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 kazuoy

Joined: 2/13/2009
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Posted: 5/26/2009 8:29:33 AM
my bf can tell you that... he's 54 and he says he gets more attention now than ever... well maybe because he works out and he's easy on the eye... besides, girls who have been with him and enjoyed it do talk... i'm glad we're on an open relationship LOL...
 trueman47

Joined: 9/12/2006
Msg: 252
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Posted: 5/26/2009 9:09:37 AM
Because we look after ourselves, and all the women our age are in nursing homes.
 Call me Ginny

Joined: 12/28/2008
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Posted: 5/26/2009 9:21:11 AM

I may regret this question. Ladies what age are you calling older? The short answer to your question. In my opinion this old guy knows the best sex is what follows great foreplay. Great foreplay comes from exploring a women's body finding "her" sensative areas and talking to her. I'm in no hurry.

To answer steele101; Older (55) is my age and up. I find them sexier, more in tune with themsleves and their partner, and not as hooked into looks and status. I'm especially attracted to bald men, myself!



I definitely agree with da girls....older guys are hot. There is just something about them...they are confident but not in a**** way like younger guys. I get along better with older guys too. I do like relationships and I definitely like someone who knows how to do things right in the bedroom which is what I have found older guys to be very good at. They know what women want/need and that is sexay! Younger guys....just don't cut it!


Not to disparrage younger men. Be patient. One day you'll find out just how good it can be!

 TruGold

Joined: 5/25/2009
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Posted: 5/31/2009 3:04:22 PM
Malestrome; Wow! What kind of older women have you been around. What you say certainly doesn't describe me. You look to be attractive, so why would it take older women to make you feel attractive? The younger ones don't? For that matter, why would it take anyone to make you feel attractive.

Older men sexy? Sam Elliot!!!!

 CynthiaM

Joined: 8/29/2008
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Posted: 5/31/2009 7:07:35 PM

I never ran into many women who think that older guys are sexy except older women who now, not many men want and they are needy, cause this superficial society is all about looks and theirs is all but gone. So they for the most part want someone, anyone. So I guess they will take me and flatter me so I will feel attractive.

Too bad your attitude sucks. Because 1) I am younger than you (i.e you are an older guy), 2) I think you're very attractive, 3) I am neither unwanted by other men, nor needy, and 4) my looks are not all but gone. But, you're correct that I'm only flattering you because even though you're very attractive outside, your inside needs some work. (and your forum posts and 2nd half of your profile make a lie of the first half)

Oh, and my bf is not only 6 yrs older than me, he's older than you.

But, he is quite a hunk :-)
 CynthiaM

Joined: 8/29/2008
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Posted: 5/31/2009 8:06:11 PM
Thank you. You prove my point. Once again.
 123023

Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 257
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Posted: 6/2/2009 12:21:51 PM
The guy said, that in his experience, he hasn't noticed girls liking older men until they had to.

That's his opinion. I don't really think that he said that not one single younger girl has ever liked an older guy.


And - for argument sake.... who really considers someone older if the amount of years is small? Isn't that more of a reference to someone outside of an age group? Like over 5-10 years?

I, for one, do not find older men sexy.

I can tell you if a guy is attractive, or is good looking , in general, for their age -
On a personal level, someone over 5 years older than me would not be date material.
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 6/2/2009 1:06:58 PM
(tryin to grow a few grey hairs and work on my Sean Connery accent)

"well, i moosht chertainly hope your impresshed"

 danzandsing

Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 259
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Posted: 6/2/2009 4:14:33 PM

WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY????????


Simple. They are uninhibited. The wisdom is enlightening..the experience is weathered..the motive is real.

"Young enough to see the passionate boy that I used to be. But I'm old enough to say I've got a good look at the other side."

Billy Joel--The Night Is Still Young ©1985

Lost the hair at 22. Started to gray at 26...but at 34, I feel better than ever. The love I feel is worthwhile, and the energy is still vast. Perhaps, this will change at 35 (only 2 months away), or (if I live long enough) at 65. I simply hope to remain suitable. And if I'm still considered sexy, I'm grateful and flattered.

Danz
 CynthiaM

Joined: 8/29/2008
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Posted: 6/3/2009 12:49:38 PM

Perhaps, this will change at 35 (only 2 months away), or (if I live long enough) at 65. I simply hope to remain suitable. And if I'm still considered sexy, I'm grateful and flattered.

Danz,
You absolutely, without a doubt, will be sexy at 65+ because you acutally like women and it shows. That inner beauty will always be attractive.

Namaste
 Aligirl21

Joined: 2/18/2008
Msg: 261
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Posted: 6/11/2009 8:25:53 PM
I have this thing for a 35 year old and im 22!
 Acomeau

Joined: 3/7/2009
Msg: 262
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Posted: 6/11/2009 8:34:37 PM
....ok next 50 year old you see i dare you to flirt with him...I guess you better make sure hes a rich celebrity..poor girl
 TheModernPagan

Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 6/11/2009 8:51:47 PM
Because even a toothless shark still circles the boat
 windloverr

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Posted: 6/11/2009 8:56:50 PM
My guess is that it's knowledge, experience, and confidence. Before the age of mass media, Ben Franklin was actually considered a "sex symbol" in his age.

