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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/9/2006 10:14:25 PM | Its been like 14 months since I even had a date, but if I do have a date soon this is what I will be turned off by:
As others have said:
lateness
cell phone on
rudeness
lack of attention to conversation
And I personally hate:
guys who try and touch me too much too soon
talking only about sex
people who think they are too 'cool' to dance - dancing is fun... you dont have to be the best one out there.. geeze. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 11:23:55 AM | This is from way back in the day, but, i'd have to say when they expect you, as the guy, to do EVERYTHING. I mean from the pick-up to the drop-off you're choosing where to go,what to do, when, where, choosing the topics of conversation, being charged with keeping the conversation going, etc, etc, ad nausem. When it's almost as if I am supposed to be the night's entertainment, and only if I can pass muster will I be acceptable. Geesh. But, of course, no pressure or anything.
Not that I mind planning something fun, but if you can't do your part to help make it fun, then that's a big turn-off. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 12:17:15 PM | I'm guilty of some of the things people mentioned.
I'm shy & fearful, but I always tell the person what to expect as its only fair.. I will be quiet, but I will talk when spoken to & will get involved in a convo.. just can't start my own (only at first).. I more then likely wont look at the persons face, I'll look away.. until I feel comfy, but I don't stare...
What I disslike:
-Touching me when I tell him not to!
-I love you..I want to marry you..We'll be together for ever!
-Makes plans to go for a walk in the park & to make dinner.. to only complain about walking 1 block & not cooking dinner.
-Pointing to the tv & saying how hot she is, & what you want to do to her!
^^ all that happened on a first meeting with a guy! Can we say Sir. Creeps-a-lot  | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 1:01:57 PM | * cell phones ringing (I can understand if he is on call and thats his job -- OR if he has kids but other then that -- a BIG no-no IMO).
* talking about ex's.
* licking the plate.
* any sort of release of bodily gases at the table (and NO I will not pull your finger!!). | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 1:07:00 PM | I always get turned off when the guy tries to hold me tight right away or kiss me on a first date. He does not even know if I will feel any sex appeal towards him and he makes a move.
Sucks!
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 1:30:11 PM | foul language, talking about how no good the x was, asking can we have sex
Never had the farting, burping, rude people. Do people really do this on a date? and do people really show up stinking and dirty.
BTW: not such a turn off but I hate when I guy starts talking about what we are going to do next. It is very awkward when you know you don’t want a second date. What are you to do say no there won’t be a second date in the middle of dinner? | |
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Snugs
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Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 135 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 1:55:51 PM | | I dont date but I know if you have one to many opinions about me on that date, more then likely your opinionated ass is probably gonna strike a nerve in no time.. I hate being analized by strangers. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 2:09:04 PM | I would say beeying late. I would say bad breath. I would say licks all your 8 fingers Instead of using a napkin or going to the wash room & washing their hands.  | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/14/2006 4:49:34 PM | | a guy thinking he will be getting laid. coming on too strong, ordering my food at restaurant or cutting my meat. that really happened!!! freak! | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 12:05:53 AM | cell phone for sure! at least dont answer it if it keeps ringing, i mean, we all know you guys like to leave it on and let it ring so you feel important, but for god sakes! dont answer it!
another thing, saying hi to ever freakin girl or guy in the restaurant/bar, and especially if they dont introduce you....RUDE! nothing worst then standing behind your date the entire time as they talk to everyone else but you! | |
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a_vamp
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Joined: 4/24/2004
Msg: 143 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 1:36:01 AM | Constantly telling me some chicks around us (er.. where?) were checking him out cuz he's cute...
Hey... my eyes KNOW what is cute and and what's not..... | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:24:01 AM | | When she asks you a question, you start to answer and your not even 3 words in when she starts the, "ya, ummhmm, ya, ya, ummhmmm." and then it continues after you finish talking. Actually, now that I think about it. Thats kind of funny!! hahaha | |
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a_vamp
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Joined: 4/24/2004
Msg: 147 | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:36:10 AM | | being all touchy feely from and telling u how much he could get used to being around u and spending time with you........... all in the first 3 mins of the date............ RUN is what i say. | |
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Hi-Ya
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Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 149 | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 3:56:05 AM | | Arriving late. Not knowing where the place was that we were meeting (google, people! it's not hard!) Talking on your cellphone during the date. | |
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