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Posted: 12/9/2004 9:01:42 AM | | i personally like strippers.....every other city we go we hit the strip club ..we get alot of attention from women in there when in uniform. I LOVE STRIP CLUBS...ive dated some strippers and had a few good experiances and a few bad ...i think it depends more on the personality than the profesion. i know i spelled a bunch of sh*t wrong...but **** it. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2004 2:55:41 PM | | I have dated three 'strippers' although they preferred to be called dancers for the most part. (found that out the hard way) in my life. In my line of work I come across many dancers. I will tell you this, the only super cool thing you can say about dating a dancer is that you can tell your friends that youre dating a stripper, and thats about it. And even then its only 'cool' for a short period of time, because once your friends meet her and realize that shes basically like every other woman out there, it looses its luster very quickly. To tell you the truth I thought I was the sh*t when I dated my first, but after the first couple dates, it was just like dating any other woman, with the exception of it be much more fun to go see her at work. Its the same a dating a secretary, dental assistant, or customer sales rep. Actually I would go as far to say that secretarys have a much larger 'wild' streak in them than your average dancer | |
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Posted: 12/12/2004 9:50:03 PM | Raise your ladder laddie, it'll get better ...its not the pot...its not the pot | |
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Posted: 12/16/2004 9:29:40 AM | Well Jay,
I wouldn't ruin it for you... been there and it was fun... but to put this in perspective, those kinda women go through about 8 guys a week and it's not that she felt you were special necessarily.
I think I understand how you feel about dating a woman who's very attractive...I guess... That's where the "highest rung of the ladder" thing comes in, huh?
It's a very validating experience to have a physically attractive woman think you're cool enough to go out with. You feel like "Okay.... I'm a WILD AND SEXY GUY!" *SOUND LIKE ANY CHARACTERS ON SNL?*
It's probably that maybe she thought that since she's dated half the male sex already, she'd hang around long enough to see if you were a guy who had some money laying around.
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Posted: 12/19/2004 8:13:24 AM | A stripper started working for my company a while back. It was her "job on the side". She came after me right away at work. It took her a week before she forced me to have sex with her. I really didn't like it, I felt horrible about it. I know its a stripper and all, but DAM. Girl tease me! I don't want it if its that easy! | |
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Posted: 12/22/2004 5:02:23 PM | | Forced you to have sex with her...? i'd like to hear exactly how she accomplished that. gun to your head, maybe? sure hope you're kidding. why do these things turn into generalizations? you get to know one stripper, and you think you know them all. i prefer the word "stripper", by the way. it's less confusing to people. if you say dancer they usually ask what kind. anybody see "independance day"? not the greatest, but it had it's moments. i really loved the scene between the first lady and the stripper. priceless. i am a paramedic, and i now work in corrections, but i was a dancer/bartender/manager in various clubs for 15 years. i made really good money and i made a point of not taking advantage of people. i don't tell people what i used to do until they get to know me now, because they usually treat you differently--and not in a good way. all the idiots out there give us a bad rep, like those fools they get to do the talk shows. makes us all look like trailer trash (do NOT wear a spandex mini-dress on national tv). i agree completely with rheanna. it takes a lot of nerve to get on stage, let alone take your clothes off! it also takes a great deal of skill to do it well, and it's really hard on the bod. i can't even wear high heels anymore. my ankles can't take it. as for dancers going through a lot of men, that's usually a perception that people have that doesn't always match reality. sure, we get a lot of offers, but think about who we get them from...STRIP CLUB CUSTOMERS!!! yuck! the way most guys act in clubs is pretty revolting--it's them who should be ashamed of what they do. i have often wished i could send a tape of the guy on his bachelor party to his fiance'. we can afford to be picky, and most of us are. from what i have heard in the conversations i have had with guys, there are a lot more ho's in office buildings than in clubs. one guy told me that his wife didn't mind him being there because she knows it's harder to pick up a dancer than is to pick up the preacher's wife after sunday sermon....smart lady. it may seem like we're easy to the guys who have managed it, because we are not as inclined to play games when we want someone. | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 12:36:21 AM | "stripper"-maybe you were enchanted by a good body,nice face,uninhibited girl-those kinds have all kinds of jobs,cashier,mailchick,judge,telemarketer..............
It seems that you found it exotic to date a stripper.You wouldn't be the first guy to feel like that. But would you have felt like it was as big sh*t if she had any of those other jobs? I think part of it was the concept of "stripping",more than the like of the girl. Poor girl.
Also,maybe you feel inhibited yourself,as a guy, and never thought another person in that limelight could be attracted to you. You're selling yourself short too. It's an ego boost-really all relationships are based on ego in some form.Aren't they? But no matter how someone makes a living....the bottom line is did you click? If you did but it dried up, then chalk it up as a bad fit,that's all. Very rarely do people find a perfect match right off the bat. Good luck~ | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 12:46:38 AM | | I have dated several 'strippers' and I find them to be better people than anyone :) | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 12:48:07 AM | | .....most are 'students', 'single mothers', 'career women' first ... and strippers second | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 1:27:19 AM | thanks bronson -- that is very true, and a know quite a few besides me who have moved on to professional jobs, some making loads of cash. think about that wherever you go, people. you never know which of the people you run into in the "real world" used to be dancers. by the way, bronson, do you date former dancers?;) | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 1:56:07 AM | I have been known to dance in my underpants on top of a bar before  (photo evidence is hidden somewhere so that I will never be a world leader)  | |
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Posted: 12/25/2004 1:58:50 AM | ..... but, in answer to you question ....... I will say  definately ! | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 11:50:31 AM |
Strippers have more morals and are better persons that any Lawyers, Accountants & Polititions :)))
I'm not sure what you are trying to say with that. I think you could reasonably say that just about EVERYONE has more morals than Lawyers, Accountants and Politicians. | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 11:58:37 AM | KAH
i WILL hit it
People like you who are a**es. Why don't you just save her the touble if that's all you want from her? Obviously you just want to use her.  | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 11:59:26 AM |
I feel like I hit the highest rung of the ladder. How does one top "dating a stripper..." and she actually liked me.
