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 Author Thread: How long do most guys last?
 Martin Keller

Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 101
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 8/27/2005 3:25:22 PM
[I love to get on here and see men lie!!!! Let's be real here!!! Don't be ashamed!!! I think the longest I have seen a guy go for was 1 1/2 hours..... please don't lie and act like you guys can do it for 3-6 hours because you can't]

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How the hell would you know? You ain't a guy, sweetheart, and some of us have more..... experience / skills / techniques than others.

I remember when I lost my virginity (y'all remember that?), it was really a total joke: KABOOM!! Just about on contact.

Now, after about 40 women and much much much much practice, I can honesty say that I HAVE lasted over 6 hours. You can think I'm full of bull and not honest - but hey, I think I'm the only guy on here who's using his real name, so you decide if you think I'm "real" or not.....

Would I want to go 6+ hours every time? Nooooo. Can I go 6+ hours everytime? Nooooo. (But probably most of the time, if I put my mind to it, if I'm well rested, if I'm having such an awesome connection with her, etc.......)

The other thing that most guys who have figured out how to do as such have learned is that when you finally do come, the orgasm is like - 5000% more intense and seems to go on and on forever (ever heard of the "hour-long orgasm"? - not a real orgasm, but kinda close - that's where you teeter on the brink for like - forever). And actually (and I just know y'all gonna think I'm full of bull here......) this is where I discovered that guys, too, can have multiple orgasms, just like women do (again, I find women tend to multiple more likely/often if they have been worked up slowly over a period of time.......).

Yes, I have had multiple orgasms, believe it or not. In fact, and though I can't do it all the time, I prefer the multiple thing (who wouldn't) over going 6+ hours, although in order to do it you definitely have to not come in like - 10 minutes! Going too long also make multiples less likely, as then it (often, but not always) collapses like some runner crossing the finish line at a marathon.

And for all of you who say that's physically impossible - it is not. There ain't nuthin' comin' out anymore after, like, the 3rd or 4th one - but that don't mean that the orgasm itself isn't happenin'. (Oh, and for the record - even getting to #3 or #4 is rare - usually just get two, if any - although my record is somewhere in the double digits - sorry, but I lost count...... - it was all her fault......) Now, so there's no confusion - I am not talking about having an orgasm, taking a smoke / drink / gatorade break and waiting for the little monster to come back for another round (although that is equally lovely, too....). I am talking about one on top of another on top of another on top of another........

I tell ya - there ain't nothin' like it!

Now I know there are more guys out there than just me who've had / done this, but we usually never say so because who the hell will believe us (you should see the expression(s) on some of the women's faces I've been with......). So please, fellas, if you're out there - BACK ME UP!

Hope I haven't made myself a pariah just by saying this, but we'll see..... In any case I'm sure that this posting will evoke some interesting responses......
 jennyve25

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 102
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How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/9/2005 7:34:45 PM
At first the guy i am with lasted like an hour, now id be lucky if he could last two minutes, i suppose there are alot of factors involved.
 2GOOD2BREAL

Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 103
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/9/2005 8:56:37 PM
Well if your doing it for 6 hours? Then you're not normal and need to see a doctor now!

Hmm I could go how long the girl wants to go, heck I do it alone for a few hours, but I do ... a few times, then repeat...
 Meikmeik

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 104
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/9/2005 8:57:33 PM
I get sore fast.. for reasons that need not be disclosed here.. lol

I'm content with half an hour to an hour.. but no more!
 Angelinfeathers

Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 105
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/9/2005 10:00:44 PM
Man I'm missing out here... hours on end... DAMN!
 Arkane78

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 106
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 7:05:56 AM
I know I'm not a girl but my ex is hardly going to write this in here...
With her on average was about 1.5hrs - shortest was an hour and longest was 2.5-3hrs.
That's the honest truth, I cared more about her happiness and enjoyment than my own.

