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Posted: 8/24/2005 7:52:45 PM | gee southern, we are difining sex by location (nationality?)
as for the 'being married,hand in hand' statement, I will let that go 'untouched' | |
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Posted: 8/24/2005 7:59:29 PM | constantly
I wounder whats on tv later.
what can I do once were done.
funny thing about 1 night stands.
if you dont give a damn about her
your mind wanders | |
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| Boring Sex
Posted: 8/24/2005 9:37:55 PM | | boring, drilling, pile-driving...isn't that what is suppose to happen? | |
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Posted: 8/24/2005 10:17:42 PM | HMMM NOPE Thank goodness I haven't had that problem yet! Hope I never do!
oops need to go check my laundrey! LOL | |
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Posted: 8/25/2005 7:35:42 PM |
Sex has to be creative and fun and pleasureable..... and you have to have a partner who is openminded and willing to try new things with you......
When I found sex boring and unsatisfieing was when the guy only thought of himself....
I really get off when I know the pleasure goes both ways.....
I believe anything should be part of sex between two people and have sex everywhere and anything goes... not the same old way ...lol
Sex is boring if you make it that way....communication is a must in the sex department......
Learn your partners body and find out his fantacies...I would think a lover who cares would never take sex for granted..
By the way babe I love what you do...
THAT is sooooo what i'm looking for. Well part of what i'm looking for. Brilliantly said sweetiie! Are you single? lol
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Posted: 9/10/2007 12:55:49 AM | If you can't have fun while having sex.......that's just sad......I never thought it could be boring!!! I mean you must not be doing something right......maybe you should talk with your partner. | |
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MsFine
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Joined: 8/20/2007
Msg: 57 | |
| Boring Sex
Posted: 9/10/2007 12:59:53 AM | | No i actually havent.because if the sex is boring then it might as well be you that is boring and its really easy to make a boring sexpartner an exciting one!! Indeed very easy, its just that ur interests in bed might be different so its just to open ur mouth-in a nice way ofcourse. A person might get offended and maybe its better to show than to say it because its very easy to say it in a wrong way! | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 2:12:09 AM | Bite ur tongue!
Sex should never be boring .. alas .. sometimes there is just no chem with the person u are with and can be a huge disappointment , but boring ? naught! | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 2:37:28 AM | | well i think woman r bored because it seems to me these guys just wanna get off and they dont think of the woman tooo much. theres alot more than the actual act, foreplay is always fun, oral stimulation, if u know what ur doin a woman usually love s to get oral, if u know what ur doin. so some guys need to take some time and deal with a womans pleasure. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 6:31:03 AM | | there is no such a thing as boring sex ........if you think some of the sex you were having is boring .........YOU are the problem ....Sex is a two way street ...you have to communicate ,you have to talk/ tell, push ,pull ,do whatever necessary to find the way to get your message across about what excites you when having sex and you have to listen and pay attention to your partner and what they like and want ......this applies to both men and women ..... being to shy and inhibited to tell your sex partner what you want is the stupidest thing in the world ...they are naked with you ... ....the em bare assing part is over .......have fun ...do something different | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 6:35:40 AM | I think we can all agree that sex *shouldn't* be boring but come on *no pun intended!* sometimes it just is!
maybe it was that you were in a long term relationship and things got a lil routine , or maybe you didn't have the chemistry with the person and it was a one time deal never to be repeated.
I can confess to having boring sex on occasion , I'm not blaming him , I'm not blaming me , it was what it was, I didn't repeat it but for those 3.5 minutes, lemme tell you....borrrrrrrring
and thanks to the OP I'm off to google family ties now , thanks, thanks a lot!
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| Boring Sex
Posted: 9/10/2007 6:47:26 AM |
........if you think some of the sex you were having is boring .........YOU are the problem ....Sex is a two way street ...
Yep.
Boring sex is when you are stuck with a self centered, selfish partner who is only interested in pleasing themselves. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 6:53:59 AM | LOL OP
I once feel into a dream and started talking to my self when I was having sex with my ex gf but that was because I had too many beers beforehand. It was one of the strangest experiences I have had during sex. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 7:05:42 AM | A recent study found that in 2 years of marriage, the women's interest in sex had dropped off about 50% . There was also a lot less intercourse per week.
So If you are afraid of loneliness, don't marry. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 7:07:09 AM | NO! I never have. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 7:12:40 AM | | Shark, please do provide us with links to your "recent study." I need to contact them, because they forgot to poll me and a whole lot of other women they are apparently including in that "study." | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 7:48:11 AM | | Beachchick, i am sure you're from the other 50% :-) | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:03:10 AM | Shark, it doesn't say "50% of women," which I might be able to buy...it says this: " the women's interest in sex had dropped off about 50% "
It says the INTEREST had dropped off by about 50%, and it sounds like all women in the study were included in that. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 10:04:30 AM | | I had a BJ that was so boring that I started to watch the TV that was on in the background. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 12:46:23 PM | Married Sex, Boring Sex...In my experience it was the same thing  | |
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Mia828
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Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 71 | |
| Boring Sex
Posted: 9/10/2007 1:02:39 PM | One time it was so boring I feel asleep
That's when you know it's time to move on | |
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MIKES3
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Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 72 | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:31:45 PM | | I cant say I've ever had boring sex. I'll make the best out of that scene no matter what, but hey if it was boring and you broke a sweat. You just lost some calories and let loose. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 1:49:36 PM | | I don't think I've ever allowed it to get boring. But thats just me. | |
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tigh
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Joined: 8/25/2007
Msg: 74 | |
| Boring Sex
Posted: 9/10/2007 3:21:46 PM | Sex will get boring if you don't vary it and introduce new games or fantasies once in awhile.Sensuality and seduction are very important to great sex.It is not just about the bedroom and the mechanics.Help out around the house guys, maybe she is stressed and tired , compliment her /him encourage and support, be affectionate without sex,Give full body hugs, show and speak your love every day.Making your partner feel good about themselves improves your sex life.A confident partner is comfortable and feels sexy.Also peeps forget sex is supposed to be fun, have a laugh and a giggleDo it outside and in different places apart from the bedroom..Keep it light hearted.Have a bath together, give each other massages.Build up the tension,For heavens sake turn the TV off.Except for some sexy music nothing else should be on.Use sex toys and some women benefit from using some lube if they are older.Talk sexy, tell saucy stories, act them out.Whisper your rudest desires in their ears.Compliment their body, make them feel you desire them and are straining at the leash.The brain is the most important sex organ.If your focus is switched off of course you lose interest.Keep your focus on your partner, lose yourself in the moment.Enjoy it ! its fun, healthy and relaxing and bonds you together | |
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Posted: 9/10/2007 3:32:55 PM | | Yeah, it's happened. And furthermore, I've also repeatedly thought of the surname of the guy that played Alex P. Keaton's dad during more than one encounter, kind of like a mantra. That's just sad. But yes, you're not the only guy that's been there. Unfortunately, boredom tends to lead to...a longer duration of the encounter. And of course SHE thinks you just have a great deal of stamina, so she's impressed and just keeps calling and it's a vicious circle and SOMEONE LET ME OUT!!!!! PLEEEEEASE!???!!? | |
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