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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 9/16/2005 5:37:37 PM | so what are we saying here that 99% of the guys should be cut. just cause you think they dont have what it takes. (looks)...... something is wrong with the women on this sight. im not a lude or rude type of person but after reading this it pisses me off. 95% of the women on here as well as other singles site. think there better than everyone else come back down to (looks). i mean dont be acting like your stuff dont stink and that stuff is going to lick itself. im not into sex talk with anyone that is to be left to 2 people behind closed doors who are in love. over the past year ive been on 2 diff single sites and get the same garbage nothing.... why dont you ladies be more honest and tell in your profile. you want a man for his looks. and men have a part here also. im sure there are jerks out there. just dont count me out. for the matter dont count no one out you will never know if it could be. now for the big ending. please no one be offened by this | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 9/16/2005 7:45:03 PM | There are plenty of people with issues EVERYWHERE!
What about dating someone that tells you all you ever wanted to here - the relationship escalates and things happen then WHAMO - limited communication, no let's go out and have a good night together, disappears off msn (i hate msn, except for talking with my friends out of the country) and still says he is not dating anyone else even though you never hear from him.
LOL - we all have had our share!! I only want the decent guy that will communicate, tell me what the hell is going on, knows how to treat a women with respect - since that is all i ever care to do and has at least a heart (not cheese but down to earth and real).
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 9/16/2005 8:17:52 PM | I admit to being broken. I'm not in the same condition that I started in.
But I am doing my best to patch myself up and be good to others that I meet in the process. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 9/16/2005 8:21:52 PM | | I agree with justreal- there are men and women with issues everywhere but there also are a lot of wonderful men and women out there. You can't generalize one gender or the other. People are people. You just have to keep dating different people to try and find the nice ones that you click with. It is unfortunate but I think all of us have been hurt, burned, or freaked out by someone. Don't let that prevent you from seeking out someone who could treat you right. They're out there........somewhere. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 9/16/2005 9:16:51 PM | If you think that is what men are like....the problem is obviously you. Try to be somewhat discerning and don't agree to meet any guy who asks.
Also, when you walk past a construction site and sweaty guys whistle at you - that doesn't mean they love you.
When a big pick-up truck rolls by and a guy in a wife beater and a beer in his hands with no teeth yells "WhoooooOOOOOOOOOOsssasaaaaas" (Translation "hey baby, you want to party") this is a bad choice for a date. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 9/17/2005 4:46:13 AM | | I dunno what to say about the origional post, except that the same thing can be said about some girls in the prospective of a guy. I am in no way stareotyping, I'm just talking from expierence. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 1/29/2006 5:06:40 AM | | of course there are lots of people with issues everywhere, but what better place than online for some to more easily try to mask and/or fool perfectly sane rational people? you can't pick up on the cues i need to read if someone's offside or not. these sites are a magnet for some who are too unstable to have ever been in or able to sustain a healthy committed relationship. it's way too easy to lie, run and hide, ignoring the social etiquette, honour, ethics, morals, values and strength of character which i demand from those in my personal life. why? because that's the way most of us in civilized society behave. anonymity is no excuse for inapproriate/rude behaviour from either gender. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 1/29/2006 8:26:18 AM | Well I live in Canada and I feel there is something wrong with the guys on this site been told I am a sweet caring girl very honest and all I want is to be happy but what because I am a BBW guys dont look past that and just assume I am no good guys need to open their eyes and realize that just because a person looks a certain way doesnt mean they dont want to be happy too  | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 1/29/2006 8:45:12 AM | | oh my, thats just sh!t. sorry to hear. i've had a women not cancel on before. i know how that feels. sometimes it goes both ways. You just gotta find the real, and nice ones. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 5/12/2007 7:33:46 AM | Always remember the old addage "Start off as you mean to continue" if they stand you up with out a call it shows something about that person and you have to ask yourself do I want to know a person like that? I have been stood up a few times and all I think is its nice to know now what kind of a person he is before I take a chance of liking him. I won't meet someone too quickly and I always talk to them on the phone first its just safer and you can hear things in a persons voice you cant see when you just read emails.  | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 5/12/2007 8:10:35 AM | Sturgeon's Law states that "90% of everything is crud" which although it originally applied to art, it just as easily applies to men and women.
There's another law (the 20/80 law ) that states 20% of the customers account for 80% of the turnover; 20% of the parts account for 80% of the cost and so forth.
I think there's always a silent majority who go unnoticed because they're not flashy enough or whatever. I think it takes a long time to know someone and most people aren't willing to invest the time. | |
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| something is wrong with some of men on this site Posted: 5/12/2007 8:20:10 AM | Gotapulse: Agree with you on that one! To Petiteone tried to do a search and view your profile but could not. Sorry you had some made luck with a couple of guys. Not all guys are jerks like those two. Meet in a public place and drive different cars. Then if there is not an interest in the other person, you two can part. Hope you have better luck.
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