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Posted: 12/30/2004 3:19:57 AM | | .... I fell asleep during that movie (Showgirls) hehehe ..... but I had a long day the day before :)) | |
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Posted: 1/1/2005 10:26:09 PM |
If these statements are correct.. I guess I have no morals then..
Sorry Bonni, I wasn't meaning to offend. I don't know which catagory you fall into, but mostly its the lawyers and politicians that I feel are so corrupt. But I am sure there are a few, maybe that have not been in the business long enough and still have some morals left. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2005 6:35:47 AM | Gee Thanks Sid,
after that incident i spent a lot more time smiling at ugly men, because sometimes that's all it takes to make their day.
I will never be able to feel the same way when a pretty girl smiles at me now. You really made my day. Now I will be wondering if she likes what she sees or is just trying to make my day.  | |
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Posted: 1/2/2005 8:53:19 AM | Terry?? So what if she is merely trying to make your day... You still have received a nice gift, smile, walk taller and... pass it on... a shared smile can change someones entire day...
~~Dragon Rider~~
I know it is here somewhere...
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Posted: 1/2/2005 10:07:20 AM | I'm currently friends with a dancer in Vegas and not quite sure what the next steps should be. I don't currently live in Vegas, but recently have been there often for work. I don't frequent strip clubs very often, except for work or a bachelor party. We met at a strip club during one of my trips to Vegas a few months ago and just had a good time hanging out the first visit. She approached me for a lap dance and I said "sure" and then we just talked for most of the night. I told her that I was in Vegas for work and that I would be in town for another week. She gave me her stage name and said if I came back to give her a shout. I returned to the club a few days later with some clients and had one of the bouncers bring her to our table. We hung out and I told her that I was leaving the next day, but enjoyed meeting her. Without me asking for it, she then gave me her real name and phone number and told me to call her if I was ever in town again. Since then, I've been back to Vegas alot. Sometimes every other weekend, sometimes once a month. Everytime I've gone to see her, it's been at the club. Lately, we've started to become more intimate and started kissing alot during my visits. The weeks I'm not in Vegas, she calls me or sends me a text message about once or twice a week. And recently gave me her address so that I could send her postcards from my roadtrips. It's now been about a month since I last saw her and not sure when work will be bringing me back to Vegas again. She called me on XMAS to wish me a Merry Xmas and then a few more times this week (more often than our usual once a week conversation). And then again on New Year's. I like her alot and think she's the coolest girl I've ever met, regardless that she's a dancer. She's seems like she has a solid head on her shoulders and it always seems like she's the one giving the other girls at the club advice on what to do and what not to do. I just enjoy talking and hanging out with her and think about her often. She's the exact opposite of what I thought I was looking for in a girl and I didn't go to the club expecting to hook-up with a dancer. It just happened. I just wish I hadn't met her in a strip club and have told her that too. Right now, my thought process is that we're just friends and not to expect anything more than that. I've dated a few non-dancer girls since I met her, that have more traditional backgrounds and are the 'kind of girls' that my friends have told me I should be dating. But just haven't been able to connect with any of them. I even talk about my dates with her and we swap stories. She claims that she can't really date or have a relationship with anyone as long as she's a dancer.
Lately, she's been asking me to come out for a visit and I told her to let me know when she was going to take a weekend off of work and that I would come out then. I would love to take the relationship further and have even thought about spending more time in Vegas regardless if it's for work or not. But I am hesitant, because I don't know if she really likes me or still views me as a customer (even though she makes alot more money off of other customers than she ever did off of me). She tells me that I'm different and enjoys hanging out together. Right now, I really don't have a problem with her being a dancer, because I know she views it as just a job. I'm willing to go to the next step and make an effort at spending more time in Vegas, but just don't know if she's going to be willing or has the ability to do the same with her job. I'm willing to start slowly and see if it works out or not, but am still very reserved about it.
