| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/25/2005 10:53:39 PM | Oops, should have put this in front of my remarks...I was replying to this cute post:
its the most important thing men are too boring otherwise all they talk about it cars or their work yawn if they would just lay there and do the wild thing whenever we saw them how great would our lives be lol | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/26/2005 5:32:01 AM | "i really don't find it that importnat until u love someone. When u love someone u are more than likely going ot have sex more often cause u are comfortable with them and want ot share the expierence. So in teh beggining of a relatiosnhip when usually most couples have sex more often i think u should have sex less./"
Good Call Short Stuff, Couples cloud their judgement and confuse lust for love, When you are in love the physical act is less important and the emotional connection takes over, As far as how often when in a commited loving relaitionship? As often as you need to connect, personaly with my ex we did it 3-4 times a day for 8 years and it slowed down about 6 months before we split, I was into the connection | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/26/2005 5:44:58 AM | | There often comes a time when a man has to realize that the sexual days are over, and move on. Sex is an obsession of youth. It's the sign of an old fool who still thinks he's 20-30 years old. Sure, who wouldn't like sex if it was still possible, but we endure and have to live through all kinds of Hell, and sex fades into the background as a memory. Some of us have long term health problems that supercede any thoughts of sex. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 2:46:19 PM | Personally, I think there is too much emphasis on intercourse. It doesn't do a thing for me. The first time I had intercourse, I was bored out of my skull. I was expecting nirvana, instead it was so mechanical and clinical - I was totally detached from the experience. I'd rather smooch and lick and all the other stuff.  But I don't know if women consider that sex. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 5:09:44 PM | | I've heard everything now. I guy that says sex isn't that important!? Wow. I think you may be dating an alien. I'm real into ufos, please send me a pic of him. We lack legit photos of alien beings in ufology. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 5:12:28 PM | | Sex/intimacy are extremely important in a relationship. I cannot see how a relationship between a man and woman could survive without it. It is what brings the two together, isn't it? Without it, what do you have? A friend that lives in your house? | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 5:43:50 PM | | well it is important for quite some time, but as we get older and we fall deeply in love with everything about that person, sex seems to fade and the love that they feel for each other maintains the relationship. fpr some sex isn't such a major priority any more. just being together and growing old together is mostly what the older people want. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 5:53:20 PM | How My Partner Feels Sexually Is Very Important to Me........Everything in Moderation....
....She is allowed to rock My world when ever She wants.....    | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 6:13:39 PM | I think sex varies from everybody personal opinion. Some thinks that sex is important in a relationship.
As for what I think it's to a balance how can you really judge or say when sex is too much ...??? | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 7:58:21 PM | | if I found a jeanie bottle right now! I would wish that I was a duster(LOL)!To me sex is very important,but so is talking to each other and understanding each other. I agree with ty-(everyone has different prferences).I was with a lady at one time taht twice a day was sufficiant.but I recall many days that we did it 5-7 times.And believe me,I am no minute man!she like to killed me that one.but i enjoyed every minute of being with her.as long as your both content,and happy with each other,whats wrong with any and or all of the above!(man,I wonder what ever happened to her?LOL! | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:06:10 PM | | i would have to say, especially being in my 20's sex is an important part of a relationship. i would never involve myself with someone just for the sex or just cause they are particularly good at it or enjoy certain things that i enjoy, but once in a committed relationship with the right person it's important. in a relationship my relation with the other person is most important, that we get along, spend time together doing things. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:08:58 PM | | It all depends on your needs, your preference. Me, that would NOT be okay. Sorry. Even with a hectic schedule I'd want at least 4x a week, assuming you see him every day of course. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:12:00 PM | Sex is only 10% of a relationship IF YOU ARE HAVING IT.
Sex is 90% of a relationship IF YOU ARE NOT HAVING IT.
So the real question is, how much sex defines HAVING IT? | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:17:08 PM | The PC responce to this question would be "no, sex is not important in a relationship," all the while they know it damn well is. Without sex, it's just a friendship and there is nothing wrong with that; however, in a "relationship," which is the key word here, sex is very important. What I am about to say may not be very PC of me, but I would definetly not continue a "relationship" with anyone if the sex was nonexistent or bad. I'm sure they would make a great friend, though. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:26:28 PM | | Oh my. There's a question... Well I tend to be of the opinion that no sex at all just makes the whole relationship a little awkward (and frustrating) after a while, but too much of it tends to make it lose it's meaningfulness. But hey, different folks, different strokes. You should basically be able to get a feel for things when you get to that point. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:29:16 PM | | Well; I was watching Oprah last month---She had a doctor on that said IF YOU HAD SEX 5 TIMES A WEEK---YOU'D LIVE 5 YEARS --- LONGER THAN USEUAL; And friends--I want to live a very long time; Yes--it is important in any relationship; | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/27/2005 8:29:19 PM | Hmmph.. How important! Important enuf to get your ass busted outta my life! I want it in the Am the PM and in the Afternoon too, every day for life. PC my ass! WTF is that? This is my 1 life I'm living here, and I want it all. No sex, colour me gone.........fast...... | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 8/28/2005 4:13:06 AM | | It's such a personal issue. I think all we can do is try to find someone who has the same level of sex drive as we do. I do think sex is important in a relationship, so, compatability is paramount to the success of one. | |
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| How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 11/29/2005 7:54:39 AM | Well like many things in a relationship between two people, sex is a personal taste or preference of course. What two people deem acceptable is their business naturally. I would have to say that sex is a HUGE factor when it comes to a relationship. Others may disagree BUT how many relationships deteriorate because of lack of intimacy? MANY! Don't get me wrong, there are many different attributes that make a good relationship solid and wonderful no doubt....but SEX is a major component!
I think it's really important to be on the same waive length with one another when it comes to this part of a relationship. One must be compatible with his or her partner. I mean let's be honest...an individual who craves and needs sex once every 5 hours ... will not last in a relationship with another person who barely craves it once a month. Get my drift?
Personally, I would love it once a day AT LEAST myself .... but that is just me!
~ Carissima ~ | |
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