| If you have sex with someone you are dating does that make you a bad person
Posted: 6/21/2006 6:08:34 PM | | Personally, I am uncomfortable having sex with a woman outside of marriage. I feel guilty everytime. The reason is because when i decide to have sex, The thought of spending the rest of my life with that person has not entered in my mind till after the sex and that is where I start feeling dirty. Cause it is someone I have just started dating and don't really know or have feelings about. So in my case I try to avoid the sex part. In answer to the question, it makes you a bad person if you let it make you a bad person. | |
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| If you have sex with someone you are dating does that make you a bad person
Posted: 6/1/2007 2:13:10 PM | My opinion
If you are dating someone and you make the decision to have sex with them...thats your own choice...it is a part of getting to know someone and I see nothing wrong with it...if your uncompfortable or feel thats it not right then don't do it...if it feels wrong then its not ment to be...the relationship | |
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| If you have sex with someone you are dating does that make you a bad person
Posted: 2/19/2008 12:09:25 AM | | NO WAY!!, Sexuality is a life force, too often denied or misrepresented (see some religions. Commercialization, specially of the female body, SDT hysteria making in the time of Antibiotics!!). . . Being robbed of our pleasure , we are robbed of our power (yes It's OK to feel pleasure, duh!). When we lose our desire, we lose our will. A sexual encounter is the ability to interact with another human being on the most intense level, one of the most beautiful sensory experiences; it can not be bad, it can not be wrong!! PLEASE !!!! all the other ifs and what ifs and why nots are all in our minds, if the guy is interested in you as a person or if he is looking for a relationship at all is a different story thing, he might just be interested in sex and become afraid though, that you want more, which happens, but then again that would have possibly turn out like regardless if you had sex or not!!, like LT or so said, if he was to like the woman he would want to see her again and again and again, sex or not | |
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| If you have sex with someone you are dating does that make you a bad person
Posted: 2/19/2008 12:34:24 AM | The way I see, its up to YOU and the guy on what you wish to do in the first date. Follow your instint and then you will not have regrets, but if unsure, do not go for it or if too drunk , since alcohol can affect the way you think :-)
You are an independant woman, are over the age of concent so please get to know the guy a bit before meeting him and have safe sex if that is what you wish to do.
If you know yourself then you will know how you will feel if you do something that you are not sure about, so know your own mind. Do not be made to feel bad, just because you have made any decision in your life, we are all different and do not all think the same way about every single topic. Just think things through and be sure about them prior to making any decision and you will be OK.....be self assure and confident in your thought process.
If nothing happens after with this guy, then think about it and chjange your process, but only if YOU want to.
Good luck :-) | |
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| If you have sex with someone you are dating does that make you a bad person
Posted: 2/19/2008 4:46:07 AM | ok i dont think you did anything wrong. you should do whatever feels right. if i really like someone i will sleep with him whenever i want to! but yeah i dont just a sex thing either and i do make sure they know that! i dont see the point in making a man wait when you want it, just cos some ppl will say it makes you easy or whatever. it doesnt.
i do think sex should be left till after a first date, but thats just me. after that i know if we actually like each other or if he just wants sex.. so i know if i wanna see him again.
do whatever you feel is right! | |
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| If you have sex with someone you are dating does that make you a bad person
Posted: 2/19/2008 5:32:25 AM | | Everyone has their own opinion. Only you know if it was/is right or wrong for YOU! If anything, don't take our advice, (you don't even know us...assumming you don't anyway)...but if there's someone you really trust (i.e. someone in your family, church, very close friend) then maybe consider their answer to your question, but it's really all up to YOU! | |
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