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 RedHeadedVixxen
Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 376
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?Page 16 of 17    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17)
You can't trace a cell number but a home number takes 30 seconds on google.

There are alot of psychos out there you know.
 koolfundad
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 377
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/13/2009 5:56:54 PM
Donna,

I for one have not had a home phone since I got unlimited minutes on my cell phone. Did not see a reason to pay $30 for having a home phone when I have a cell I can call and talk all I want.

It's not that I am hiding anything I just don't have the need for a home phone anymore.
 Jer-C-Girl
Joined: 7/25/2006
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/13/2009 6:09:08 PM
I wouldn't think twice about what number to give --- most definitely the cell number. I am a paralegal and I introduced an attorney I used to work with to internet dating. Well, rule number 1 I told her, if you give your number to somebody give your cell number. Uh, turned out that her outgoing message on her cell gave her full name. Duh, now the person has not only her cell number but also home AND work. Had a problem with one caller and I assisted with getting rid of them. Nobody even knows where I live until I see them at least a third time. Again, most definitely cell number first.
 Teddybears
Joined: 7/23/2006
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/13/2009 9:23:37 PM
I'm single, therefore I see no need for a home phone and a cell phone. I just have a cell and thats the number I always use.
 FourUms
Joined: 3/17/2009
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/14/2009 12:33:47 AM
This thread was started four years ago. Here in 2009, I only have a cell phone. I can text, email, browse the web and IM. There is no home number to call.
 anotherpabloescobar
Joined: 3/25/2009
Msg: 381
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/14/2009 1:02:57 AM
its because a cell can be turned off
 HexBex
Joined: 3/8/2009
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/14/2009 2:30:22 AM
I always give out my cell number. I don't have a land line. But if I did, I'd still give out my cell number, as I'd want to catch your call wherever I am, not just when I'm at home. Don't be so paranoid about this.
 Mike324
Joined: 12/14/2008
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 3:07:34 PM
I never bothered to get a home phone. I only have a cell phone and it works fine. Some people feel that in this day and age, owning a home phone is unnecessary.
 Megaladonfishy
Joined: 5/7/2008
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 4:23:28 PM
I quit carrying a cellphone, every time it went off on silent it scared the Beejeebers out of me and i jumped up like my pants were on fire!! Not so great going down the highway in a topless car! If i ever get another one I'll be sure and give you the number, but please don't call
 throwingitoutthere
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 385
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 4:36:38 PM
I work midnights so getting good sleep is very important to me. The number of telemarketers and wrong numbers drastically decreases with cell phones. Would drive me crazy when someone would wake me up to offer carpet cleaning.

Not having a land line also means it's one less thing I have to check. Already have 3 e-mail accounts, Facebook and POF among other things.
 l00kingAhead
Joined: 10/30/2007
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Posted: 4/20/2009 5:15:57 PM
Never even give it a thought actually - too funny. He!!, the only people who call my home phone is solicitors! I use my cell almost exclusively so, naturally it is the number I give.

Now if I'm sitting on the sofa chatting and someone wants to call, I'll give 'em the home number (if i'm comfortable with them having my name & address - I'm listed) but, that's about the only time.

Good question!
 sammylg
Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 387
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 8:54:17 PM
I give the number of a really good Chinese restaurant in my neighborhood. hey, if you're not getting my number, you might as well get some good Chicken Fried Rice!
 BH_Dreamer
Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 388
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 9:17:23 PM
Hotpinkangel I for one give only my moblie for a while also not because of anythng but it is safer and better that way you dont have to answer if you dont want too but year after a while home number is a must if not given then ya I would say they are taken.
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 dannyboy165
Joined: 1/24/2009
Msg: 389
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 9:25:17 PM
Because a lot of people only use their cells. I used to have both, but my home phone was costing me $20 a month and I never used it except to find my cell phone whenever I lost it, lol. So I just cancelled my service and used that extra $20 for something useful.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 390
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:01:28 PM
for you to be very curious about this question op has me curious as to why you dont' knwo the reason.

many guys have wives, live with girlfriends, and they want to hide their lives; this is a no brainer; very easy to answer.
 barbee1970
Joined: 12/29/2008
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:24:36 PM
Who wants a land line when they can have a phone where people can reach them anytime, anywhere? Half the time someone calls me I am at work or somewhere else.

