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 badgirl17
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 51
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HOPEFULLY LONGER THAN THEY LIE ABOUT!!! BUT YES GIRLFRIEND I ACTUALLY HAVE HAD 1 GUY TELL ME HE COULD WARE ME OUT AND YES HE DID!! GREAT PIC GIRL!
 phillyboy30
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 8/23/2005 3:30:32 PM
IVE LAST 4 HRS THEN I LASTED 1 MIN. IT DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH I DRANKL OR HOW MUCH I MASTURBATED
 jarlef
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 53
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 3:46:10 PM
I don't try to hold back. When I'm with a good looking woman, why should I ruin it by thinking of Margaret Thatcher's watery ass to hold out? That's ruining it. I go for it, enjoy it, last 5 minutes, but I can keep going without missing a beat. The first one is easy, but the second one takes quite a while... like 30 minutes of straight going at it without stopping. And then I can still keep going for a 3rd one another 40 minutes after that. So 75 minutes of straight going at it without a break. Then, if I wanted to, I'd need a 10 minute break, and then I could go again...

But you know, 75 minutes straight gets a bit boring, so you mix it up a little, move somewhere else, do something else etc etc...
 girlnextdoor4you
Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 54
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 3:46:56 PM
I dunno about 'most' guys... I'm not hard to get along with guys... 20-30 mins of actual thrusting is good.... up to an hour (changing positions and such) is good. I gotta say... anything much over an hour, and I'm going to tell you to get the fuk off me!

I had an ex who the first time we had sex... went 3.5 hours. He couldn't cum. It was awful.
 phillyboy30
Joined: 4/13/2005
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Posted: 8/23/2005 3:48:19 PM
I REMEMBER WHEN I COULD DO THAT ENJOY IT WHILE IT LAST KID.
 fishbill
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 56
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 4:04:41 PM
It is against forum rules do ask questions of just one sex. So you should rephrase, it like "I need advice from ladies and men, how long does it take you to make a dude cum"
 girlnextdoor4you
Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 57
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 4:05:43 PM
^^^ amd most guys will say "I don't make dudes cum"
 fishbill
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 58
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 4:05:50 PM
I have a hard time cumming, and I go for an hour or so, until our favorite show comes on. Is it really so bad if the guy doesnt cum inside you?
 Grrretel
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 59
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 4:14:32 PM
I couldn't handle more than an hour. 20-30 minutes is best. Well, 'per session', take a rest and go again is ok.
 girlnextdoor4you
Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 60
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Posted: 8/23/2005 4:16:41 PM

Is it really so bad if the guy doesnt cum inside you?


not at all... but I don't like it if they can't cum period. He couldn't. Psychological problems.
 SpiderJohn416
Joined: 4/4/2004
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Posted: 8/23/2005 4:49:57 PM


Question for the ladies. (sorry guys, this is a sex question and us guys have a tendancy to exagarate)

So, not counting foreplay, how long does your guy usually last?

I don't think you can ask that this way, since the level and amount of foreplay have a pretty major impact on how long a guy will last.

I remember one time I was with this girl and she was going out of her way to****ease me off and on (mostly on) for about 12 hours. By the time we got down to actual sex, I came in about a minute because I'd been wayyyyyyyyyyyy overstimulated.

Do I usually do that? No. Like the one guy said, it could be 4 hours or a minute. It depends on how stimulated we are.
 BlahGrim
Joined: 1/29/2004
Msg: 62
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Posted: 8/23/2005 5:14:13 PM
The longest I have had sex for was an hour and a half...and I was starting to freak out..and she was starting to get annoyed. Hearing "Why won't you just cum?" in a whiny voice didn't help me get off faster. ummm..my average is like 15-20 minutes outside of foreplay. The thing is..the dude on the first page was right about you can put it off if you want to. So, it lasts as long as the guy wants it to.
 going going...
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 8/23/2005 5:36:45 PM
Well according to my Encyclopaedia Britannica, Medical and Health, 1987, Domeena C., Renshaw M.D. Loyola University.

Unfortunately the stats do not include the information on how large the test group was that they obtained their data from, but here's what it says.

For the men (sorry, it's in graph format)

Premature ejaculation - just over 1 minute

Average intercourse to ejaculation - just under 3 minutes

SUSTAINED intercourse - Looks to be about 13 minutes

For the ladies

Orgasm - on average 22 minutes

So after reading that I've got one burning question. Where the heck is Loyola University?
 saucygurl
Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 64
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 8:41:03 PM
Not long enough!!!!!!LOL
 DanQuixote
Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 65
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/23/2005 8:53:30 PM

OMG....I'm DYING of laughter over here!

