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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 7:42:06 PM | | I agree with you, it makes me sick for men to pretend they are so wonderful, only to find out they are professional liars, most are still married. I would like to know why they think they can do this and THINK they will never get caught. I dated a barber form SC, turns out he is married and a player, 100 %. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/18/2006 10:46:59 PM | | Other than obvious things, like having lied about what she looks like, bad teeth, bad breath etc., I'd have to say either getting drunk or constantly bashing her ex. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2006 10:50:15 PM | | | |
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TaraNC
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Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 181 | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/22/2006 10:38:06 AM | | to many to list but here are a few: bad teeth, smelly breath, uninquisative, confrontational, know it all (cause they just dont know anything) third nipple | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 4:23:08 AM | I had a new turn-off last month.
Girl contacted me on another system. Read her profile. Seemed okay. Know that my dealbreaker is smoking. Simply won't date smokers. Her profile said she did not smoke. We go for wings and a beer, and then she started with the "When I drink it makes me want to smoke" stuff and starts digging in her purse. And at that point, and I am this adamant about this, I said "Then you should not say you are a non-smoker on your profile. That is misleading, and I think we need to go."
So whether it was the smoking itself or the fact that she was not honest on her profile, or a combination of the two, you decide. I felt like she lied to me, and seeing that my profile on that system addresses this in some detail, she should never have contacted me.
As far as the response that said "When they don't show up", then technically there wasn't a date...  | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 6:04:39 AM | For me it's a toss-up between talking about her ex/last boyfriend too much (a mention of it that might be germane to the conversation is one thing, but an indicator of an unhealthy fixation is another) and poor personal hygene. Smokers smell bad. | |
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Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 187 | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:52:19 AM | | Over baring men.. men that are far to pushy, there is a line between showing the lady you ar interested in her, body language ect..... and being vulgar, spitting out you wanna f%$#k... there is a way to a woman, and for me, thats not it. The way in would be through intellect, eye contact, honesty and being yourself... cause eventually it will come shine through | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 8:28:55 AM | | A couple of my pet peeves are men with dirty nails Im not talking working nails, but guys who dont even try to remove the dirt and greese from under neath them.Another thing I cant stand,men who dont brush their teeth,crooked teeth,(OK )I know not every one had the choice to get braces,but even if their not straight brush them! Sex on the first date,if its mutal and you just connect and the passion just takes over fine,but let it happen naturaly,dont ask for it and dont expect it.And always try to save your self respect and contain your passion for another time,that maybe all he's after and you cant take it back once its done and no matter how much hes into you he will loose respect for you if you give in on the first date,Men like to no a woman has respect for their self and if they know that they will respect you too.And a relationship is nothing without respect. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 10:36:01 AM | The "bail-out" phone call that comes exactly 15 minutes after your designated meeting time. If we sit down to dinner at 7 and that phone rings exactly at 7:15, you can leave and I'll have dinner alone. In fact I will suggest that.
"WHAT??? My god!! The engine fell off the plane and landed RIGHT on my CAT???"
In that dinner date situation, here's what I do. As we sit down I make a production out of taking my phone out and turning it off, saying somethign like "Let me turn this thing off. I am here to have dinner with you, not talk to a bunch of people."
If that isn't hint enough that I would appreciate you doing the same thing, then we have issues already.
If you need the bail-out phone call, don't go on dates until you grow up. Even if the guy turns out to be Zippy The Pinhead, it's an hour over dinner. Deal with it. Don't have dessert or coffee to shorten the evening, but be polite (and adult) enough to stay for dinner. | |
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Msg: 195 | |
| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 12:54:57 PM |
but be polite (and adult) enough to stay for dinner.
I've never had anyone leave on me in the middle of dinner (or leave period), but...I have read quite alot of stories about the 'emergency phone call'.....I doubt it would kill anyone to spend an hour with someone, regardless of whether you are attracted to the person or not. I can't imagine there is ANYONE that horrendous looking out there that it would require someone to be rude enough to leave someone during a date. Who knows? Maybe I"ve just been lucky---and I don't plan dinner dates. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/23/2006 7:14:58 PM | A booger that's sticking out of his nose and every time he inhales and exhales, it shows.
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.
And don't laugh, I've ran into that three times so far.....hahahaha | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/24/2006 4:17:24 AM | If this will let me add one more without the "too often" rule kicking in, another HUGE turnoff is when a women has nothing but extremely suggestive photos in her profile and then gets indignant when you try to move in for a little contact. Posting photos where your clothing is 1/2 inch away from it being hard core porn......
You're either looking for action or you're not. Advertise as such. | |
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| whats the biggest turn-off on a first date?
Posted: 8/24/2006 9:49:29 AM | Littering. my roommate was on a date and he cleaned the MacDonald's bags etc out of his car onto the Keg parking lot!!! Who does that?
Also, talking on the cell phone to another girl!! Not to long ago I was the other girl a guy I was seeing kept calling while on a date. I felt so bad for her. What an idiot! | |
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