| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 6:02:23 AM | | when the guy brags CONSTANTLY about the things he owns. oh and when out of the blue he feels the need to inform that his penis is thicker than average. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:24:53 AM | sweet witch...I totally agree with that bragging aspect. It is deafening to hear that kinda thing. I do not care about any of your materialistic BS guys. Do you have a personality under the facade of "my many, many toys"? It's like, "BLAH, BLAH, BALH...shut up, shut up, shut up!"
Staring at the twins doesn't get you guys brownie points either.On the cell a lot sucks too or looking at the phone every 2 minutes...what's that about?Looks pretty suspiscious.I can not stand to be out with a guy that is disrespectful to wait staff- how rude!!Mortifying!!! | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:37:29 AM | I had a date with an attorney once. He told me how much is house was worth, what he paid for his vehicle, how much the fountain in his house cost, how much he paid for his rings he was wearing. We went to a high class resturant and the bill was probably $100.00. Mind you this is first meeting!
Finally toward the end of the date I couldn't take it any more and I said well that is all nice and dandy but I am not the type of girl that can be bought as material things dont' mean squat to me. Gee wonder why he never called again!  | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:41:08 AM | HUGE turnoff when,,
- lack of communication
- when he wont let go when i actually wanna get away
- when he trys to make out CONSTANTLY or grab things
- when hes being cheap
- USE COUPONS for movies! hahaha
- when hes being selfish and doesnt care what i want
- when hes not FUNNY/fun
- when he whips it out in the theatres when im trying to watch a movie
- when he doesnt offer to pay (doesnt mean ill take, but offering is generous)
- when he brags
- turn off the cell phone is right! or at least on vibrate | |
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ian78
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Joined: 1/18/2006
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 1:38:56 PM | Here's a list of some turn offs on a first date:
1) Lying. One guy told me he test flew a Canadian military figher jet... As I said i test drove the American main battle tank while on an exercise in the states... It is a wee bit more complex to fly a fighter jet than it is to drive a tank around a dirt parking lot.
2) The same guy told me that he frequents a greek restaurant but some of the bellydancers are getting "a bit too old to look at". Don't say these things to women who are starting the aging process...
3) Another fellow was on the phone with me discussing where we were going to meet. His sister was talking to him in the background and he was VERY rude to her. Not good. He should respect his family members.
4) Tardiness. Nothing's nicer than waiting and waiting and waiting... Awful way to make a first imprssion.
5) Inviting me out to lunch and then wanting to go dutch.... Over a measley thirty dollar tab!
6) Not listening to anything I say; cutting me off in the middle of a sentence with a completely different subject over and over and over... This guy actually wanted to see me again!
7) Talking about exes...
8) Being insulting about overweight women. The guy who wanted to go dutch was talking about dates he was on with overweight women and he was being very rude and shallow about them. I should have told him that I was 50 lbs heavier before... | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:03:46 PM | | bad teeth!! definitly ukk. don't want to kiss that mouth! also poor conversation, asking not questions about you, and lets you do all the talking. Step up to the plate..plan a few questions to ask if you get stuck! | |
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TaraNC
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Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 161 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/18/2006 11:32:14 AM |
Staring at the twins doesn't get you guys brownie points either
UMMMM, parteegirl, when you have the type of twins that you so blessedly possess, would it get me any brownie points to stare, since, I am justagirl and all.
Cause if not, then I must be seriously in debt to you!! | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/18/2006 2:15:08 PM | I went out for dinner with a date. He was very sweet and charming, held the door open for me, buckled my seatbelt, etc....
He was attentive during the meal, spoke intelligently throughout, and after our meal, he walked me to my door, leaned in for a kiss (I pecked him on the cheek), and when I was getting ready to close the door he said "I LOVE YOU"
That instantly turned me off!!!!! I slammed the door shut and didn't take his calls anymore...
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/18/2006 2:38:00 PM | | Scratching the "boys" in public. I once met a guy who did this repeatedly and didn't seem to care who noticed...I think he must have had crabs or something--ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 7/18/2006 4:53:29 PM | i have to be honest and say i have probably made all these mistakes and then some...but im learning.we all put our foot in our mouths some times.worst one by far ive made and still remember it like it happened yestrday.I answerd phone at relitives house a hoarse whispering voice asks for some one not living there , i thought it was a prank call so i whispered back no so and so doesnt live here.they whisper back some more qustions an i repy in the same whispering voice.after hanging up I find out the caller had lost all thier vocal chords because they had cancer. I FELT LIKE A COMPLETE Idiot!!!!!  | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 6:49:18 AM | looking like he just came out the gutter. i was at a gathering my date comes walking through the door and he looked and smelled like he fell off the back of a fecal truck. he was just F***** up so i turned him right around hell he deffanantly was not staying with me it was the funniest s*** i ever saw | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 7:14:09 AM | being late and being rude as to not let me know that you are going to be.
guys that dont smell good,i love a guy to smell good.
someone that has not at least taken some care with his appearance and made a effort.
cheapskates.
guys that can not handle their drink and start acting all sloppy.
dirty crusty fingernails (suppose that comes under appearance)
bad breath.
and boring conversation,someone that can not converse and just sits there like a plank
trying to string two words together.
and defiantly someone that talks about there past all night or moans about there last relationship or all that whoa is me bulls**t in life.
talking about sex all night and how good they are in bed and what they believe they could do for me : /
ummm im sure there is more just cant think right now
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 7:16:35 AM | When she is rude to the waiter/waitress, and only talks about how her jeans match the purse.
When she talks about all the tec. shit that we have today, and how its soo cool.
When she says...." you should invite me somewhere "......WTF?
When the first words out of her mouth is " Lets get drunk and fcuk"....
All of this has happened to me...If I find one more girl like that....im going to go off the deep end | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 8:01:13 AM | Well my best friend and I have been sitting here reading through this forum and have decided to add our two cents.. hmm maybe three .. errr possibly four :P At any rate here it goes.. for your reading pleasure *drum roll please*
* saying "hmm that's intresting" to describe any situation
* liking ducks to much
* eyes are above the shoulders
* not having the balls to say that they aren't intrested after spending 4hrs of great conversation and laughs
* telling you they will leave you at the restaurant if you open your wallet because you want to chip in on the bill
* eye twitching
* masterbating under the dinner table
* because we are red heads... asking if the carpet matches the drapes (FYI; it's polished tile)
* before saying hi, looking you up and down and then muttering ya you'll do
* them opening their car door and having their stench hit you before you can even notice the last 5 meals on their shirt and the jogging pants that are holy'er then the pope
* text msg'ing you when you go to the bathroom
* they live with their mom cause it's cheaper and she does his laundry
* being more intrested in my dog and if it likes peanut-butter
* telling me what beautiful eyes I have but not being able to tell me the colour when I close them
* having tuffs of hair coming out the top of their shirt
* asking if I would like some extra cream in my coffee
* thinking that a first date consists of cheap wine in a motel room
And then of course all the norm's like bad manners, bad breath, bad hygiene, no sense of haha, can't carry a conversation, and would rather look in a mirror then at you... | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 10:27:12 AM | Someone who only talks about themselves
Someone who wants to go to the movies (an excuse NOT to talk at all)
Being late
Tries to get down your pants | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 1:45:22 PM |
When she tells me she is a single mother.
WTF?!?! That is shallow. At least she is being honest.
Lying scumbags. Look, act, dress how you want. But as soon as you lie to me, i'll kick your a$$ out of here! | |
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