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 Blueskies123

Joined: 11/3/2006
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People that don't have~nor EVER want kids..what do you think?
Posted: 4/21/2008 4:20:04 PM
I don't mind them..quite like a few actually!
I just don't want them myself...never have.

They are good for ganging up with against their dad though!!
And they can be quite lovely too..when they are a little older..and can talk...
 jigga w00t

Joined: 2/1/2006
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People that don't have~nor EVER want kids..what do you think?
Posted: 4/21/2008 5:56:02 PM
I think people that don't want to have kids are focusing on the negative aspects of raising them like putting up with tantrums, the stresses of public figures (teachers, priests, etc.) who are sexual predators... I get discouraged about having children when I hear about the statistics of mental or physical disabilities. But I want to have children so I get the chance to be the father to them that my dad never was to me. His dad was a bad father, and probably my great grandpa too. I'm breaking the streak!!
 bitemecitygirl

Joined: 6/15/2006
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People that don't have~nor EVER want kids..what do you think?
Posted: 4/22/2008 10:27:48 AM
In response to jigga;
I am sure some people do choose not to have kids for those very reasons, some of us however, have chosen not to have them for entirely different reasons. I suppose really, the idea here is to each his own.
When looking for a mate however, it is certainly best to make that preference up front. Otherwise you can settle into a loving relationship assuming the other is on the same page. Years later when you start really thinking about it, is not the time to have that particular argument!
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