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 myr3dmont3carlo01

Joined: 11/14/2005
Msg: 226
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 2/9/2006 7:01:12 PM
It depends on the guys capability to hold out. A man who knows his body and has control can last all night long w/out loosin it. I've been on a 12hr spree once w/a now ex bf, and he didn't got done until WE were done. A man has gotta be able to have the midset to control himself. Seems like if a guy hasn't had sex for a long time, then it's always quick. I say practice makes perfect lol
 md99

Joined: 11/18/2005
Msg: 227
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 2/9/2006 7:14:05 PM
Well i will have to say, mine is about normal as alot, It usually last for 5 -30 minutes. But i will not leave her unsatisfied. That would not be good to want to have another encounter. But then we can always go to the next round that should be longer.
 KnuteRoc

Joined: 8/25/2005
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Posted: 2/9/2006 7:34:19 PM
Yep I have to agree, too long doesn't always equate to better.

I know I'm not the king, don't even pretend to be. First time it was like two strokes and wow!

Nowadays, I can go long enough that she actually loses lubrication and it can be disruptive to the moment of passion to have to reach down and grab some. A good buildup for her is a must then after that I like to play it by ear and hopefully my body will do a good job of being in tune with hers, when she cums, I wanna be right there.

Once in a while a good quickie rocks, couple of minutes to ten or so... otherwise, about 30-45, maybe an hour... that's usually fine.

Perhaps a better question would be: Ladies, how long do you WANT us to last? I know that'll vary too, sometimes we want it short and hard, or sometimes, long and sweet.
 CREngineer

Joined: 3/5/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2008 1:13:07 PM
depends if you have "whiskey**** or not!
 CREngineer

Joined: 3/5/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2008 1:14:14 PM
I found thinking of bad car wrecks and all your friends dismembered in your yard hellps you last longer
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2008 4:45:07 PM

I love to get on here and see men lie!!!! Lets be real here!!! Don't be ashamed!!!! I think the longest I have seen a guy go for was 1 1/2 hours ..... please don't lie and act like you guys can do it for 3-6 hours because you can't


For the right price, including airfare, I'll prove to you otherwise. If I lose, I pay. (I'll need to see a full length picture and a face shot of you before I agree.)
 contrary110

Joined: 8/12/2007
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Posted: 3/11/2008 5:30:16 PM
There are guys who can go for hours. I am seeing one. Longer doesn't always mean better, sleep is good sometimes too. LOL So. if it was pleasurable for both, does it really matter how many minutes/hours it's lasting or takes? The only time it would matter to me was if I didn't get off or if I was at the point of exhaustion and needed sleep or had to get up in the morning, etc
 flyingiguana

Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 233
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Posted: 3/11/2008 8:26:38 PM

According to studies,the average length of time for sex was 20-30min(INCLUDING "foreplay")
The average length of time for a man from penetration to (his)orgasm seems to vary from study to study Kinsey report(2 min)to more recent studies 6min.


what the...

i'm lucky if i can finish within 30 mins from penetration...
 docmegaman

Joined: 2/19/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2008 9:00:37 PM
Hello N8420

I know you want the ladies to answer but it really depends on the guy, his age, his health...etc and whether he uses a numbing cream or a c**k ring (and for those who do...don't leave it on for more than 30 minutes or you can do damage.
 jdoggharrisxxo

Joined: 2/5/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2008 9:54:58 PM
LOL.. Hilarious!.. - Sad...But True- I used this technique last week... It was kinda a bet we had... she swore I would tire out & cum b4 her... she started doing keggels on me, Damn it felt good! - we were at 20-25min by then... (multiple positions) - I had to resort to "thinking of bad car wrecks and all your friends dismembered in your yard " only gave me an extra 10mins though... -She won! -round one- We whipped the Toys out while I recovered, -Round two was a whole different story... Total encounter 2 1/2 hrs- with 3pops, "C"overup changes, 1 piss break/Rehidration...
 Mandarbgrim