I wouldn't even WANT it to last 2-6 hours straight. I'd be rubbed raw!


Baby... I have two letters and one word for you:

K Y Jelly

Even applying it is fun... Hell, we do that for a half hour!!!
 JentleJiantJim
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 66
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Posted: 8/23/2005 8:53:42 PM
Depends on the day, the mood, how MUCH foreplay, booze/drugs...anywhere from 30 seconds-1 hour 45 mins. I've never been with a woman that wasn't tired and/or sore after 1 hour 45 mins. If it's been a while, or I'm with a new partner that is EXTREMELY arousing (like new partners aren't anyway) she can get 'the easy one' with little to no effort, after heavy foreplay.

This is not just me, either. This has been the topic of discussion around many a firepit or card-game, and it's actually ABnormal for any guy I've ever known to last longer than 5-10 minutes the first cu.m. Keep the foreplay going, and get at it a second or third time and you can have the stamina.
 purelovemaking
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 8/23/2005 9:17:28 PM
30 mins to an hour
 ou812ic
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 68
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Posted: 8/24/2005 5:05:41 AM
So after reading that I've got one burning question. Where the heck is Loyola University?

Probably down the road from the Crayola factory.

This is cool now the answers are c.umming in sorry bout the pun.....

30min - 1hr seems to be the good sex area .... outside of foreplay that is of course......

I don't know about the backwoods of central PA, but up here is Canada there's a hell of a lot of woods to go camping into.

And about the Tantra and Male Multiple Orgasm. Yeh, I've heard of Kama Sutra and the art of Multiple orgasm's without ejaculating, but volutary ejaculation usually is not that voluntaring I can put it off but, sometimes there comes a point in time that it just has to happen.
 single_again_65
Joined: 6/9/2005
Msg: 69
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/24/2005 7:25:28 AM
Not that I know about other guys stamina abilities, but for myself....I can go for hours...yes, hours....before I actually need to cum. Once you have learned how to have orgasms without actually cumming, you can last forever, well almost. Usually for me anyway, its as long as my partner requires me to be ready willing and able!!!
 klasno
Joined: 3/23/2005
Msg: 70
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Posted: 8/24/2005 7:30:11 AM
i had a day...couple weekends ago.but i will admit the first one was like 1 minute...but then,but then.i came back and was gone boy...it was a mother ****ing dogfight...o and cum back i did....hey im happy and i know she was..
 endogoddess
Joined: 3/23/2005
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Posted: 8/24/2005 7:31:01 AM
As long as I want him too
 JackCooper
Joined: 2/7/2005
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Posted: 8/24/2005 8:03:40 AM
I'm with the ladies on this one. I can control my orgasm totally so if I don't want to come I won't. I can last an hour or more, not straight pounding of course, but an hour being hard and having intercourse in various positions. But most of the women I've been with can't take more than 45 mins to an hour of hard sex and then they are usually pretty sore and aren't enjoying it any more. When i was younger I used to think that the longer I lasted the better, but as I got older I realized that around 30-45 mins for intercourse was best for her so I limit myself to that, and sometimes a lot shorter if time is limited or just because sometimes...
 huggs1011
Joined: 8/20/2005
Msg: 73
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Posted: 8/24/2005 11:28:21 PM
Hi you 2.

I would say the 1 to 2 hours is more them
n the norm. But it is nice when you can find a man that can go that time. But I really do not care how long it last as long as it is dam good.
 drpookie
Joined: 8/12/2005
Msg: 74
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Posted: 8/24/2005 11:30:37 PM
**** everyone goddam terrorist box wankers....ahhh, i feel better
 unspoiled
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 75
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Posted: 8/24/2005 11:53:30 PM
A female averages 12 minutes from start of sexual intercourse to climax point, while a male averages 2.5 minutes. Furthermore, females can attain multiple orgasms within 2 minutes of the first climax; males have a refractory (recovery) time of 30 minutes from his first climax to his second erection

But that's ordinary. I couldn't imagine intercourse being as short-lived as that. A man should be able to give a woman multiple orgasms at each session, but that's my view. And, I don't know why a refractory period isn't lower, like 5 to 10 minutes.
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