My appologies for the long post, any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2005 10:13:52 AM | sdl123 ..... I think you have something special here ! I wish you the best of luck.
Don't worry about her job, it is only work and it pays very good money .... cheers  | |
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Posted: 1/2/2005 10:51:58 PM | | sdl123 - most women who work in clubs, the ones who have any sense anyway, are verrrry leery of people they meet at work, and take their time feeling them out. i personally never had any luck with anyone i met at work. if you can handle her job, then by all means go for it. she is no more likely to be putting you on than a woman you had met in another environment - less so in fact, because she took her time finding out whether or not she really liked you. terry - i wish they had a raspberry smiley. get over it. nobody was personally addressing you, so stop being paranoid. the point of that was that i have had a lot of men tell me they felt like they were invisible - that women don't even LOOK at them. i keep that in mind when i go places, and pay more attention to the people around me. there's nothing wrong with making someone feel good, and it costs me nothing. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2005 2:25:20 AM | Robin...
No offense was taken honest.. but thanks... | |
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Posted: 1/3/2005 6:31:31 AM | DragonRider and Sid........
I'm sorry you didn't catch on that I was joking. I am secure enough with who I am that I can make fun of myself and often do. I even laugh about the woman I never contacted who e-mailed me to tell me I wasn't her type so Sid, you smiling at ugly guys sure won't make me paranoid. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2005 11:01:47 AM | Terry - SOrry, bad day... what can I say... I bailed yesterday cause everyone seemed to be in rare form... I did get the joke, but figued I would just toss a couple o pennys on the fire...
I Laugh at me all the time, and with good cause....
~~Dragon Rider~~
I know it is here somewhere...
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Posted: 1/3/2005 10:13:25 PM | okey-dokey terry. i guess everybody has been in a weird mood lately.... i just wanted to get across that none of what i said was meant to be condescending. i was one of those people in school that, if anybody paid attention to me, they were usually trying to fvck with me or make fun of me, so i know what it feels like to be "invisible". i always thought it was funny that the guys who drooled over me at work wouldn't have acted that way if they had been around then. i actually had another truely wonderful moment when one of the guys who ignored me in high school, although he was never mean as far as i know, came into a club where i was working. he spent about twenty minutes trying to convince me to go out with him (didn't have a clue who i was, or that i already knew him), and i finally said, "you don't remember me, do you?" gave him enough info that he remembered, and said he should have paid more attention to me then. he was one of the guys everyone drooled over, so it felt pretty good turning him down. i never let the attention go to my head, because i will always remember what it felt like to be considered ugly, so i can empathize with the misfits. always will be proud of being a geek. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 1:14:22 AM | SDL123: Sounds like what you have is more or less a case of general cold feet. Compounding this is the "long-distance" aspect. Don't worry about general cold feet; it's more common in relationships where everything is going right -- you get that "too good to be true" feeling. Also it sounds like you have the long-distance aspect of things under reasonable control. Plus, I congratulate you: you seem to be able to dismiss any preconceived notions of ladies in her profession and see her as the wonderful lady she is (um, I assume).
The only thing that should stop you is the possibility of catastrophy. If y'all hook up, then break up, and this costs you your house, job and car, then don't. Otherwise I say don't fear hypothetical heartbreak. You only get to live once, and this life is short. Make memories, take risks, and if you get heartbroken, CONGRATS you're now in the "I'm human too" club. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 2:44:59 AM | | Be prepared to have a FAT wallet! You're gonna need it if you want to keep one of "Those" kinds around. LOL! | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 3:18:49 AM | | mherefl - just what was THAT suppposed to mean? that she couldn't possibly be interested in anything but money, because she's a dancer? if you dance, you have so many men trying to buy you that usually all you want is a man who is capable of treating you with respect, so screw you and your generalizations about something you probably know nothing about. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 3:29:04 AM | Easy Sid... you cannot beat intelligence in... you must unscrew the top and pour it in, then use the bat to hammer the edges so it cannot escape ;-)
~~Dragon Rider~~
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Posted: 1/4/2005 7:26:08 PM | Easy Sid... you cannot beat intelligence in... you must unscrew the top and pour it in, then use the bat to hammer the edges so it cannot escape
ok,dr. now, where did i put that bat....? | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 8:24:17 PM | Probably write next to the bed....
