must be done, within reason, and then she'll find you. maybe she has already found you. Maybe the time just isn't right.

I'm rooting for you man, and wishing you and some special lady the best of luck.
 LfLvRzn

Joined: 12/2/2004
Msg: 32
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Posted: 9/14/2006 9:33:39 PM
Hey Ace:
Not responding on a "dare,for an LTR,or even a Date..( I'm all set with that right now!)
Just my thoughts on what you wrote and the responces you've gotten....
You wrote exactly what you want....The Whole Package
If theres any one here on POF for LTR or Dating that can say that's not what they're looking for, They're not being honest with anyone...including themselves
I DO want sex, but I want it with a PARTNER/LOVER/FRIEND/Soulmate. Just like I want the rest too!!!. I want the whole package

I should hope this is what we all want......and that includes shape,size,Ethnic,etc.etc.
Thanks for not being afraid to express what your looking for and being one of the Honest ones in the Pond
Anyone who "dares to" send you an Email knows exactly Who they're meeting!
Hunni
 brabazom3

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 9/15/2006 12:06:42 AM
Darn phamilyplotr,
Where were you in 1999 when I was in Alaska? I left there after my divorce came to Oregon.
You just wrote a great advertisement and it didn't suck. Good luck in your search, but don't hope to find it at Chilkoots. I love Alaska in the summer but Oregon is great in the winter. No snow to shovel. There is someone out there for each one of us so keep fishing!
 brabazom3

Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 9/15/2006 12:15:24 AM
loneshoreman,

You are going to have to put that fish down, wash up and get that fish smell off and then get down to business..... Your game plan sounds good if it goes both ways. Hope it comes your way soon
 Monday In October

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 35
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Sex with Dr. Phil?
Posted: 9/15/2006 12:00:42 PM


I DO want sex



me 2.. is that wrong?.. where`s dr. phil when ya need him?



Why would you want to have sex with Dr. Phil?
 loneshoreman

Joined: 5/21/2006
Msg: 36
Sex with Dr. Phil?
Posted: 9/18/2006 5:47:37 PM
Sorry, Brabozom, my fish is like your master-card, I don't leave home without it!
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