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 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 51
what % of men are excellent, average, or lousy lovers?
Posted: 11/5/2006 4:18:46 AM
Depends on how much the woman is a lousy lover herslef and how much an iressponsible man hater trying to fob her own hangups and fridgidity onto the men.


If she's a good lover then 90% of the men are good lovers.

If she's iressponsible and cant' face herself then 90% arelousy overs.
 Just_Another_Gurl

Joined: 3/27/2006
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Posted: 11/5/2006 10:19:57 PM
"Is it just me or do all women think they're great in bed?"

Nope I sure don't, I definately firmly believe that sex is better with some and worse than others because of chemistry or how you work together. Sometimes you get those people that you just can't get into their rythm, its no big deal, just means that you aren't that compatible that way.

As for numbers...Well I would say 5% mind blowing, 15% excellent, 60% average, and 20% lousy.

Thats only how it applies to me though.
 Alex89

Joined: 12/13/2004
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Posted: 11/5/2006 10:32:00 PM
Women always think they're good (i.e. experts) in bed...
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 54
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Posted: 11/5/2006 10:32:47 PM
0%excellent,50%average,50%lousy
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Gentlemen.
Regradless of the self title this omwan is nobodys sex kitten. She hates sex.
 I love hockey

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 55
what % of men are excellent, average, or lousy lovers?
Posted: 11/6/2006 12:26:08 AM
30% excellent, 40% average and 30% not so good.
 passionfly

Joined: 6/19/2005
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Posted: 11/6/2006 1:09:19 AM
I think these figures require more research to get a correct and true representation
 smiles666

Joined: 2/16/2006
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Posted: 11/6/2006 2:14:44 AM
Perhaps a triple blind taste test,....err uhm, make that a survey where they partners are required to fill out a questionaire afterwards and the guy gets the scorecard a week later???

Or maybe not,.....I've been with alot of women,...in my opinion for the math sake, lets call that number 160. out of that,...8 were not wanted for further tryouts & had nothing on the "ball", 15 - 25 were recalled for ninety days, 75 were signed up for 90 - 180 days, 25 were for 1/2 miles drag strips trail(top end racers) very nice, leaving a possible 26 that were top performers lean mean love machines, I mean 4 days mad crazy monkey love fvkin... The kind that should be Olympic gold medal fvkrs And for those that MAY ask, All fluid checks are performed by trained medical personal, before trails. I don't know who said it, but don't put the cok"ring " down if you haven't tried it, makes for some great finishes. And they never complained, thought it was sexy. As a man, I have no complaints, and if they did they never said, and returned so I presume they liked the results they got.
 devine one

Joined: 11/2/2006
Msg: 58
what % of men are excellent, average, or lousy lovers?
Posted: 11/6/2006 6:19:25 AM
well,,,1% of mine was excellent,,,the other 90%...wouldn't know how to turn a woman on...if she came with an on,,off switch,,,,,lmao.....
 devine one

Joined: 11/2/2006
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Posted: 11/6/2006 6:21:42 AM
and the other 9%,,,,are still looking for instruction manual for the on,,off switch......
 Star_Burst

Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 60
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Posted: 11/6/2006 6:33:49 AM
I only had one that was excellent and that was a one night stand....go figure... the rest range from average to good but I'm no porn star either.. Never had any who were lousy.....there are no lousy lovers, just lousy communicators
 equineladie

Joined: 12/30/2007
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Posted: 1/3/2008 2:59:02 PM
ive had one good lover
looking for another long term + FOR LIFE
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 1/4/2008 2:09:41 AM
I have never had any complaints, but then again I pay attention to my partner and am not afraid to find out what she wants/likes. I am not afraid of women who want to tell me what they like or steer me to the right spot, if you know what I mean. I know lots of guys out there who talk like they think they already know what all women want, but I suspect that they could actually care less and are offended when a woman offers advice.
It goes the other way too. For example, one thing I really hate is when I go to give a girl a kiss and I end up with the tip of her tongue forcing it's way into my larynx. I think that the truest path to happiness in the bedroom is to take your time with your lovemaking and LISTEN to one another, with your body as well as with your ears.
 jamnjerys

Joined: 1/9/2008
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Posted: 1/26/2008 8:47:32 AM
If we could get all women to agree that this amount of space>------------------------------------< is really "6 inches" all women would rate us as excellent lovers..

not to start an argument but I thought excellent lovers had to qualify in the "chemistry" dept of my libido....... they needed to have enough desire worth slamming me into high gear.. and like to spend long weekends ordering pizza or Chinese food and just stay in bed.

I had to give all of that up though........ that one incident in the 25 foot fiberglass Santa at the mall got the cops called on us and I'm reformed now.

I'm kinda in the lousy lover dept anymore. I think the last time I got close to being inside a woman was when I visited the statue-of-liberty
fishing seems more fun than that
thanks for putting up with me

I'm confident the percentage levels change all the time and I'm just too lazy to compete anymore.......... have fun at the bedroom Olympics guys and girlz.
My gold medals from those dayz are getting rusty....
 Katsi

Joined: 11/15/2005
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Posted: 1/30/2008 9:40:36 PM
Jamnjerys.. U are too funny...