Joined: 1/29/2004
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Posted: 3/11/2008 10:15:25 PM
Depends. 15 minutes to a half an hour or until one of us wants to stop. Usually an hour or two. Anything past a half an hour and I'm not going to get off.
 Countryr0se

Joined: 2/4/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2008 12:05:50 AM
hte first man that I slept with had a lot of experience in the sac, slept with a lot of women! lol but with me he lasted about 3 minutes.
then I had another guy tha totally blew me away 3 hours stright sex (not counting foreplay!)
but on average with the guys i have been with they usually only last 1/2 hour to an hour tops!
 tyspeaks

Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 238
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Posted: 3/12/2008 9:39:02 AM
There are men and women that like to go run marathons..some like to run sprints... When I was in college, I was a marathon man, and had a marathon women. On average, I can last anywhere from an hour, to an hour and a half. I can go longer, but that is pushing most women endurance. But any guy can figure out how to pace himself if he bothers. It's not that difficult. The same way that most women can be multi orgasmic given the chance.
 grizzly_bear

Joined: 5/1/2005
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Posted: 3/12/2008 10:26:47 AM
This thread cracks me up. As an everyday working man I can tell you most of these guys are full of crap. Unless the dude has been pulling his pud and ran a batch off by hand I seriously doubt the would go five minutes, never mind five hours.

I would much rather have ten minutes of no holds barred get ugly in the face, hump in the back, toe locking sex, a bowl of shreddies when its over and 8 hours of sleep. That is much more realistic.

On the weekend if you want to drag it out for lack of something better to do, I could see an hour or so. But regardless of how much lube you use, no women alive is going to let you pound them straight for hours on end.
 itsmeaaron

Joined: 4/2/2007
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Posted: 3/12/2008 10:43:12 AM
yes very true, it's all in training yourself, i would suggest studying the tantric arts. then you can last as long or as short as you want. from a half hour to 4 to 5 hours, whatever. but i normally try to go at least an hour or more, that doesn't mean i won't get off like 3 times, but i'm not a selfish lover, i try to satisfy the woman i'm with before i satisfy myself. then i go as long as i can and hopefully i give them multiples or give them a squirting orgasm. and mind you, this kind of sex only happens a couple times a week, then it's about 15 to 20 minutes usually.
 jdoggharrisxxo

Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 241
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Posted: 3/12/2008 10:56:40 AM

I would much rather have ten minutes of no holds barred get ugly in the face, hump in the back, toe locking sex, a bowl of shreddies when its over and 8 hours of sleep. That is much more realistic.


According to this thread http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts9512563.aspx The best sex, according to new research published 5th March 2008 in “The Journal of Sexual Medicine”, a US magazine states that great sex should lasts between 7 to 13 minutes, note this is penetrative sex and does NOT INCLUDE FOREPLAY !!!

Just though I'd throw this in the discussion...
 steve169x1

Joined: 2/15/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:04:41 AM
most from 20 seconds to 5 min

my tip is to quick hard one ,cum or knock one out before then make love, about 30min to 2 hours later should be able to ( stay hard for some hours ofter that ) there other way is to slow down or reduce / change tech, take some pratice can last up to 1hour 30mim now from standing start lol

any help ??

ps get feed back from her
 Bud.Green

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:16:08 AM
I know it's for the ladies, but I had to enter my two cents worth.
It depends on what you mean by last. If you mean until ejaculation, I've had entire sessions without ejaculating. I've had sex for several hours (with breather breaks in between), and never lost the erection or ejaculated. In fact, I very rarely ejaculate when I have sex, and that has been a bone of contention with several women I've been with. They felt like they hadn't pleased me because I didn't ejaculate.

Now if you're talking orgasm, I usually orgasm after 10-20 minutes of intercourse. Kegel exercises really help you to hold off ejaculating when you feel the orgasm coming on. I usually orgasm two or three times during a session, but, as stated above, rarely ejaculate.