And texting my son from few states away(he's in Fla) is awesome! We don't even run up a bill gabbing!
 FourUms
Joined: 3/17/2009
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Posted: 4/20/2009 10:47:52 PM
Hilarious! This is the one thing I miss about having a land line:

I used to have both, but my home phone was costing me $20 a month and I never used it except to find my cell phone whenever I lost it, lol.

Now I have to ask my kid to call my phone! On top of that, my land line was costing $75 a month, because I had unlimited calling for no good reason - mostly to receive telemarketing calls, actually.
 jsmi1
Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 393
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/20/2009 10:50:18 PM
Or why do they give you one cell number then call you from a different one then wonder why you don't know the number?!?! It kinda weirded me out.
 GottaDanse
Joined: 10/16/2008
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/21/2009 12:28:22 AM
Cell is my only #. I take care of a few properties and travel. Which place would be the land line @?
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 395
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/22/2009 1:25:37 AM
Who has a home phone anymore ? I killed mine 3 years ago.
 MePlusTwo
Joined: 7/9/2008
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/22/2009 1:44:49 AM
many guys have wives, live with girlfriends, and they want to hide their lives; this is a no brainer; very easy to answer.
You're right the answer is easy. It is more than likely that they don't have a home phone number or are rarely contactable on that number. I never give my home number. I want the person to be able to reach me wherever I am and I am not at home for most of my day. Hence, the cell phone number.

In some cases it may be that someone is hiding their life. But it is by far the least likely reason.

mthomjmark, you seem to be a very cynical, negative and distrustful person, if your posts on POF are anything to go on. Is it that you have had way too many bad experiences or just aren't interested in seeing the good in people?

To say the answer is a no brainer, that they guy is hiding his life, when in this day and age so many don't have land lines (just look in this thread at the number of 'no land line' people), is pretty cynical. Lighten up. Not everyone has immoral motives.
 marita_b
Joined: 6/15/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2009 1:56:17 PM
I often think about how fast things are changing these days,...
withing the last hundred years technology has changed more than any other time in history,....I consider the changes in my lifetime,....and then my children's, (young adults now),....the vast differences never fail to impress me.

MINE,...when I first came to Canada in the early sixties,...intercontinental phone calls were just barely available for individuals,...if you could aford to call to (Germany for example), you had to book that call at the crack of dawn with the oversea operator,...you then needed to stay near the phone and wait,...it could take 8 or even more HOURS,....and you couldn't say anything more than Hi you good? were all good here, and Merry Christmas, we'll call you next year,....

When my children were born cell phones, the size of military walkie talkies and computers (comodore 64)were just barely affordable/available,....and you had to know it's language which to me was like learning hyroglifiks, to me,....

The outrageous Star Trek dream was to someday be able to see the person you were talking to over the phone,...It was one of those,....nice but probably not in my lifetime things,....

No way could I have forseen twenty years later I would be making friends with strangers in other countries, as easily as I would to the neighbour down the street,...perhaps even easier,....

It all still boggles my mind,....regularly,....
BTW,....(LOL) we have even changed the language over those years,....changing nouns into verbs along the way,....(googeling)

Which brings me to my point,...(sorry,...bear w/me),...
that being since this thread was started in 2005, we have all collectively come to thins place where many of us in fact exclusively use our cells,....back in 2005 it was still far too expensive a service to be exclusively used,...

back then the motives of someone handing out their cell number might have seemed suspect and have ultirior motives,...not so much today,....

That was only 4 years ago people,....imagine where we will be in another 4,....

(no wonder I feel dumber every year)
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
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Posted: 4/22/2009 2:05:14 PM
I always use my cellphone. There is a phone where I live...but I consider it my
roommate's phone....it's his house.
Cellphones work like regular phones...you can block your number and you can trace
the number if you get it.
I don't have an ulterior motive for using my cellphone...but in this day and age with all
the crazies out there...doesn't hurt to keep your number and location to yourself until
you reach your comfort level.
 Trailrider71
Joined: 4/5/2009
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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/23/2009 1:50:29 AM
Nobody, regardless of gender, should give out a number to a stranger that can be traced back to them, where they can be found. Not everybody is a stalker, but you don't know from the first date, for sure. Hope for the best. Plan for the worst.
 marita_b
Joined: 6/15/2005
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Posted: 4/23/2009 6:32:31 AM
here here,...it's nice to hear this coming from a man,...thanks
I have been touting this for years,....
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