My experience has been with both sexes..
It seems to me that it's all good..
Just different..
I think I have had excellent times with average partners..
As well as lousy times with average partners..
Also average times with average partners..
For me, It's more of an emotional connection that makes it seem excellent..
Sometimes I'm just not on my game..
Sometimes it's the partner who's not in sync with me..
But I have only had a few lousy sexual encounters..
 Feigh

Joined: 2/13/2008
Msg: 65
what % of men are excellent, average, or lousy lovers?
Posted: 2/29/2008 12:23:50 PM
1% excellent , 98 % average, and 1% are lucky to find their****at all.

A note to that affect, I was 33 before I even learned what the clitoris was for, and none of my ex's, (before that) even my ex husband had any apparent use for that!
 sweetnsasy986

Joined: 3/10/2008
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Posted: 3/27/2008 9:20:24 AM
Is it just me, or does it scare anyone else that this many people have had enough different lovers to ascribe a percentage ranking to their abilities?

That being said, I agree with those posters who indicated that it is more a matter of chemistry than anything else. By far the best lover I have ever had is also the one with whom I had the most passionate chemistry. Perhaps he (or I) would not be considered as good in combination with a different person.
 taupehat

Joined: 1/19/2008
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Posted: 3/31/2008 10:26:27 PM
Nonsense. We're all excellent lovers. The best, even. Just not for everyone.

'Scuse me - there's a woot-off on.
 Yaotzen

Joined: 11/22/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 12:21:53 PM
Agreed, sweetnsassy... I can't rightly say, as I'm the exception to the rule these days, I've intentionally only been with one. And it was more dependant on where we were and how we felt if it was good or not.
 1collegegirl24

Joined: 3/17/2008
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Posted: 4/6/2008 6:33:15 PM
I think whatever percentage people are putting down in here is only a view of how much they were probly bring to the relationship.
 RainyNytes

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Posted: 4/25/2008 11:43:59 AM
Don't know about the percentage thing, but can only speak from my own experience. I've had a lover or two that were only average, one even leaned a bit toward lousy, but... if you give your body time to know him intimately, your body 'learns' his style, or technique and then your able to feel more pleasure. At least for me. Another thing is... if HE is average (or lousy) YOU can help him improve by telling or showing him what pleasures you too. Patience. It all takes patience.
 mamahuma

Joined: 6/19/2007
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Posted: 5/5/2008 3:32:50 PM
There are many good tips from the ladies, on this subject, contained in this forum, and a lot of guys who wish they could remember them all.
But what is KILLING me, after haveing read most of the entries...... and checking the profiles of WHO wrote what...... it seems the big gurls have a WAY better handle on how BOTH(men & women) have the best chance at a good time....... only proving out my theory, that those women who do NOT think of themselves as hotties(in the classic SOCIATAL interpritation), work harder at being a considerate lover, and tend to attract more considerate lovers, due to the fact, that the guys who prefer big women, are generaly in the same catagory or,"leauge", of outward appearance. So while the "ken & Barbies" of the world run around trying to use each other for self gratification, those of us who are a little less falshy in our appearance, are enjoying the fruits of our lack of narsessisum(however thats spelled). PS.... i am not a fan of the big gurls,(before i get a load of e-mails from them).
My usuall approch, involves at least 1 org for her,and frequently 2,3, or more, with just my toung, and fingers, prior to any pee nile penitration. The right words are imparative,.... lack of talking during sex, is a waist of everyones time. So for those guys who like a silent lay.... BOY OH BOY, are YOU missing out on the good stuff.

I would be happy to get any replys to this, in my inbox, on here....... Play Safe ya'll and as to MY opinion of what my competition out there is.....
<1% excelent..... 14% are worth a womans time, and the remaining 85%, need a class.... or a DANG good instructional manuel(which i have been threatening to write for years). But the problem is, the 85%, are too L.A.Z.Y. to put out the effort to be a decent lay, so they certainly won't put out the effort required to LEARN how to be beddah...... am i done now????
 Woodstar

Joined: 2/16/2006
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Posted: 5/5/2008 7:30:20 PM
The only "compliant" (singular...on purpose) I got was from the one lazy one. Even he had a good time until I got bored!!!

Granted prehaps I haven't "dipped" into a large enough pool to really give an accurate percentale...90% were excellent...9% average...1% lousy.

But, like others have said...usually, you get what you give.

I guess I'm just one of those "BIG gals" who know how to have fun!
 custis

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 5/6/2008 6:32:40 AM
"Women always think they're good (i.e. experts) in bed..."

Nothing wrong with that. I like a woman with a positive attitude. If she thinks she is great in bed she is less likely to just lay there imitating a corpse. I mean after all, she will feel that she has an image to uphold.
 Woodstar

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Posted: 5/8/2008 7:43:14 PM
HA HA!!! made me laugh, Custis!

right on!
 huntingals

Joined: 8/17/2008
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Posted: 8/22/2008 11:28:54 AM
I read through this stuff out of curiosity. It was great to see someone who knows what terms mean. "Average means" taking everything, or everyone in this case, adding them all up, and dividing the total by the number of subjects to get the average. Of course, that isn't possible with lovers' performance.

It's like the weather when the forecaster talks about normal temperature or rain for a given date. There is no such thing. There is only average, figured as noted above.

What the person at the top of this site should have said was not average, but fair. As in Excellent, good, fair, not-so-good, poor.

I think her sample was 10.
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