ksue44
| Joined: 6/20/2005 Msg: 76 | |
| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 9/29/2005 5:33:10 PM | | Good post and very thought provoking question. It would take one helluva guy to have me consider that. I mean we'd be talking marriage here. I wouldn't quit my job without a job offer waiting for me. As far as my house goes, I'd rent it out (safety net just in case and income producing property at the same time). I'd really have to know the fella inside and out, etc.. I can't fathom living in Dallas the rest of my life, it would really have to depend. | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 9/30/2005 9:14:20 AM | If me & that man truly clicked.And he were talking marriage etc,Then yes i would re-locate,as you only live once..
But not without making sure,i had a new job to start.And i would not just give up my present home as such.(safety measure)I would rent it out for a year atleast.. | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 9/30/2005 9:18:37 AM | | Hrmmm such a well thought question.. And I can say that I have had the experience to have turned this one down. Even though we were really good friends and the possibility to make things work, I couldn't bare the thought of leaving everything I know and came to terms with behind. Now IF we were living together and the opportune moment arised to move somewhere else, and I knew for certain.. Then that's a whole different story.. | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 2:42:06 PM | | My life as a gypsy is beginning to unfold. I really like to have roots in several places. I've got around 7 maybe 8 years until retirement. Barring any untoward health or financial issues I'll be that moron driving that huge coach around this country and Canadia. I'd certainly consider the opportunity at a later date. Work largely keeps its base here in Pittsburgh with small endeavors in opportune areas as they present themselves. But sure, I'd be A) flattered as hell. and B) rather anxious to try a whole lot of new. It does seem sort of nutz I'll give you that. But lots of mail, phone and weekend trips to fun places make terrific relationships. So long as things are clearly defined hell yeah. My kids will be grown by then and I'm sure would welcome alternate locations to visit. Sounds like more and more fun by the minute. Where'd that little auburn haired canuck go? | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 5:33:58 PM | Did someone call for an Auburn haired Canadian? In answer to the question, of course I'd consider relocting for someone I loved, but of course I'd have to be sure it was the real thing, not just run off with any ole one, I'd have to bring all my kids, all my friends, I'd be lost without them they have been my strength, oh and some of my family, he better have a big house...lol
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 5:37:30 PM | Whew, an artic blast. There you are. So how does one get a price on a small farm in Canadia any way? And what shall we grow? I was getting kind of nervous. Pulls shirt collar, kinda hot in here.
They're easy enough to build, and maybe we can even employ some of the beggars. *wink*
We're going to need some white out for my ummm stellar record of human existence though. And maybe a small paint roller to go with it. And aboot those references aye? Maybe the prime minister or even the even one could sign some papers for me? I can think of at least a few states that will be sorta glad to see me pulling away for parts north. | |
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Dryad
| Joined: 7/19/2005 Msg: 90 | |
| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 6:21:31 PM | Well let’s see… well, I’ve moved several times for things as mundane as jobs.
So if I loved and cared about someone, then of course I’d consider moving to be with them.
If I was in a committed relationship, and it got to the living together/marriage stage it’d have to be open for discussion and compromise on both sides. In part, it depends on who has the hardest time finding new work (some jobs are a bit restrictive location-wise), finances, family, how long the moved is for, and so on. Also, there’s what our dreams for our life are… wanting to live by water, wanting to build a home/cottage, having a garden...
Meshing lives and dreams together takes some effort. | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 6:24:32 PM | I had to think about this one. I'm adventurous enough that I would do it--for the right guy and in the right circumstances. (This is the part where you all say, "Well DUH!")
Since this isn't something I am having to face, that's as much as I will say. | |
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quoin
| Joined: 5/22/2005 Msg: 93 | |
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Jlizzy
| Joined: 10/10/2004 Msg: 94 | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 6:53:54 PM | Listen: when you live in a country where it hits 40 below cero in winter, you would relocate too... My suitcase is packed, my toothbrush in my pocket...all ready to go... As winter approaches, I'm in the mood to get serious...where are you, dear, in Alaska? Please, don't bother me , I'm busy...and you? in Florida. eh? I love you baby.... I just want to relocate to a place where the only ice is in a tall glass, not on the roads... So, women in America and points south, e-mail me....it's starting to get cold here... If any of you ever come here in winter, you would see that canadians walk with a special gait... it's the old frozen ass syndrome.... And that's the women...men have more parts that can freeze...not funny, pal....why do you think the birth rate is soooo low here? | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 7:17:21 PM | This topic is apropo to me right now as I live in a small town and anyone I meet on this site is going to be from Vancouver. I just don't know if I could move from where I live. I am part of the most amazing community I have ever come across, and have made some of the best friends. It would be very hard to leave this little piece of paradise (to my mind anyway)
To the above poster that said its only bricks and mortar, that is true but it is people who make up a community and that is what I would be leaving. She wuld have to be pretty f##king amazing for me to leave the Sunshine Coast.
Of course this hypothetical woman could move here.... | |
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/1/2005 7:43:12 PM | Only for the right person and we would have to have a major commitment on hand. The place would also need to have culture as well as nature. My NO way list New York LA Florida, lived there hated it ! Most of the South Texas No Flood zones I don't think I could handle Flat areas either. Man maybe I better just stay were I am, Maryland / "America in Minature" No really I wouldn't mind getting out of Dodge !!! Cheers, SmoochiePooches
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| Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 10/2/2005 11:56:31 PM | latintango Re: Something you wrote....
Thank You...I needed the smile. Your written statement gave me one. ***I'm up and can't sleep because somebody tried to come in my house tonight.
To Quote you ..."it's the old frozen ass syndrome...."
***********I'll laugh & remember that statement for years to come******************
Jenna | |
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