However, the trick here is "What the h*ll is an 'OLDER' guy?" I'm 50, an JUST NOW BEGINNING to MAYBE consider myself a "bit" older; but "older" than what? or Who? The other trick here is "What is 'SEXY'?" If "sexy" is cut abs, and coal black hair, then most of us are screwed. If "sexy" is being confident in your assessment of yourself, and your abilities, then "we" rock. I don't have the six pack I used to have, and I can't do nearly as many one handed push-ups as I used to; but I am a MUCH better lover than I ever was in my twenties or thirties. So, I guess, "sexy" depends on what you are looking for. If you're looking for someone who would look good on a post card, in a torn t-shirt; ya gotta go for the under thiry crowd. However, if you're looking for a man who doesn't break a serious sweat until AFTER you've had more orgasms than your average 20 year old has...well...while she's 20...then you're gonna have to look for a guy who's been there; and he's going to have a couple of miles on him.
 Excellent_Guy

Joined: 2/21/2009
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Posted: 6/11/2009 9:29:41 PM
I don't know but I do know you're all replying to a 5 year old thread so anyone still around is a lot older. Also don't know why threads this old are not deleted, one of the oddities of this particular site I guess.
 trekker013

Joined: 3/24/2007
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Posted: 6/12/2009 1:37:30 AM

So, I guess, "sexy" depends on what you are looking for. If you're looking for someone who would look good on a post card, in a torn t-shirt; ya gotta go for the under thiry crowd.


Not necessarily. I'm 43 and my body (especially the last couple of months) is looking better now at 43 than it ever did at 23. There's plenty of room for improvement (I've never been blessed with athletic genetics) and I plan to continue doing that. I've constantly tried to work out and eat properly over the years and the older I get the better I'm getting at it. I absolutely refuse to let myself go. I plan on looking better at 50 than I do now. When I retire I don't want to be broken down and atrophied. I want to continue doing the things I love (hike, bike, kayak, scuba dive, etc.) and do it better than ever.

My body can fall apart after I die
 Call me Ginny

Joined: 12/28/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2009 7:03:42 AM
Malestrome, you know I love you more than my luggage, as Olympia Ducaucus's character said in Steel Magnolias, but sweetie, but if I could reach you I'd spank you for this one. (And not in a good way! LOL)


I never ran into many women who think that older guys are sexy except older women who now, not many men want and they are needy, cause this superficial society is all about looks and theirs is all but gone. So they for the most part want someone, anyone. So I guess they will take me and flatter me so I will feel attractive.


Pssst! It's a good thing you have your age on your profile, 'cause you look too young for me. I like more crinckles and a more mature look. No offense.

 spicynicegirl

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Posted: 6/12/2009 7:42:17 AM
Hmmm.............not ALL older guys are sexy OP. Some are and some aren't.
 Call me Ginny

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Posted: 6/12/2009 7:59:37 AM
Sadly, too true, Spicynice,

That's why I'm here. My hubby has become OLD. Not an age thing as much as an attitude. Lost all interest in his appearance, health, sex.....

The gap in our ages has widened to as far across as the Grand Canyon. I feel waaaay younger than him now.

Unfortunately this seems a common occurrance in two generation marriages.
 Call me Ginny

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Posted: 6/12/2009 9:18:02 AM
Giggle. Sorry Dilleass, you're way too young for me. Plus a year or two, I could be your ma.

But seriously, or at least semi....As far as "depravity" goes, sweetie, you're here, too.

And in my case, not justifying myself to you, (most of the regular posters here know my situation) I may make light of it, but truth be known, he cut me off emotionally, physically and intellectually. I don't suppose you've ever heard of "gaslighting?" I do the best I can to take care of him and always will reguardless of how he treats me.

Added note: As far as finances go, I've supported him monitarily more frequently that he has me. We're both just working stiffs. Neither of us consider money or occupation our life, just a way to make a living.


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 Byrd

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Posted: 6/12/2009 9:41:35 AM
I met Anthony Hopkins once and I didn't find him sexy at all..I think Jill Henessary is pretty hot though, messages this short cannot be posted.
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:00:13 AM
Some are and some aren't. I have met plenty of older guys who knew little about sex, think they are God's gift to humanity, think that any woman over 40 is ugly and worthless, and are as boing as wallpaper. Have also met some sexy older men who are great lovers, appreciate what we older women have to offer, and are good conversationalists and interesting men.
 CrocodileDancer

Joined: 3/2/2008
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Posted: 6/12/2009 10:36:41 AM
Older ? Depends what one considers older really.

Too me, age really is no indicator of quality of pleasure. Just like race, blood mix, or color.

There is no one size, or age that fits all.

Its about the "Person" and the "chemistry" between 2 people.

Either it clicks or it doesnt.

Another important point.

While older guys may form an opinion in "being sexy" Lets say I assume your talking age 55-65 look ahead, in 5 to 7 years, its over baby. And that sexy older guy becomes the guy a woman gets to play nurse maid for, because women out live men on average.

So age does have a "catch" to it.

Best to really just find a guy that makes you tick, and puts you on cloud nine, wether entering a room, or laying in bed.

Joseph
 raphael_adroit_esquire

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Posted: 6/12/2009 12:05:43 PM
I'm not reading through 12 pages of posts to see if somebody mentioned this, but I had to ask. When did Busta Rhymes become an older guy?
 yna6

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Posted: 6/12/2009 1:16:45 PM
older guys often mean fatter wallets....
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