| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/9/2007 12:14:34 PM |
i think its discusting when a girl 21 is with a 35 yr old man....i wouldnt touch her after that
One of the most ignorant remarks I've heard in a long time. What's up dude? You think "older" is a disease or something? Guess what? If you live long enough, you'll get it too. | |
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Ptree
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/9/2007 4:06:37 PM | For the "i think its discusting when a girl 21 is with a 35 yr old man....i wouldnt touch her after that" guy
What a remark. What if someone said "I wouldn't touch her after she's been with that guy with tatoo's?" Sorry but the fact is there's no substitute for experience, and we know more about a lot of things than you do. Like how to spell disgusting. | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/9/2007 5:32:21 PM | pahooski:
I'm somewhat in the same boat as you except while I would like to think age doesn't matter, it in fact does. I dated one 25 years old and then dated one that was 22. The 22 year old was actually a lot more mature than the 25 year old but there is one thing that you just can't get unless you have been there/done that. Experience. I have found that younger women, no matter what they have been through, just don't have the maturity of someone who has been around the block once or twice. I do find it invigorating to date younger women in one way. It makes me feel young again. Not just the physical part but being able to play again in my old stomping grounds, so to speak. But to be honest, I'll take an experienced woman who is tired of the young ways over a youngun any day.
I remember once I was telling a guy how this young belly dancer was interested in me. He is married and a good friend. He asked me why I thought it was a problem. I said she is only 18 years old. He fell down on the floor laughing his ass off then I realized what he was laughing at. Every older mans dream is to be with a young woman. Well, not sure about 'every' man. | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/9/2007 5:48:55 PM | It amazes me that without knowing any of the people you mention, that you can even know if they are sexy are not. I mean how can you make such a call without knowing them as a person? Sexy is a soul thing. A mind thing. I see a lot of beautiful woman whom after I get to know are total turn offs. And some not so beautiful ladies who are absolutley sexy.
Sexy is demeanor! Not an image! You missing out girl.... | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/9/2007 6:15:26 PM | songdisciple: people have a lot of different things they consider sexy. are you saying sexy should only be about someone's demeanor? seriously? wake up and smell the smelling salts, dood.
i can find a woman sexy yet never even meet her. sometimes it is as simple as how her nose looks. so, i can bet a million bucks there are a ton of sexy women out there that i have never and will never meet.
sexy just can't be tied to one single thing. that is just plain silly. | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/9/2007 6:34:46 PM | BP- 'Cause the touch of grey in our hair is an outward indication for the wisdom that we may have to share w/ the right open mind ...and sweet younger booty to match for the learning. Women who are closer to my age already seem to know-it-all ...and there's no way that they can, so I am usually not interested ...and especially if their idea of "average" means being 20+ pounds overweight and too happy to stay so. "There are lies, and there are damned lies, but then there are statistics" -Mark Twain. Please allow me to explain this further, OK?
90% of what I've learned for having great sex is all in both partners' heads for what may lead to this, feels like when in process (or in aftermath), and is worth repeating, even if variation on this monogamous theme is most welcome here. The other 10% is a matter of what each is willing to tolerate for older skin next to younger, less stamina or open enthusiasm than desired, or too obese versus lean yet not so mean as to not appreciate some padding. For a significant age difference to work, both parties need to remain human in a world beyond what it usually seems to advertise that we're to be otherwise. I hate being 'sold' on what I already tolerate for these.
This old fart enjoys what you younger women my show for yourselves here ...and sometimes say for what you may claim to find find attractive in older men, but I always have to wonder whether or not you're another see-more-of-me-on-this-other-website sort of gal. My apologies if you sincerely find older men the sexier and that I might be one beyond reasonably distanced to meet you IRL. Personally, I care the more for any women who are able ...besides willing to 'meet me personally' for their idea of satiating what they may know for the human condition in the wake of the conditioning that they know for life. If you're truly ready to learn something new, and it matters less for one's age than their attitude, as far as I'm concerned. How 'bout you? | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/11/2007 5:12:26 AM |
hiya......i think that older fellas like..Anthony hopkins , William petersen ( da fella out of csi, an manhunter) and Busta rhymes are jus so sexy....ders jus sumfin so mmmmm bout dem! does any1 else feel same...or even fella's do u no why sum gals jus cant resist a mature fella?