Lawdy be!! The highest rung you say? Why do you find it so hard to believe that a 'stripper' would like you? Sounds like you need to do a little work on your self-esteem. | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 12:08:07 PM |
How does one top "dating a stripper..."
A porn star would be my guess. | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 12:50:16 PM | perfect spot for this....
what does a bimbo say during a porno ?
there I am ! I still kill me...smile | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:19:26 PM | Jaydawg,
First off, I would like to ask you why you feel dating a stripper is the top? Now, don't get me wrong, there's nothing bad about dating a stripper, I have. But, why do you feel that's the top? They have feelings and emotions just like any other woman; there are plenty of women out there who have those... shall I say "Bedtime Qualities" I fear that with you thinking a stripper is the top of top, well... You may be looking at just the sexual part of a woman.
You may want to take your eyes of the sparkling ripples and look at the whole lake for the depth that it has.
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:25:41 PM | ^^^ LOL, Indi. Yes, I pointed again. ;-)
For my 1/50th of a dollar, for openers I'll say that I dated a dancer once. That didn't last long, but it had nothing to do with what she did; we just didn't click. I personally see nothing wrong with a woman doing that; it's her decision anyway, and if she can live with it, who is anyone to judge her?
And I agree with Rheanna on her point that it must take a lot of gumption to get up on stage and do what they do. I can say that from a bit of personal experience. Seven years ago I took an acting class in LA, which was the reason I moved there for six months. (The 'six months' part probably tells you how far my acting career went, but that's another story. :-) More to the point, the final exercise for everyone in my class was called 'the superlative', i.e., be your most...whatever. I took that exercise to mean, 'do something you otherwise probably never would do, and be as convincing as you can be'. So, I decided to do a striptease- be my 'most sexy'. Besides demonstrating to myself and to everyone who bore witness that the Chippendales would have laughed me off the stage if I'd auditioned for them, I came to have a respect for anyone gutsy enough to do that night after night. Plus, who's to say that some woman who dance don't have much else in the way of career options?
I agree with those who hold the position that it's wrong to judge someone based solely on what that person does for a living. A lot of politicians have committed far more substantial sins than any dancer ever could... | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:51:17 PM | I'm with you on this one fiction. I wouldn't want to date a stripper but thats not the strippers problem, thats a problem of my own. It would take a much stronger man than myself to date a stripper.
It goes well beyond dating a stripper for me. I'm cultivating a relationship with a woman I considered well out of my league when I saw her profile. Since she was beyond my goals I didn't contact her, yet the very next day I got an e-mail saying she wanted to get to know me. It's been several months and we've sent e-mails snail mails and hours on the phone and now we're going to meet sometime in the next couple of weeks. | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:52:40 PM | fw ...you is correct...dancers have to eat too..
and I recant...I guess you can't judge people unless
you know them..and even then it's not right to judge..
the older I get.. the more I know... I don't know squat !..smile | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 2:04:02 PM | Good deal, Stranger! Let us know how it turns out. Who knows- you could end up being the best thing that happened to each other...
Hell, Indi, none of us knows squat, when it comes down to it. | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 2:04:09 PM | Jaydawg, it shows a fair amount of immaturity or at least inexperience to hear you say that you think that strippers are on the "top of the ladder". Of course they have nice bodies and are reasonably attractive, but is that all that matters to you? You need to expand your horizons kiddo.. there are attractive women everywhere.
On the other hand, I certainly don't have anything against strippers either.
My ex-sister-in-law was a stripper. Cute, young, surprisingly innocent and she had limits as to what she would do on and off stage. She did it solely for the money and was fully aware and realistic about the lifestyle and the fact that she would have only a limited amount of "good" years. Several of her co-workers were rather on the sleazy side, but as in every profession, you can't really generalize like that, there are lots of exceptions .... she took pride in what she did, she did it well and with class.. although I personally could not do what she did, my hat always went off to her.
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Posted: 12/26/2004 2:07:47 PM | Strippers have more morals and are better persons that any Lawyers, Accountants & Polititions :)))
I'm not sure what you are trying to say with that. I think you could reasonably say that just about EVERYONE has more morals than Lawyers, Accountants and Politicians.
If these statements are correct.. I guess I have no morals then.. | |
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Posted: 12/26/2004 4:13:55 PM | | I dated a couple strippers when I was in my 20's. The only problem I had with it was that my "buddies" were always trying to nail them. They'd tell them what dog I was and that they were simply the "b*tch du joir" and that as soon as I found something better, they'd be history. What are friends for, right? I swear men can be just as catty and back-stabbing as any women.--never understood that--I want EVERYONE to get laid--lol! | |
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