When I lost my virginity it was like 20 minutes, managed to last much longer subsequent times with her - all I remember though is that boy were we tired by the end of it! :)
 zeuscjj81

Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 107
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 8:05:18 AM
Who would want to have sex for 3-4 hours? The average for me (honestly) is probably 30-45 minutes. An hour is not uncommon. It depends on the woman. If she comes in the first 5 or 10 minutes, maybe closer to 20. Some women don't like the constant banging for an hour. I was with a woman that could never come the first time, so I kept the first time short because she was looking for more quantity. Communication during and after is key about all things sexual is a good thing, including duration.
 ripley65

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 108
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 8:35:01 AM
Hmm,,the last guy i was with lasted about 10 mins. He's the only one that came that fast. Usually the men im with dont want to cum yet so they go in intervals.
 dud

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 109
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 10:25:34 AM
there's too many variables. more foreplay could make it quicker. tightness is definitely a factor. and do you mean how long til the first one or til the last one?
 tenbears17292

Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 110
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Posted: 9/10/2005 1:07:02 PM
Real lovemaking with someone that I loved seems like I could go on for a longer time due to the feelings that I have for her. Now if its a thing where I'm with someone thats just in it for the sex and less feelings then I can last as long as the viagra lasts. gotta love the little blue pill
 reverend rotten

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 111
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 3:08:07 PM
To all those guys that say the go for over three hours with out cumming, ever think you were gay??

 Aroara1982

Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 112
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How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/10/2005 3:44:23 PM
OMG Reverend

Actually....I don't think I've ever had a guy come while were rocking slow. So for my enjoyment, I'll make him slow down if I think he's close. Slow for a while, fast for a while. Sex need not be a 2 minute ordeal. In fact, I get pretty upset if he doesn't last atleast an hour. Had one guy though that I felt like I had finished the Folympics...
 horny_in_calgary

Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 113
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Posted: 9/10/2005 3:52:48 PM
Can't speak for any other guys, but for me...I'm never "finished" until my partner is fullu and completely satisfied!!! This can be 5 minutes or it can be 5 hours....depends on the moment.
 ou812ic

Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 114
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/23/2005 7:28:46 AM
To all those guys that say the go for over three hours with out cumming, ever think you were gay??


and that coming from a reverand, oh god
 blowthedustout

Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 115
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/23/2005 9:25:28 AM
as long as they want to, i reckon?
any energizer bunnies out there?
 Ovnay

Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 116
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/23/2005 9:58:36 AM
lets be honest guys

sometimes 10 minutes, sometimes I stretch it out for 45min to an hour, my average is 20-25 minutes.

6 hours lol
 dud

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 117
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/23/2005 10:08:15 AM
^^^^^^ 10... 9... 8... 7.... LOL
 Rodeo Guy

Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 118
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/23/2005 10:10:40 AM
If it lasts longer than 8 seconds, I jump off and throw my hat in the air......
 marathonman11x7

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 119
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Posted: 9/26/2005 10:37:44 AM
I've read the average length of time for sex was 20-30min(INCLUDING "foreplay")
The average length of time for a man from penetration to (his)orgasm seems to vary from study to study Kinsey report(2 min)to more recent studies 6min.
Here is a link that should help:

http://www.sexualrecords.com/WSRaverages.html
 jester_dude24

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 120
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Posted: 9/26/2005 1:06:54 PM
yeah i have to agree there, the longest sex ive ever had was about 2 1/2 hours, and we didnt get raw cuzz she was having multiples. but most girls seem to dry up after too long, even if u are doing it right, some of them just loose the ability to enjoy it after a certain amount of time. i would say on average i last from 30 mins to 70 it really depends on how i am enjoying it. if she is a freak and makes it exciting im more apt to make it last longer. the last girl i had sex with was a dead fuk and so i didnt ever last too long, i let her get hers and then i got mine, no use in prolonging something that isnt that fun
 rabidus_unus

Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 121
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 1:58:04 PM
ive lasted as little as ten minutes as long as an hour and a half, all changes with how often you have sex how good it is and how much anticipation there is.

Edit: I cant really see having sex for 3-6 hours, wouldnt it lose its thrill? i know im pretty sore at the end of 1 and a half hours so i can only imagine.....6 hours ughhh
 DivineInnovation

Joined: 9/15/2005
Msg: 122
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 2:49:21 PM
I believe the average for the men I've been with have been about 15 minutes. The best I've ever had lasted around 2 hours. But that 2 hours consisted of foreplay as well. I think for most men, after the initial thump, they don't like the emotional connectiveness that sex entails and therefore they try to speed up the experience and merely are in it for the ejaculation.
 hot4teacher

Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 123
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 2:53:55 PM
Actual intercourse? I say gimme about 15 minutes then lets play around some more or take a nap and then do it again...repeat as necessary.
 ~Dangerous Liaison~

Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 124
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 3:10:42 PM
depends how many postitions we do...and it depends on the guy. I would say average...about...15 or 20 minutes.
 hiladies

Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 125
How long do most guys last?
Posted: 9/26/2005 3:28:18 PM
id last all night with u..god damn ur hot
how long can u go thats the question???
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