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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on. Posted: 9/14/2006 11:50:37 AM | | I totally agree with you re: good hygiene and taking care of yourself aka clean clothes, daily showers, clean hair, etc. A little overweight can be compensated for as long as the person is not unkempt (dishevelled; untidy; dirty; not kept up)...even if they aren't hygenically tip top or they look like they just "blew" in from god knows where...it is still no reason to personally berate them. Like soap and water...a few good words go a long way! | |
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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on. Posted: 9/14/2006 4:14:40 PM | hi ace, my first time at this but will give it a go.... ive been dating online for almost 5 years...and alot of men are on here looking for sex..but theres also alot of women too my experience has been that you talk to them until you are comfortable...if a man brings up sex in the first 3 sentences you may as well run then..same goes for a woman i think were all on here looking for someone to love... i started over at 47 after 25 years of marriage... and yes i have my list of what i want in a mate..dont we all having been overweight most of my life i find most people dont give you a chance to show who you are inside...thats why ive learned to look at the heart and not the outside.. as one of the other people said..most of us are average....and if you only limit yourself to one ideal...you may miss out on the one person who you could fall in love with dang ive went on and on...sorry beth | |
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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on. Posted: 9/14/2006 8:24:08 PM | Word up Ace...you will never get what you want unless you ask for it! So, your first step has been taken. I do share some frustration here with the generalizing and the muckraking and the finger pointing and all of the beautifully immature behavior the otherwise adult fellow fisherpeople here seem to so enjoy.
After only a few relationships, all of which were unsatisfactory, which was always agreed upon by both parties, I have realized that these things actually take quite a bit of work. Do I believe I'll meet someone special and live "happily ever after". Sure, perhaps. Actually I already know who I wish that Utopia to include, but I digress.
I have only one bit of, I hope constructive criticism, and it involves a phrase in your profile.
If you want a good man, who is NOT perfect, but who will do his best to make you happy...
Now I will say that this statement is admirable, and applaud you again for your honesty and straightforward earnest longing for a companion. But man, don't ever fall for somone who you must make "happy". People who aren't happy should not start new relationships until they can figure out why they are unhappy.
If you are unhappy, the people you meet will know and the women you meet, whether they're attracted to you or not, will decide to keep looking.
FIND HAPPINESS WITHIN YOURSELF, however that must be done, within reason, and then she'll find you. maybe she has already found you. Maybe the time just isn't right.
I'm rooting for you man, and wishing you and some special lady the best of luck. | |
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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on. Posted: 9/15/2006 12:06:42 AM | Darn phamilyplotr, Where were you in 1999 when I was in Alaska? I left there after my divorce came to Oregon. You just wrote a great advertisement and it didn't suck. Good luck in your search, but don't hope to find it at Chilkoots. I love Alaska in the summer but Oregon is great in the winter. No snow to shovel. There is someone out there for each one of us so keep fishing!
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| OK< Tired of hearing the only want sex thinng...read on. Posted: 9/15/2006 12:15:24 AM | loneshoreman,
You are going to have to put that fish down, wash up and get that fish smell off and then get down to business..... Your game plan sounds good if it goes both ways. Hope it comes your way soon | |
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| Sex with Dr. Phil? Posted: 9/15/2006 12:00:42 PM |
I DO want sex me 2.. is that wrong?.. where`s dr. phil when ya need him?
Why would you want to have sex with Dr. Phil? | |
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| Sex with Dr. Phil? Posted: 9/18/2006 5:47:37 PM | | Sorry, Brabozom, my fish is like your master-card, I don't leave home without it! | |
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