| | Have you ever been broken up with via e-mail?Page 2 of 2 (1, 2) | hey Bluest eyes, I tried to send you an email about a Whine and Cheese party some night, to celebrate Women and how they survive some of the dumb stuff men do.
There are some men who would never do that, but unfortunately they are few. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 12:48:34 PM | littlelady24, I got that very same kind of message, only it was text messaged to me.
Last November 2nd my husband of 18½ years text-messaged me that the marriage was over and he wanted a divorce. I didn't see him or hear from him for 7 months.
What a coward. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2005 3:07:46 PM | | it is one of the most chicken-hearted ways to break up with someone, trust me, it happened to me once right before I was to sing at a recital, think about that! lol | |
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Posted: 8/23/2005 2:04:46 PM | | hey ambyercat...... thanx for the invite...? not whining..... just posting a reply in the forum . didnt ask anyone for a reply.!!!!!! but thanx anyhow!!! | |
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Posted: 8/23/2005 3:29:54 PM | Oh ok so you have advise for everyone on relationships but admit you have had nothing but bad ones.
Here you admit you enjoyed him suffering.
You are am man hater.
Taking advise from you is like asking a drunk how to get sober lol.
Complusive liar is what comes to my mind.
Thanks for the worthless info.
Norm
bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 8/16/2005 3:00:56 PM
It happened to me one time. I went to go visit friends who just got back from out of town. I went alone partly because I wanted to ask their advice about what I should do with my b/f he was becoming smothering, etc. I wanted to try to not hurt his feelings but was thinking about how to go about the dreadful deed. We discussed it that evening. Next am checked email quickly before heading off for work. Seems he was so upset, he stayed home got SHYT faced drunk and wrote me this looonnnnggg email at 3 am. Breaking up with me. Whew! I laughed, well that took care of itself. Of course there was another sober one following that apologizing. I didn't let him outta that one. Maybe he'll think twice before he does something that stupid. Even though it was seriously a relief for me, I still don't think that was appropriate behavior, so I let him suffer with the consequences of his own stupid (HIS word) behavior. | |
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Posted: 8/23/2005 3:34:08 PM | You seem angry.
You said you were just friends so why the need to kill him?
Are you an angry man hater?
Why are you hiding your photos?
Norm
ambyrcat
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 8/17/2005 11 04 AM
I was in a very strong friendship (long distance), bordering on something more. I talked to him about Christmas and that I was sending him a present in the mail. Everything's great, but then the next day I get an email that starts out:
As per your request, (that he told me if he found someone else) I have found someone new. She is pretty and smart, and I've known her for a long time. She fits into my life, but mostly, she is HERE. I hope things go well for you.
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Hit the wall head first, and then a crash. He could have said something to me on the phone before I sent a present. Amazingly I didnt have him killed. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2005 1:31:01 AM | Hey bluest- the whine and cheese parties are for fun and for venting. It can be about anything from the way the garbage trucks wake you at 6am, to the way someone backed into your car. Just a virtual mental margharita online.  | |
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Posted: 8/25/2005 1:34:26 AM | Normal Norm-
are you an angry woman hater?
you seem angry to some of the women on here.
You only have one picture on here, why are you hiding them?
Useless info, thanks for all the fish. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2005 9:38:23 PM | | I've had it happen last year and it wasn't even long Distance. We met face to face, She made up a story to try and drive me away (Said she was going to be too Busy with School for a relationship). I said lets see what happens and then decide. Two or three days later I get an E-mail saying she wants to end things. All class eh? Then I find out she'd been running my name thru the mud. Making stuff up about me. I thought "her kind" was extinct. Oh well it made me feel young again. (It was petty Highschool behaviour all over again). I also had a gal break up with my Answering machine after a 3 year relationship. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 8:47:50 AM | | No woman likes being broken up with via email, esp if you talk on the phone all the time. It is very cowardly. I just wonder though, don't men know this by now?!?! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 9:35:13 AM | I had made supper for my girl friend the night before.Every thing seemed to be going good.Then she got kind of weird and asked me to take her to her friends place.Next day she sends me an email breaking up with me.
