daisie
| Joined: 9/22/2004 Msg: 26 | |
| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/20/2005 7:37:57 PM | | Yeah, it's nuts to dump a "good" guy for snoring, especially if you have not tried some of the things mentioned above. Once you have tried that stuff with no success, then if he is truly a "good" guy he will be very, very accomodating and he will WANT you to wake him up each and every time he starts snoring. If that is still too much of a sleep disruption then try separate bedrooms for sleeping. If "Mr Good Guy" had a problem with all that then I would kick his hiney to the curb. Absolutely, positively, no-way on God's green Earth will I ever listen to the same man snore for more than one night. No way Jose. The first night, I would be nice aobut it. The second night, things would be out in the open and way different. Snoring is torture to listen to!! It could drive me to homicide, I'm positive it really could. I would look for the silver lining in this cloud, if he is able to discuss it and help find a solution, maybe he really is a good guy. If he can't do that, then why waste your time...unless you just want sex without all that bothersome cuddling, chatting and sleeping afterwards. | |
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ksue44
| Joined: 6/20/2005 Msg: 28 | |
| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/20/2005 9:11:35 PM | You didn't mention if he had a cold or other sinus problems, also is he extremely overweight? If he's really a good guy like you say he is, then be honest and upfront with him, suggest he get a check up with his Doctor. I hate to see you dump him on this account, but you do what you have to do, you know your limitations. | |
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| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/21/2005 12:00:08 AM |
Why does dating have to involve really sleeping together?
Exactly. It's dating, not marriage.
Go home and grab a good night's sleep and spend the days together in bliss. | |
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| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/21/2005 1:42:11 PM | "bliss"? As long as it is after the fifth date of course?......lol
I've had problems with snorers quite a few times in the past and sometimes it can be a little scrawny guy, not just the big boys. Nothing seems to work with these people, you can beg and plead and ask them to roll over on their sides but they just won't do it....they don't care about you while they are unconscious, as long as they get their sleep, to hell with you. The trick is to make them care. I pile up a stack of things to throw at them in the night, it starts out with pillows, moves on to shoes, then books, etc. Eventually, they will get so sore and tired from being woken up constantly that they will be properly motivated to want to change their habits and they do. The fact that you are sleeping with this lummox is even better, you can just elbow him in the ribs or a firm but not crippling shot to the scrotum will be even more effective in teaching the moron how to stop snoring. Get him off his damn back and that should pretty much take care of it. | |
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| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/21/2005 9:31:18 PM | | Unfortunately, I snore when I sleep but what fixes is for me to turn on my side, I hate to know that I snore because I know somewhere down the line when I get involved with someone, it may become an issue. | |
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| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/21/2005 10:13:55 PM | becamae [i dont wanna piss him off by saying( will you try these nose strips. or this spray cause your snoring bothers me alot*]
You don't want to piss him off.. u just want to dump him? Wow, seems like you have some issues with communication.
I'm sure he'd feel horrible if he knew that his snorring bothered you so badly. They do have lots of things he can try as well as earplugs for yourself.
If you really liked him you would want to figure something out. So it doesn't appear you like him very much. | |
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| is it wrong 2 get rid of a guy for snoring Posted: 8/22/2005 12:18:13 AM | ^^^^ Smart costergal, couldn't have said it better myself. Sounds like you're just trying to find an excuse to dump him, and maybe there are other underlying reasons to you wanting to split with him. | |
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