| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 11/29/2004 2:42:16 AM | After reading quite a few posts on this site, I am coming to the conclusion that it is not only the men, but also the women who are perpetuating the problem. Each has their own agenda, and each has their own perspective on things. We are all different, and we are all looking for something else. We have our expectations, and we are often disappointed when those expectations are not met. Then we blame someone other than ourselves.
Try to accept the fact that of the 1,000 people you meet here or anywhere else, 900 of them will be very different than you. That leaves 100 that are somewhat similar. Of those remaining 100, only a very few will meet your criteria of 'that special someone'. So, if you weed through the 1,000 and find the 2 or 3 that are acceptable to you, that does not mean that the others are all jerks. They are just NOT what suits you; but out of your rejects, there WILL be one or 2 that will suit someone else! | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 11/29/2004 1:30:37 PM | | There is all kinds but next time call the cops. No man has the right to grab a women on her breast or any where else. They make me sick you no who you are so find god or stay at home and use your hand to get off but leave women the hell alone if you can't treat them with respect. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 11/29/2004 2:42:06 PM | this thread really touched me and im sorry for what happened to you.
the one thing to remember is that it wasnt your fault and your not to blame ...
the only thing that he was thinking is im gonna get some and the good thing is you said no
if i could tell you how many time ive seen someone whose been abused or hurt verbally or sexually id write a book and a d*mn good one .you know? i pray for you and every woman on here and even pray for the good guys im not religous but my belief are different and the five gold rules in my book are dont hurt ,lie, cheat, steal, hurt others and hurt children... | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 11/29/2004 2:57:37 PM | Hi Petiteone (and other girls with similar stories),
I'm very sorry to hear about your bad experiences.
I'm sure there are men out there who are gentlemen and know how to treat a lady but can also be fun and spontaneous as well(I know of one!).
May you meet a man worthy of your affections,
R.. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/1/2004 5:28:12 PM | | That seemed to me like the typical "beer and hot dog" mentality of those guys. They are the way they are simply because they don't think, and as a result, they act in that caveman fashion....Next time, you'll know that mentality and nip it in the bud. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/1/2004 5:50:43 PM | petiteone, don't give up. i met a jerk here also but there are some really good men on this sight. i think you have seen an example of this from some of the replies you got about this question from some very nice and respectable gentlemen. keep don't let those rotten apples spoil the whole barrel. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/1/2004 6:36:49 PM | Those guys you described sound like creeps. I never grab a woman on a friggin' first date, unless she asks me to. PPeople ought to respect each other.
As for the other guy, what can I say? A loser.
A man who works hard and takes care of his woman is the ideal sort in a fair world.
Good luck with future dates. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/17/2004 6:28:49 AM | heheheh funny.... Idiot Olympics :P Have to remember that one.
Sry to hear about that crappy date. But not all guys are AHoles - just most of em lol
Pick and choose carefully. It's kinda like buying cans with no labels on them- you never know whats inside until it opens up. Could be peaches - could be luncheon meat. LOL
Take care
p.s move to Canada lol its cold as heck but the guys are pretty nice here :) | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/17/2004 2:57:02 PM | This is awful. I am a naive dork (at 35) when it comes to online dating and I am MALE. I WRONGLY assumed that everyone else was just as honest as I am. After all, no one knows who I am (well, except for one sweetie....). Why would I lie and mis-represent myself. I might as well be brutally honest, and if I get turned down 12,000 times, at least there isn't the awkwardness of doing it face to face.
I did go through about 20 crazies. I specifically stated I'm not interested in sex, one-nighters, whatever you want to call it.
Then I found someone. I liked her profile, started talking to her, and the more I learned, the more I liked. My intention was to get to know her, become friends, have some fun, and see what happens. My goal was not to get in her pants....
I don't know what the hell men are thinking when they do this. But we aren't all like that.
If I was a woman, and someone decided to grab my behind or breast on a first date, 1) I'd not see them again, and 2) if they didn't stop at my request, they'd have gotten a faceful of pepperspray.
Thanks to them, giving the rest of us a bad name... | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/18/2004 5:16:34 PM | Why blame a huge group for what one or two did?
What do you expect from someone you find online?
Why do so many women generalize like this? They claim they can't find nice guys or this or that. So many are always complaining yet it is no surprise regarding what happens to them. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/19/2004 11:47:54 PM | | To the truth first of all i said SOME. Second of all you don't know me or some of the women that this has happened to. You can't blame us for what these men do or act like. You don't know me. I think most online men are normal. i was speaking about SOME of the bad ones that i had experienced. I also have a question for you. You are online what should we expect of you? By the way i have found someone nice that answered my online ad. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/21/2004 11:48:30 AM | | my advice chat a lot on line with them before you go out, i get you are younger i can only talk by my experience, i meet for coffee that is safe!! dont put yourself in situations that might be hard to control!! just be careful! It is damm scary to date!! | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site
Posted: 12/21/2004 12:20:17 PM | | Is that not the truth? Never heard a guy rant about bj queries, but yeah, it...sucks? Okay, that was bad. *shame* Let me say its not just the guys on this website, its not just the guys on the net, its guys anywhere that act like this or that. And yes, someone does have to be single...We all have our turn(s), just some more often and/or longer than others. But we should embrace our singleness and be happy with ourselves and the company of our friends. Much love to you all - Shauna aka Shauna | |
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