| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 11/18/2006 2:50:19 PM | INSECURITY....I really don't like that. I like a guy who has a little confiadence...but not arrogance. There is a fine line, I know. A little nervousness is cute/fine though. And of course, the usual lateness/rudeness, ignorance....I think most people dislike the same things | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 11:08:37 AM | when a guy reaches over when you have your had ot to shake his and instead he grabs for your ti** . than gets pissed when you tell him you will break his hand and shove it up his as*..... that is always a date ender. lol | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 11:47:26 AM | Sorry if this has been posted before now... but I have to say it's a man who has to "brag" about all the material sh*t he has... and how much everything he owns costs... I had a date like this once.. and it was painful to listen... I had to excuse myself several times to keep from vomiting on the table at dinner...  Finally excused myself out the door and into a cab! LOL | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 11:51:53 AM | Finding out "she" has a penis before she has completely finished blowing ya
Realising you have already "been there, done that"
Finding out that she is DULL DULL DULL, self absorbed, vain, narrow minded, zealotly religions (same thing really I guess lol), tells fibettes, finding out she is an odd shape/proportion, finding out she is inherrently self conscious and insecure
Jeez, theyre all such a bind and date killer that I really cant pick one thats worse than another as any one of those would totally negate the point of continuing on anything more than a purely platonic level | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 12:13:16 PM | | I do feel for you. I understand what your talking about my Mom dated a man that not only bragged about what he had and didnt have but he seemed to always have to put a price tag on it. My 250000$ home my 75000$ truck. Like you it made everyone wanna puke. But , as a guy I know we get hung up on our toys allot. I brag on my Harley but not what it cost but I suscceeded in a dream. Hate the $ sign people will put. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 12:36:42 PM | i went on a date and this guy . hewas like wunderful on the phone everything i could ask for . he was military wich is what i wanted and top it off a navy seal. well we got to the place and we both liked the way each one looked .all of a sudden , he looked at me a said you know i could chop you up right now and throw u in a dumpster and no one would have a clue. i looked at him and stood up and got the fu** out of there. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:06:07 PM | | I went on a date, the woman brought her little boy with us to the beach, she made lunch and everything seemed fine until five minutes later the little boy was calling me daddy and she started crying poormouth and how she needs money etc. That was my cue for exit. I have nothing against dating women with children just calling me dad turned me off. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 3:14:13 PM | Having her arrange the price for a half hour session after the date with someone at the bar might be a bit offputting if
a) she is already being hired by you
or
b) she doesnt offer you a cut
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 3:25:09 PM | Stuck up
No fun
Won't let me grab her tits
Won't let me stare at her tits even though she put them out there on a platter
Too concerned about manners
Won't pay
Oh and also isn't impressed by my reg date or post count on message boards. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 5:11:37 PM | Ever hear the term "Paralysis by over-analysis" ?
I've had a few dates with women who were just overly Analytical. I felt like I was dating a shrink or whatnot.
Needless to say, I didn't want to pursue anything further.
Oh, and before I leave. Ever have a date lie about smoking? I have........ and it is a big turnoff.
Nothing is worse than meeting your date, being impressed with their appearance........and then watching them pull out a cancer stick. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 10:21:45 PM | her boyfriend calls and she answers,
2 for 1 coupons (don't try this guys),
the waitress hits on ya and your date can't see the benefit of a little 2 on 1 time,
she tells you right near the start that it's her "special time",
SAY wildpassion you are grabbing boobie in your profile - me thinks you sending the wrong message there luv! | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 10:55:27 PM | well.....here are a few
-If one the date she brings her ex boyfriend with her to make it a "group thing" rather then a pne on one date.
-If on the first date she spends alot of time checking out pictures of her ex on her cell phone and the reason for that is because she just thinks he is so cute and she does this right in front of you. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/29/2007 11:55:16 PM | ~ getting drunk
~ getting drunk to the point you pass out
~ telling me in an email afterward that you wanted to "bone" me but got drunk and passed out
~ constant talking of wanting to have sex, especially when I've pretty much said that's not going to happen
~ general hygiene..wash yourself and your clothing, brushing your teeth is also a good thing
~ not asking me anything about my interests, but insisting we have so much in common
~ trying to pimp me out to your friends (yes, this happened )
~ taking me to an art movie because it was assumed it was sexy and would get me hot then freaking out and running to the lobby because there were some homosexual scenes you couldn't handle
~ put ice down my shirt.. this is not cute
~ driving me home, don't become sullen and silent, drive me to a dark park and not expect me to be concerned. (this was a second date, I don't get into a car with a first date ... or a second date at this point) | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 10/30/2007 6:54:28 AM | talking about sex/non-sex/ex's/marriage in the first 2 minutes after being late, and accusing me of being another dog, when she was late...
and yes it has happened more than once... don't let the door hit you on the way out! | |
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