Happÿ
| Joined: 12/19/2004 Msg: 26 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 8/31/2005 4:21:35 PM | When the conversation centres around him asking me how likely we are to sleep together at the end of the date. I just have to learn how to drop the date right there.
Just like the married woman said earlier:
when it hits me he wants to sleep with me, and don't know me yet[quote/] | |
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LANGA
| Joined: 8/28/2005 Msg: 29 | |
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jimi77
| Joined: 7/13/2004 Msg: 32 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 8/31/2005 5:41:30 PM | nose hair that looks like a mustash.
bad breath.
going some place and her saying.. oh i use to date him.. oh and him.. oh and that guy had a small pee pee.. and that one wasent to bad.. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 8/31/2005 6:02:13 PM | | I gotta say - that I am never "turned off" on a first date. I try to think of it as a learning curve, and no one is perfect. There is always the jitters/nerves/apprehension, and sometimes things don't go as planned or wanted. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 8/31/2005 7:34:46 PM | I would have to say bad personal hygiene. once a guy showed up with old jeans, old work shirt(and he is a plumber) and his nails had black under them and needed a trimming. EEWWW
i mean really not a good first impression. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 8/31/2005 8:31:22 PM | | Her cell phone constantly going off and her talking on it each time it rings, not asking them to call back. I suppose it's her way of getting out of the date perhaps. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 9/1/2005 1:24:29 AM | blind dates setup by friends or family BAD IDEA !!!! using a picture of someone else online then meeting and not being the person you expect BAD IDEA !!! having a third wheel when on a date VERY BAD IDEA !!! being shy thoughtout the evening BAD IDEA !!! semi-anti-social BAD IDEA !!! not having a sense of humor and being too serious on a date BAD IDEA !!!! | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 9/1/2005 2:05:15 AM | | he cant be a pretty boy! it drives me insane when hes more concerned about his precious hair than i am of mine. I also hate it when theyve decided what we're going to be doing, not asking for imput, and then expecting you to still pay for yourself. HELLO! you were the one that wanted to take ME out! .....geez | |
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LANGA
| Joined: 8/28/2005 Msg: 42 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 9/1/2005 5:52:38 AM | Sexy n authentic
You made a great point I think. Like I said , there is now room for superficiality BOTH by the person concerned about their looks like that, and by the person who is judging them on that.
Also frankly may I say, that people who don't give another person a chance or another date because looks were an issue and the deciding factor for them are full of apathy and those people really don't know what they want.
If they did know what they want, they would be making sound decisions and ethical decisions that won't put down another persons self esteem over trivial reasons. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 9/1/2005 2:46:01 PM | 1.Gals coming into the date with a whole lot of attitude I am not going to treat you like a princess ya know…. 2.People who think their job is the toughest job in the world, and then try to convince me of that... 3.It would be nice to just once, just once, have my date actually carry the conversation… | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 9/1/2005 2:58:00 PM | I've honestly had a man tell me after we ate dinner, that I could go ahead and quit college, move out of my apartment and in with him, and do nothing but cook, clean and reproduce for him. EHHHHHH | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date? Posted: 9/5/2005 8:39:28 PM | | Well I'd have to say bad hygene for sure. Chewing with their mouth open... ew I can just imagine that food hitting me in the forhead any second... and not tipping well or at all... if he can't show the waiter/waitress his appreciation then why would I expect him to show ME any?! | |
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