| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/4/2009 10:54:19 PM | I have found at times, it depends on the relationship.
My last LTR started out it would take me at least an hour to get off most times...
But the closer we grew, the more in love we were, and the more we found just that "right angle" I would usually spend 30 to 40 minutes going down on her, and by that time we were both so hot, I was lucky to last five minutes. | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/4/2009 11:52:06 PM | | well, I'm pushin' 47 and I'm still around. My dad is still around at 69, and I work with a guy that's 86. I guess we guys last for awhile. | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/5/2009 12:23:42 AM | | honestly just the in and out stage with most guys lasts about 15 minutes some longer and some shorter. Most if it's longer they go soft before they come to the end of what they are seeking. if its shorter i don't go for a repeat. and most guys in my experience think forplay is something to be avoided or it's closer to a brace yourself ethel kind of thing or they are trying to adjust a car radio for crying out loud. honestly five minutes would be enough work if they have put in the over time before hand but they don't (sigh) I hope this answer helps | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/5/2009 5:15:29 PM | Ive been with some who could only last a few mins... then I have been with 2 whom could last hrs.... depends on the guy. | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/5/2009 5:20:03 PM | I can usually last until I hear that, out of breath, rather raspy...I think my husbands home?!
*queue the cannonball run theme*
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:00:53 PM | The longest a guys lasted with me is a whopping 9 hours, boy I miss him, and no it was all hard f*cking some of the time it was slow and sensual, it was a magical night . The shortest is when I asked him if it was in and he said he was done, lol, he was really small. But on average I believe anywhere from an hour to two is a good number. Do we always get it? No. the last guy I was with lasted on average 10-15 minutes a pop, sometimes I would get off but more often not and that sucks and is why we're not together any more. That may seem cruel but to me I need a healthy fulfilling sexual life to be truly happy with someone and remain faithful to them for life.
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/5/2009 11:12:06 PM | Although this is for women, I don't need to exaggerate, facts show that the average motel porn buyer watches on average for 12 minutes, that represents essentially then how long it takes for most man to climax. The other half of men last longer or shorter. I've had problems climaxing because of lack of interest or just not that into it and have gone on for more than an hour and then at other times not at all. I did it once in my life for 30 seconds because all I thought about all night was laying out my then women who I thought was incredibly beautiful that night. I guess something about the different color light in the bar with her smiles and laughs... I told her it was because I was looking at other women... but because I was comparing her and felt she was better.
Anyways, it always depends. I've gone long and short. I'm sure woman are essentially the same. At times they climax and at other times they can't. I had a girl who climaxed in 60 seconds and at other times would just give up... | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 5/6/2009 5:45:24 AM | It's funny to see guys try to blurt out six hours, trying to show off their porn star manliness.....
The truth is a study of 50 sex therapists who have been collecting data for decades say:
"Terrific News For Men - Good Sexual Intercourse Lasts Minutes, Not Hours
By News Staff | March 31st 2008
StaffHere's a myth many men are happy has been debunked - contrary to popular thinking about the need for hours of sexual activity, a survey of U.S. and Canadian sex therapists says satisfactory sexual intercourse for couples lasts from 3 to 13 minutes.
The average therapists’ responses defined the ranges of intercourse activity times:
"adequate," from 3-7 minutes;
"desirable," from 7-13 minutes;
"too short" from 1-2 minutes;
"too long" from 10-30 minutes
"A man’s or woman’s interpretation of his or her sexual functioning as well as the partner’s relies on personal beliefs developed in part from society’s messages, formal and informal," the researchers said. “"Unfortunately, today’s popular culture has reinforced stereotypes about sexual activity. Many men and women seem to believe the fantasy model of large penises, rock-hard erections and all-night-long intercourse. "
Past research has found that a large percentage of men and women, who responded, wanted sex to last 30 minutes or longer.
"This seems a situation ripe for disappointment and dissatisfaction," said lead author Eric Corty, associate professor of psychology. "With this survey, we hope to dispel such fantasies and encourage men and women with realistic data about acceptable sexual intercourse, thus preventing sexual disappointments and dysfunctions."
