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 Happÿ

Joined: 12/19/2004
Msg: 26
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:21:35 PM
When the conversation centres around him asking me how likely we are to sleep together at the end of the date. I just have to learn how to drop the date right there.

Just like the married woman said earlier:

when it hits me he wants to sleep with me, and don't know me yet[quote/]
 guynamed21

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 27
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:21:36 PM
ciggarette breath, answers a cell phone call,expects me to entertain her than entertain each other.
 Grrretel

Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 28
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:37:50 PM
poorly dressed - baseball caps especially
 LANGA

Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 29
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:59:01 PM
A shallow minded superficial pervert.
 Omega X

Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 30
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:02:58 PM
a girl that wears a fanny pack
 Jaybo_31

Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 31
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:34:37 PM
Women who just want to have sex. I get sick of it.
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 32
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:41:30 PM
nose hair that looks like a mustash.

bad breath.

going some place and her saying.. oh i use to date him.. oh and him.. oh and that guy had a small pee pee.. and that one wasent to bad..
 WorkingGirl

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 33
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:47:36 PM
Showing up in cowboy boots. *barf*
 silly enough

Joined: 8/1/2005
Msg: 34
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 6:02:13 PM
I gotta say - that I am never "turned off" on a first date. I try to think of it as a learning curve, and no one is perfect. There is always the jitters/nerves/apprehension, and sometimes things don't go as planned or wanted.
 haligurl

Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 35
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 6:05:14 PM
If this is a first date, then for God's sake, put on some clean clothes, shave and brush your hair...at least make an effort! Jeez!
 sweetandmellow

Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 36
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 7:34:46 PM
I would have to say bad personal hygiene. once a guy showed up with old jeans, old work shirt(and he is a plumber) and his nails had black under them and needed a trimming. EEWWW

i mean really not a good first impression.
 mcbobly

Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 37
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 8:31:22 PM
Her cell phone constantly going off and her talking on it each time it rings, not asking them to call back. I suppose it's her way of getting out of the date perhaps.
 universeorbust

Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 38
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2005 10:19:02 PM
Cell phone, bad hygiene, and being someone they are not...
 GameGuy79

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 39
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 1:24:29 AM
blind dates setup by friends or family BAD IDEA !!!!
using a picture of someone else online then meeting and not being the person you expect BAD IDEA !!!
having a third wheel when on a date VERY BAD IDEA !!!
being shy thoughtout the evening BAD IDEA !!!
semi-anti-social BAD IDEA !!!
not having a sense of humor and being too serious on a date BAD IDEA !!!!
 photog167

Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 40
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 1:35:02 AM
yea I would say bad breath, belching or farting...but...not holding the door....well.....hum. thats pushing things.....
 I_heart_shoes

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 41
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 2:05:15 AM
he cant be a pretty boy! it drives me insane when hes more concerned about his precious hair than i am of mine. I also hate it when theyve decided what we're going to be doing, not asking for imput, and then expecting you to still pay for yourself. HELLO! you were the one that wanted to take ME out! .....geez
 LANGA

Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 42
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 5:52:38 AM
Sexy n authentic

You made a great point I think. Like I said , there is now room for superficiality BOTH by the person concerned about their looks like that, and by the person who is judging them on that.

Also frankly may I say, that people who don't give another person a chance or another date because looks were an issue and the deciding factor for them are full of apathy and those people really don't know what they want.

If they did know what they want, they would be making sound decisions and ethical decisions that won't put down another persons self esteem over trivial reasons.
 brandiliz

Joined: 6/10/2005
Msg: 43
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 2:23:08 PM
when you're hanging out with the person and they're on their cell phone the whole time.
 samuel4799

Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 44
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 2:46:01 PM
1.Gals coming into the date with a whole lot of attitude I am not going to treat you like a princess ya know….
2.People who think their job is the toughest job in the world, and then try to convince me of that...
3.It would be nice to just once, just once, have my date actually carry the conversation…
 Aroara1982

Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 45
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 2:58:00 PM
I've honestly had a man tell me after we ate dinner, that I could go ahead and quit college, move out of my apartment and in with him, and do nothing but cook, clean and reproduce for him. EHHHHHH
 USMCSoftball

Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 46
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 3:23:26 PM
when a woman says that she is either athletic or of average build and it turns out that it was about 10 years ago in high school.
 somecutechick

Joined: 8/21/2005
Msg: 47
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/1/2005 4:07:42 PM
Well athletic or average build is a matter perception. The average female is 5.4 and 152lbs and sumo wrestlers are athletic arent they ? haha
 Kambicksgirl

Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 48
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/5/2005 8:39:28 PM
Well I'd have to say bad hygene for sure. Chewing with their mouth open... ew I can just imagine that food hitting me in the forhead any second... and not tipping well or at all... if he can't show the waiter/waitress his appreciation then why would I expect him to show ME any?!
 jacqiO

Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 49
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whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/5/2005 8:47:46 PM
Biggest: being late "just because"...
 DragonRed

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 50
whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 9/5/2005 8:49:23 PM
sorry I was late........................................



I'm kidding people....
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