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 torentrap

Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 101
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/9/2005 7:06:27 PM
For me personally I like it about every other day. My ex thought twice a week was too much lol, but yes it's the way a person is ,you can't do anything about it.
 gatekeeper

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 102
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/9/2005 7:08:30 PM
It's too much when it over takes everythig else in the relationship, no matter what the reason. It's a big part but,...there is soo much more to a relationahip.
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 103
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/9/2005 7:18:19 PM
Well .. the thing I miss the most is the regular sex ....
 GoodWild

Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 104
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/9/2005 10:11:10 PM
I think that sex is important only to those who feel that is the only way they show there partener they love them. I have learned there are many ways that you could show love... I have made a relationship harder just because I wanted more then we needed to have .. sex is not a big issue to me anymore but is something I do enjoy when the time arises but its more fun and more exciting to cuddle up and love someone the real way without having sex all the time. I think sex should just happen not to be thought about.

So next time you are having sex... think about Making love instead ... if not find a intimate encounter. And for those of you who think you want to wonder because your loved one dont like sex as much then you need a life. LOVE IS more important... the heart not the sexual orgins.
 jbowden0

Joined: 12/7/2005
Msg: 105
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/9/2005 10:22:59 PM
i think sex in a relationship is only important when your both awake.
 exploring

Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 106
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/9/2005 10:43:34 PM
I was reading some of the replies to how important sex is in a relationship, and had to comment. Some say sex is only 3% of a relationship..........I think the number is alittle higher myself....lol.....but more importantly....if it is not there it is like the other 97%. I was in a commonlaw relationship, that was otherwise pretty damn good....but there was not sexual chemistry.....everything else slowly came crashing down around us....................sex is a form of communication and expression, that should and must be shared in a healthy relationship...........the amount of it, is negotable...wink wink
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 107
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/10/2005 12:32:31 AM
...like an icing on the cake

buzz
 bakedsalmon

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 108
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/10/2005 2:46:32 AM
the only way sex twice a day can be too much is if it's for longer than 12 hours each time..!
 taurus516

Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 109
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/10/2005 7:06:42 AM
I only want sex on days that end in "Y".
 cancercarless

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 110
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 12/10/2005 10:36:47 AM
It's important but sex shouldn't be the focal point. At the same time, if there is no chemistry what so ever, the relationship is dead in my eyes. I recently broke up with my girlfriend for stopping sex with me. Her roommate thought we were being too loud and we weren't. The roomie was just jealous and it really caused a problem. At first I did not mind and then later I realized that my girl got hers, was very satisfied and my needs came after her roommates need for "peace". I would have understood if her roommate had talked to us after, but she banged on the door when we were in the act. I realized then that I want to be with someone who doesn't pay attention to anything else when we are making love.
 sunnybaby

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 111
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 2/18/2006 8:38:19 AM
I think that sex is the number 1 most important thing in a relationship. If the sex is going well and both people are satisfied than that contentment seeps into the rest of the relationship. But if someone is left unsatisfied, watch out! That too will seep into the relationship and lead to resentment and frustration. There's no quicker way to obtain a low self-esteem than when your partner isn't interested in you sexually. I think it's awesome that we all can't seem to "get enough" at the beginning of a relationship, because it's our opportunity to guage the sex drive of the other person, and hopefully you have a match. Happy matching sex drives, people! :)
 benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 112
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 2/18/2006 8:46:28 AM
how about 3 times in the evening and two in the morning before work? that sounds like a nice round number lol..added bonus is always go to work with smile on face lmao
 dellyhopper

Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 113
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 6/7/2006 12:08:03 PM
Hello everyone, sex is important in a commited relationship as it is the culminatioin of feelings one for the other.Getting older does not necessarily mean not having sex as often,it depends on the individuals involved.Beingf together is certainly important,but sex should get better as the couple becomes more caring for each other.
 dellyhopper

Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 114
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Posted: 6/7/2006 12:10:41 PM
I absolutely agree that sex is the icing on the cake for a healthy loving relationship.
 ComicBookGirl2006

Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 115
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 6/25/2006 1:50:02 AM
There can never be too much sex in a good relationship....ever. All the other stuff is important but so is a healthy, naughty, dirty, nasty sex life. God I need to get laid.
 Mopegunz

Joined: 5/6/2004
Msg: 116
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 6/25/2006 2:14:16 AM
Once a sexual relationship has been obtained, it is a strong key to the relationship... There are many tensions that don't need to be when sex becomes a less functioning part of the relationship...
 chemistry_heaven

Joined: 4/18/2006
Msg: 117
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 6/27/2006 8:16:07 AM
I think sex plays a big part of any relationship,unless they are asexexual,celibate or impotent which then its bound to course frustration with one partner of the realationship unless they feel the same about it.

Omg..... twice a day every other weekend and he thought it was too much.....surely that doesn't belong in the same sentence
The more the better, you can never have too much
 MomWarnedYouAboutMe

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 118
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 6/27/2006 8:33:08 AM
Sex is very important in a relationship, but the frequency really varies from relationship to relationship, and with seasons in the relationship.
 scotishthistle1967

Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 119
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 6/27/2006 10:10:32 AM
sex is important in a loving relationship........
 trkdrvr56

Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 120
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:15:30 PM
Sex in a relationship is as important as you get older as when you were young. and lack of sex or how often is not limited to age, but to frame of mine and importance of your relationship with that special other.
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 121
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 7/5/2006 4:47:53 AM
I think it's one of those things

Whatever!

Try this .

Whats most important to YOU

- sex
- kids
- money
- communication


and on the minus side whats the most relationship destroying

- kids
- lies
- affairs
- domestic violence.
- drug abuse
- crime

No I don't know either. I'm just asking.
 loosyloo1

Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 122
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 7/5/2006 7:32:07 AM
if you love each other then that should be enough. If you are both in the mood to have sex then let it happen. If a man works hard and he just wants to sit by the there mite be other ishues with im.:
 loosyloo1

Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 123
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 7/5/2006 7:40:03 AM
i agree on that.
 benitapplebum

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 124
How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 7/5/2006 8:09:13 AM
Say if you have sex once a month, but every three days you are physical with one another..meaning you do everything sexual. e.g oral and so on, without the intercourse?? Is that okay?
 Dragonfly2005s

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 125
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How important is sex in a relationship?
Posted: 7/5/2006 8:16:43 AM
The Key word here is easy to forgive your worst points and love you know matter how screwed up you really are.....
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