Guys, do yourselves a huge favor and look into kegel exercises. They are easy to do once you've isolated the muscles. It's the same muscles you use to stop urinating mid-stream.

PEACE
 tyspeaks

Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 244
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 3/12/2008 11:46:22 AM
thanks bud...your right those exercises help....what I think is funny is the guys (and some women) insisting that a man can't last past a few minutes. Tantric exercises, karma sutra, the fact that men in porn can learn to ejulate on command, yet the average guy couldn't learn to control his orgasm for more then a few minutes. You really think that there are no women out there that want sex for more then an hour? Don't pass your own experinces (or short comings) on to others and then accuse them of lying. It is rather simple thing to extend your staying time... look it up.
 StrangerInTheHouse

Joined: 2/9/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:15:30 PM
With viagra? (Or one of the other drugs that most middle aged guys can take, even though they don't necessarily need to these days?)
Wow...
There are women these days who don't want to do it that long. If they see a guy red between the ears, they'll run for the hills, because guys can keep it up for four hours (trust me.. I know this).

Ry Cooder LOOK AT GRANNY RUN RUN lyrics
(J. Ragovoy/M. Shuman)
Said, look at Granny run, run
Grandpa runnin' close behind.
Look at Granny run, run, ah... there's something on Grand-daddy's mind.
Because he went to the doctor, got a brand new pill.
The doctor said, Son, you ain't over the hill.
He can't sit still.
Great, gosh, almighty, won't you...
Look at Granny run, run, faster than a Greyhound bus. [Granny, you better run]
Look at Granny run, run, now Grandpa is gettin' serious. [Somebody's calling you]
Well, he woke up in the middle of the night.
Said, Look-a here baby, everything's alright.
It was such a sight
Great, gosh, almighty, won't ya...
Well, look at Granny run, run
Grandpa runnin' closer now.
No matter how she run, run, he gonna catch her anyhow.
Well, he jumped up and he began to shout
Granny come a-running with the mouth poked out
Said, Look here, pretty Mama, stop your carrying on
All I want's a little loving just before I'm gone
Ain't nothing wrong
Hear my Lord, singing
Great, gosh, almighty
[You better run]
[Somebody's calling you]
Look at Granny run, run.
Well, I feel like my time ain't [long], time ain't [long] time ain't [long]



 blueeyed jack

Joined: 2/18/2008
Msg: 246
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Posted: 3/12/2008 4:44:28 PM
From a mans point of view, it depends on how good she is. can she do the right things. If so could be a fair long time or if she wants to finish you sooner and she is good she will.
 Addicted2forums

Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 247
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Posted: 3/12/2008 6:25:49 PM
I don't think there is a way of determining how long MOST GUYS last ... because there is just too much variance ... like anywhere from 30 seconds to 4 hours. Plus, one's gotta take into account how old they are, how tired they are, how "built up" they are, who they are having sex with, if and how much alcohol/drugs have been consumed , and if there are time considerations or distractions. Oh, and don't condom users tend to take longer?
 Pebblesz

Joined: 2/16/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2008 7:54:38 PM
imma ave 2 say 3 hours str8

until dey cum nd get bak nd den me nd de guy do it agin
 tralaza

Joined: 2/10/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:27:34 PM
It all depends. Hours and hours of pounding just makes me tired and sore.

He had to really learn to pace himself as I'm so tight he had trouble lasting for more than a couple minutes. He is able to stay hard most of the time after so he can keep going.

Sometimes a quickie is great and other times lots of luxurious foreplay for several hours.
 lunarlunacy

Joined: 1/14/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2008 11:59:15 PM
Depends upon the woman. If she is just touching my body 10-30 mins, if she is touching my heart and body - as long as she can handle. its not about the finish, its about the emotional and physical sensations imbetween. Connection not ejaculation .
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