It defintely is a cowards way out.They should have the guts to tell you.It's like they are trying not to feel bad about breaking up with you.So they go the impersonal way of sending you an email.So they don't have to deal with the emotions that come with it. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 10:54:43 AM | I belonged to a writer's group that met at BORDERS. After a few meetings, the "leader" of the group who was a terrible writer, emailed me and said that I had been voted out by the "majority" of the group.
I was too "opinionated" because I had pointed out that we all HAD spell check, so why weren't they using it, and why-oh-why did they write in incomplete sentences? Why were they all writing MEMOIRS of their (very boring) lives in New Jersey...who did they think would publish them...not like Hemmingway who actually did intersting things...and why write 15 or 20 more pages of the same drivel week after week if they hadn't corrected the problems from the previous week? Not to mention the crime novels...
It turns out, I was emailed by several of the members who assured me that they hadn't voted me out, they weren't even asked their opinion! We're forming our own group, now.
Does that count as a break up? | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 1:21:38 PM | | I had a girl e-dump me. All I can say is WEAK. I think it was a blessing in disguise though. Don't you really want someone that lacks that much character to be in your life. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 6:18:02 PM | Well said Tallman! I couldn't agree more!
and cutenperky, yep had that happen too, not sure which is worse, if they stop calling it is not usually to far or too many words spoken into a relationship. At least that has been the case for me. This last one made plans said words, stupid me believed! still kicking myself in the butt for it then I get the email saying a big mistake was made, nice!! I love to be referred to as a big mistake! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2006 7:35:22 PM | | Yes, I didnt want to do it that way... but she was very hard to get a hold of. I was going to do it the last time I was to see her... but she emailed me the day we were to meet and postponed our date. I was left with no alternative. Plus she still owes me money from the last time I actually did see her. | |
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Posted: 4/27/2006 5:31:05 AM | lol I have so dumped a guy from email!!! lol
My last relationship I dumped him by text message!!!
Who really cares how you dumped someone....Ok that was mean!! lol
Things are just easier when your not face to face!!
Thats just my feeling on it!!! | |
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Posted: 4/27/2006 6:21:06 AM | I think the email breakup is a cop out if you were in an actual relationship with face to face contact over a duration of time, if it was mostly by phone then a phone call would be in order. Otherwise if you're still in that initial dating stage determining compatability then I think it would be acceptable. But to use it as a way of ending a "relationship" leaves that question "why?" hanging out there for the person being left. If it's a relationship ending, then face to face with a drink or dinner, answers, compassion and focussing on the positives. Now if someone can just explain the phenom of why most breakup dinners or drinks are usually followed by goodbye sex ?
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Posted: 4/27/2006 9:44:54 AM | | Because goodbye sex is fun? Not that i would know... blushing... i usually just say goodbye take care have a nice life... not to ever contact again... yes thats it... | |
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Posted: 4/27/2006 9:52:13 AM | I think that's the whole key to it = "Things are just easier when your not face to face!!"
I was going out with someone for about a year, and was at the point where I knew there was no future. It was fun and nice dating her and stuff, but I was starting to feel it was a drag on both of us.. We used to see each other every or every other weekend, but as it dragged on, it got to the point where I only saw her once a month. (She was still in school, busy with "studying and tests." :P ) I started to realize what was going on, and offered her an "out" (in person) - I told her that it was really up to her, since she was busy with college and all.
She emails me back a few weeks later saying it's over. hehe! I thought she'd at least have the decency to do it in person, or at least over a real voice/phone.. Oh well, no biggie (I saw it coming a mile away)... It really was easier for her I guess, but that's life. ;-) No one ever said it was painless.
~Steve | |
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