I don't know about anyone else, and I'm not trying to be an a**hole about it, but this is ridiculous. How much effort does it really take to type a word correctly? And yes, I'm an older man.
THANK YOU greyhnd!!! My thoughts exactly.
I made it worse, tortured myself actually, by opening her profile and reading the mess she wrote there, yes, it's worse! UNBELIEVABLE!
Couldn't even get past it to respond to her post. I'm just amazed. | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/11/2007 5:55:46 PM | Im 21 years old and i always thought being with an older man disgusing and wrong. but i must say i have been converted, my friends fience had a 30th birthday and i was introduced to the fiances father. nothing has happened but i cant help thinking what it would have been like.
PS the father was single | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/11/2007 6:06:02 PM | | LOL okay that post (and its reference to Busta) made ME feel old!!! When I was 18 I had the hots for Sean Connery... but then what woman didn't?? I don't find being older something that makes a man more attractive as a rule of thumb, but I think I know what some women see in older guys. I think it's often just the idea that they're experienced and worldly. (not always true by the way, age doesn't dictate experience necessarily) | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/11/2007 6:12:47 PM | I'm with you on that one, good answer!
They are intelligent...confident....and know how to treat you like a lady in public and a bad girl in bed !
Older Men are the total package ..imo
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/11/2007 10:13:56 PM | I am so rolling on the floor laughing my you know what off.......... All these opinions, and all the fuss about the spelling. You can imagine what she sounds like when she opens her mouth to talk. A whole new other language. LOL
Dated a guy who told me he was 55, he was 70 but you would not have known that. Looked more like 60 but a real sweetie. Did not have lots of money and I was not looking for that but I loved his manners - opening the car door, the entry door to the mall. Treated me like a queen. It was fun while it lasted and I was the one to end it . Long story not going there.
Dated a young toyboy aged 39 who made me feel soooo sexyyyy it was unbelievable. He told me Baby I'm all yours do with me what you want!!! Damn did that ever make me feel good. So I've seen both sides of the story and you know what?? Age is not the issue it is how the guy you are with makes you feel........ If he has the right moves and makes you feel wonderful to hell with his age. It 's a case of come on Baby one more time LOL................. | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/12/2007 4:12:59 AM | I love older men... They are MORE mature, they act seven instead of five. They know what they want out of life, they respect women. They can take care of themselves, and of course their woman if they have one. | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/12/2007 7:52:20 AM | i think its discusting when a girl 21 is with a 35 yr old man....i wouldnt touch her after that
I have to smile when I read this, because I know you will get older too. You are only immortal for a limited time.
Your looks will fade, your belly will expand, your hair will grey... need I go on?
"As we are, so shall you be..." | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/12/2007 8:17:56 AM | older guys are attractive cause the have the experience,know how to please a woman.
I bet Dr.House is in bed | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/14/2007 12:23:45 PM | | yes biker i would have to agree the sex is so much better,i love my 40s,lookin foward to my 50s now!lol | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/14/2007 12:51:48 PM | ^^^^Damn, off by 2 years, hahahaha
Why? Confidence, Know How, Ability to communicate, understanding that pleasure is a two-way street, ability to appreciate all that women have to offer...it reminds me of an old joke:
2 bulls are on a hill, overlooking a field of cows, and the young bull says to the old bull, "Lets run down the hill and screw a cow" and the old bull says "Hell with that, let's walk down and screw 'em all" | |
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| WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 3/14/2007 1:21:39 PM | Older guys know and handle their 'ammunition' very well LOL I don't mean 'tip-toeing', more likely 'keeping on toes'  | |
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