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 OnTheBus
Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 26
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simple, Because their hormones are in High gear, and because their Husbands are too busy wanking to porn
 nergal
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 27
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 1:26:50 PM
No Rich I was thinking about the Ritz which famously has Grab a Granny on a Saturday night
 endogoddess
Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 28
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Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 1:29:08 PM
Im soon to be 33 my live in boyfriend is going to be 26 in a couple of months. I am at my sexual peak it has nothing to do with being sex starved or desperate. He is more mature then most people I have met in my life. We share other things in common than just sex, like fast cars. Age isnt an issue. I hate it when I get an email or a message from a younger guy thinking im on here just looking for sex. I like all people no matter the age. Guys get a clue, older women seem more sexual because we know what we want and how to acheve it.
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 29
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Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:18:54 PM
I can only speak for myself and a few of my close friends, but here's the lowdown...we DON'T think WE are doing the favour. If any one of us is with an older woman, we appreciate it, and think it's a gift. Older women know their bodies and desires more clearly than *most* younger women. Older women are *generally* more confident also. This translates to more comfort in the bedroom, better sex and good reasons to pursue more. Unfortunately, as with pretty much EVERY other aspect of relationships...the majority of inconsiderate "man's men" ruin it for those of us looking for something more.
 toddintn
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 30
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:22:28 PM
it's not that we expect them to be....we just hope they will be...
 OnTheBus
Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 31
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:29:19 PM
Not true, I really do expect them to be. I know, shallow, but hell, I am happy.
 FloridaBrunette
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 32
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:37:45 PM
i'm starving.....
 rocboy
Joined: 7/5/2005
Msg: 33
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:50:59 PM
i think any woman of any age who's attractive, outgoing and confident will have men whenever they need them. some may be "easy" but not most.

on the other hand if the woman isn't outgoing and confident, she may not be as good at attracting men on her own so it may be easier to get her attention and get her in bed.
 Mzzzy
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 34
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 12:15:57 AM
Yeah ..I am old 54..near death ..give me some please before I die...
 CeltiX
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 35
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 4:31:30 AM
In general women hit their sexual peak later in life than men do. That doesn't "prove" anything, but look at it from the guy's point of view: we hit our sexual peak usually before or at the beginning of our 20's. At that age, the guy is full of hormones and usually inexperienced. All of a sudden, he hears that women in their 30's/40's are at their sexual peak, and by "sexual peak" he thinks it means they want it as bad and as indiscriminately as he does. Then the cougar hunt begins.

In their 30's and 40's though, women are more seasoned, more experienced. But (and this is just from personal experience) some of them prefer younger men because of their eagerness, energy and sometimes stamina.
 sal999
Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 36
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 4:59:49 AM
I'm 41 and much more picky than when I was at 22, sex starved and easy, what BS is that? I have men trying to pick me up constantly, young and old.
 UlaLume
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 37
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 6:04:15 AM
I suppose if I were sex-starved and easy, I'd actually do the younger men who've messaged me so far. And my lord, the vast majority of you younger men who've messaged me were quite alarmingly hot.

But no, because I'm not sex starved and easy, I don't. That's not the only reason I don't, however. I don't seek out younger men and I don't ever plan to do so. My age or older.

It would take A LOT to convince me to go younger. And I mean A LOT. I'm so totally not kidding when i say A LOT.

Insulting older women is not going to help. The tendency for most men to insult older women and assume they're easy is one of the many reasons I won't bother with them.
 OnTheBus
Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 38
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 6:07:18 AM
Does tickling work?
 Belladona
Joined: 5/14/2005
Msg: 39
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 6:22:59 AM
Interesting how "they" can put a desperation spin on a mature woman who looks after herself emotionally and physically, is in her prime sexually and is sexually uninhibited...and she is all this for what...so that a younger man can bestoe his attention on her, and be grateful for it.... hardly.... and particularly when it's done in such a fashion that it's insulting....why would anyone respond to that.
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 40
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 6:47:13 AM
Gee another stereotypical thread

Hmmm since we already have mention of the younger guy/ older woman scenerio just throw in a dose of some whiney "nice guy" who gets no responses and we could have all the worst and overdone threads rolled into one here- The mother of all wasted threads.....


OT- Blah......................

*Edit- agrees with Bella

and Florida when does this Grannies gone wild thing start? lol
 Hyggjandi
Joined: 8/24/2005
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Posted: 8/24/2005 6:50:12 AM
I dont, that attitude toward women is a dishonour,
It's ok for me and i think a whole number of outher men that
women put demand on men how they behave and look. :o)
 LdyLatteCreme
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 42
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 7:11:54 AM
@JentleJiantJim
Great answer! The younger men I've been in relationships with, felt the same as you. But, some of those who have pursued relationships with me, and failed, were seemingly, unaware of how it really is. Those are the ones who prompted me to post this thread.
 LdyLatteCreme
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 43
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 7:40:00 AM
@rocboy
Very good thinking! And so true. I see over and over again, women of all ages who post here and on other sites, who seem so lacking in self love and confidence. How one feels about oneself, projects to others around them. It's so sad when men or women have to use sex as a tool to be accepted, or to feel good about themselves. I love being who I am, and I love being the age that I am! I will never sell out on the principles that I've always adherred to.

To All: Some very good comments! Interesting seeing how differently people think on the same subject. I realize that the older woman/younger man threads are redundant, but on this one, I was asking a specific question, and not just speaking of the differences in ages.
 single_again_65
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 44
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:22:58 AM
This is very interesting.....I guess most men just figure that if a woman is still single in her late 30's and up, that she must be craving sex and is an easy target. Well if that is you, please email me, I would be happy to oblige.... But I think that women crave relationship more than they do sex on the whole. Guys, well we'll take whatever we can get, when ever we can get it....
 pepper2
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 45
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:25:19 AM
its because they cant keep up lol
 UlaLume
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 46
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:48:00 AM

I guess most men just figure that if a woman is still single in her late 30's and up, that she must be craving sex and is an easy target.


There's probably a reason that she's 30 and single. It's likely her choice to be single. The NEED to get married is what constitutes desperation. The settling just to make sure one is married by a set age is what constitutes desperation.

Being coupled or married just isn't that important to many. Either gender.


But I think that women crave relationship more than they do sex on the whole.


Well, no.. if that were true, that an older woman craves relationships, you'd think she'd have one.
 BBdrgn
Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 47
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:50:40 AM
So,you're saying their not?
 Javan2
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 48
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 8:55:47 AM
SoulLadyB, It may not even be about you personally. If two people are having sex both are doing oneanother a favor. I think it's intelligent for a man to recognize that women have sexual appetites. I'll never try to ignore that they do. Hot4teacher is honest, learn from her & you'll get more loving.
 goalie49
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 49
Why do men expect older women to be sex starved and easy?
Posted: 8/24/2005 9:37:11 AM
i dont beleive so...they just arnt about the bullshit games
 elpostino
Joined: 7/14/2005
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Posted: 8/24/2005 9:42:42 AM
Where are you finding these guys that assume this? If I had a choice between an attractive 20 year old and an attractive 40 to 50 year old, it would be the 40 to 50 year old. I prefer experience and longetivity. Ask the guys who make snide remarks if they would have sex with Cher, or Sophia Lauren or Anne Margret. Most mature women are like wine, they get better with age.
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