You braggards out there. You could be sleeping for 5:30 minutes and provide the same amount of sexual satisfaction!!!! | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 6/26/2009 10:38:12 AM | 45-50 minutes on average.
sometimes two hours, but that's with an intermission in between sessions.
it depends on how many times i make the girl scream into her pillow.
good girls finish first, second, third...twelfth.
bad boys finish whenever they want.
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 6/27/2009 2:47:03 AM | | It doesn't matter how long men last. As long as we are able to give our women the satisfaction that they require, they will in turn return the favor, or try the best they know how. Learn your partner and see what it takes to satisfy them. I usually try to make sure I reach orgasm the same time my partner reaches her third or fourth. It just feels so amazing. For me it's mostly mental. I say mostly, because there have been times when Mr. Springer just wouldn't go down. The guys that seem to be happy to last for 5 or 6 hours nonstop obviously haven't experienced it. Trust me, it isn't pleasant, your partner begins to become a bit frustrated and upset because she is feeling that she can't satisfy you and it is a bit painful. To me at least. | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 6/27/2009 11:20:09 AM | | Actually , I think it depends on a lot of things. I find that if its been some time since I have made love to a woman, it can end rather quickly. I have also had women say, damn why is this taking so long LOL I will say that sexual compatability is important. I have yet to find a multiorgasmatic woman. Usually one orgaism is enought , until a rest period . I do find that , the second go round takes longer for me. I do not like one night stands. I find that lovemaking is a new experience with each woman. It takes awhile to discover what turns on each woman,so dont discount a guy that ends quicker than you wanted the first time you make love. In my experience the more you make love to a person, the better it gets. After the first time, you are not so self consience,you have an idea what turns on this woman,and its enjoyed better for both persons . | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/8/2009 9:06:47 PM | "ilovetoshop", you're right. Most of the time when a guy can do it and come every 10 - 15 minutes, its an extra turn-on! But as you go the 2nd, 3rd time, it gets longer gradually :).
Even though I'm no longer with my ex, that's one thing I miss! But an ex is an ex - cant go back :) | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/9/2009 12:34:35 AM | | OMG that is the funniest thing ever whooo said like 6 hours bahahaha. Thats like 40 hours a week having sex or something. That doesnt even sound fun anymore LOL. Funiest shit I read all night! | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/9/2009 5:01:19 AM | Not counting foreplay...........long enough for the woman to have a few more orgasms.
Now by the time you get to penetrative sex she should have had at least a few orgasms from foreplay already.
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/9/2009 7:01:11 AM | If you're taking a study  I hardly believe you'll get truly accurate results here so make sure you understand that.
The shortest I've experienced was under a minute. Three pumps and a squirt.
The longest I've experienced went for almost 3 hours and was amazing but I'll be very honest and let you know I couldn't handle that all the time. It's like a special occassion type thing, hell yeah!
If I had to say what my 'optimum' I'd go 30-40 minutes but that is based off the assumption that I'm with a good lover and the frequency of our love making is a few times a week. If the frequency is say once a week or every other week then I would prefer the 1-2 hour range.
If I'm not with a good lover I'm just as happy to have it done with in 10 minutes. Of course why would you stay with someone who is a bad lover? You wouldn't necessarily but you don't know they're a bad lover till you sleep with them so. Ok, now I'm babbling.... | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/9/2009 9:55:46 AM | "Men I date always seem to be 5 min men."
They only last 5 mins because you're a hot and attractive | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:07:57 AM | | I think it might depend on how long it has been since they had sex and how their body part fits in her body part. I have known several men who lasted several seconds or a minute or two, some 15-30 minutes, and some several hours. | |
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| How long do most guys last?
Posted: 7/17/2009 2:34:04 PM | | This question is too general, with some the sexual chemistry is there for both parties and it can be quick and enjoyable for both, for others it takes a lot more work to make sure both get what they need out of it. It's all about reading your partners body language during sex. | |
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