~~Dragon Rider~~
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Posted: 1/4/2005 8:35:32 PM | STRIPPER FIGHT!
Strippers are cool, and all, but I wouldn't marry one. I wouldn't want another man looking at my woman.  Sorry, Sid, but the story about shooting down the "dream guy" that never actually did any harm to you, is kind of sad. I mean, here you are on a singles site... | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 8:53:36 PM | One of my best friends is a former stripper we have been the best of friends forover 15 years
I would marry in a minute but we have always kept it non sexual( although there was that one..Ohhh never mind:) | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 8:57:02 PM | STRIPPER FIGHT!
Strippers are cool, and all, but I wouldn't marry one. I wouldn't want another man looking at my woman. Sorry, Sid, but the story about shooting down the "dream guy" that never actually did any harm to you, is kind of sad. I mean, here you are on a singles site
what makes you think a dancer would want you? i have read your posts, and i see nothing but a lack of respect for women, and most dancers pick up on that one really quick -- AND DON'T LIKE IT.
in reference to the comment abut the "dream guy" thing. i never said he was MY dream guy, just that he ignored me in school, then when he sees me at work, he thinks i am going to jump at the chance to go out with him. maybe i should have included the part where he bugged the hell out of me and was really trying to come on strong, but i figured that anybody who could actually read would get that from what i did say. the whole "you know you want me" thing is an instant turn-off. i didn't really know much about him before when we went to school together, but he turned out to be a cocky @ss. if he had been nice and respectful, i might have thought about it. he kept bugging me because he just couldn't believe i actually turned him down. i don't care how good-looking you are, if you have a sh!tty personality i'm not interested.
point three - i am on a dating site, but not because i am desperate or because i think i'll meet the love of my life on the internet. i work a lot and bars bore the hell out of me, as do drunks. i spend most of my time online in the forums, not checking out profiles. if you are incapable of reading all of what i post, and are only interested in insulting me then don't bother addressing me personally anymore. where DID i put that bat......? | |
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Posted: 1/4/2005 9:59:54 PM | "where DID i put that bat......?"
*giggles* No comment. | |
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Posted: 2/24/2005 4:24:54 PM | | Yeah... cuz I live at work... the funeral home, and she takes the train in from the city... but it's all good. I realized all of this not to long after the original post. I just didn't update the forum. I'm psychodramatic over stupid stuff, but whatever. I just can't seem to let myself meet people in a natural way. The lack of dating funds has recently slowed down my extreme outwardness to the opposite sex tho. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2005 1:54:31 AM | | stripper top shelf just admit u were trying your hardest to let everyone know u were dating a stripper. what other point does this thread serve or accomplish....nadda. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2005 3:14:41 AM | femmeinin(d250506)
"Strippers don't turn to dancing out of lack of options, they do it out of choice. because it's fun and it's good money. "
Yeah, and once they get their hands on a guy, she'll suck him dry too (money-wise that is), hate to say this, but strippers are bad to get involved with. I knew of a guy that dated a stripper, and he said you better be prepared to spend some money on her if you want the sex...otherwise...she'll find some other poor sap to gold dig. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2005 8:02:49 AM | Sid - Still haven't found that bat or the WD40 eh?
So, was that mooching or munching? SOrry couldn't resist...
Ignore the slobs hon, all you are doing is upsetting your blood pressure... but I did get a few more chuckles out of this thread... idiots...
~~Dragon Rider~~
"Life is---- Dreams made life..." | |
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