| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/18/2008 1:26:14 PM | | the average size is 5"9 and size might matter for some girls or may not but it depends on how we men use it my ex gf she was with a black do they are well known for being big but she never had an orgasm after him she met me and she wouldnt dare to have sex with me she would say that she was use to big im 6 he was 9 but any ways we did it it took me an hour to cum she came more than 3 times well what i want to say is that you woman have the g spot only 2 inches inside your vagina any man even with a 3"can make you reach for heaven (thats if they know how to use it) | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/18/2008 1:57:37 PM | size does matter and don't let anyone tell you different. Most women don't want a man to be huge but a nice big buy but comfortable size like 7 or 8 inches. Having a small penis had its advantages but nothing is more gratifying than a woman being moved to tears and saying you hit spots that no one has hit before lol.
Size isn't all there is to it tho because I am not the biggest guy (8er) most of the women I have slept with have had but the fact I know what to do with it and can last long enough for her to enjoy it. I have heard stories of guys with huge penises that literally tried to beat a womans insides to goo or came as soon as they finished working it in.. That is disappointing... So having a big penis is just half the battle but it does make quite a difference in what you can do and your range of motion. | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/18/2008 4:31:52 PM | OK, well now, I will be very honest here and tell you YES, size matters. BUT, it also matters in the girth and how you use it.
Anything smaller than a 6 inch penis, well that man should find the women that say size doesn't matter and can get off with just oral, cause thats about all they are gonna get. OR they just haven't had the pleasure of an orgasim from a larger penis.
Now on the other hand, anything larger than a 9-10, well, that takes some getting used to and if the guy doesn't have your pleasure in mind, then it can hurt.
So, I guess you can say, a really nice size would be 7-8 and a nice thickness. Although if the guy can't work it or doesn't have great stamina, thats when you need the dildo back up. 
Most women can work with whatever size their man is. Now, would we really like the majority of men to be the size we want, hell yeah, but hey, that's what toys are for. | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/18/2008 7:17:05 PM | Just for amusement, I thought I'd add a twist to length/girth topic:
Ladies, if you were stranded on an island with two men and could only be with one, which would you choose:
Guy #1: Eight inches in length; pencil-sized girth; or
Guy #2: Two inches in length; baseball bat-sized girth.
Can't wait to see the responses.  | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/18/2008 10:08:20 PM | | If you have an emotional bond and find the man attractive, everything else seems to work great. I know I have never pulled out my tape measure during an intimate moment. (Yeah, I carry one with me... ) I think men do make more of a big deal about it, or worry about it more than a woman ever does. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 12:47:22 AM | I asked this question directly to a close friend of mine (a girl, of course). She said not too long, not too short, but it should be thick!!! (long/short are norms to your race).
Technique does not count here because the question is about size! You can learn skills, but can you fix your penis to be as good as given one? (Drug and surgery is a scam).
End of discussion!!! | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 8:14:26 AM | Everyone has their preferences but in actuality, some of us look beyond size if everything else falls into place.
My preference would be the average size.....and I might have a hard time with a 2" one because its below my preference.....but if he was gifted with talents in other areas, everything would be fine. I'd have a hard time with one larger than 7" or 8"--for different reasons. Not all of us are built to accomodate the larger ones.
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Posted: 3/19/2008 9:15:29 AM | Personally, I would not want a guy to be too big. Other than that, size doesn't matter all that much to me. When you think of it, many women don't get off from intercourse, and when a man has sex with/makes love to someone, he uses his hands and his mouth too. It isn't really all about the penis. In my own experience, the two best lovers I've ever had were both on the small side. And a bonus to having a small to average guy is that you can bang away rather enthusiastically and it doesn't hurt.
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/19/2008 11:44:04 AM | i think the moreso only reason a guy would worr about the size of his thang, is because girls have made a big deal out of it over ther years.
of course size matters, problem is most girls dont even know how much they can actually take. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 8:58:40 PM | Ha ha ha. I met a guy on here (oh gosh I want to put his username so much - he is a pathalogical liar and lives in KY now) - anyway, he kept bragging on his 9'' one. Well, yeah, 9'' and *this* (holds up pinky) big around. ''Is it IN?" Anyway, I just went along with it. We broke up because he wanted to move to KY and after I found out he is a pathalogical liar I am glad that he left but anyway, it's not length, it's girth. Of course, 1'' isn't going to do anything either, but the average length AND girth is just fine. A little more, a little less, that's ok too. But if it's 40 feet long and super skinny, then NEVERMIND!
Geez... my sweetie is reading this and wants me to comment on HIS stuff. I'm like, "I don't want to talk about OUR stuff!" But he keeps me happy. Tee hee hee. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 10:18:37 PM | | Why does this topic continue to come up in forums? Men that are larger never ask these type of questions. You know that the answer will be different for each woman. Some want an average man. Some want a larger man. It depends on the way the lady is built and what she's use to having. If you're insecure about yourself or feel that you're underdeveloped, try finding other ways of pleasing your mate. If you're rather large and women complain that sex is quite painful, try positions that allow her to take control or warm her up first so that she will be comfortable. I gave my two cents. | |
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Posted: 3/19/2008 10:54:12 PM | OK, let's get this straight, men: IT IS *NOT* about size. I repeat: IT IS *NOT* about size. It's about what the man can do with it. It is about whether it works properly or with ahhem, shall we say, "pharmacological assistance." It's about whether he's a good lover and enjoys sensual caressing, kissing on the mouth, kissing every part of the body. It's about whether he knows how to give the right type of embrace at the appropriate time. It's about whether he knows what to say and when to say it. THAT is what makes a good lover.
Sticking a big penis in the vagina and doing nothing more is ENTRY LEVEL SEX. It's that simple. A good lover is a sophisticated lover, which means that the man has a repertoire of skills. It's not just about how big the thing is. A man whose penis doesn't quite work or work at all could be the best lover if he is attentive, affectionate, and has other sexual skills.
In the end, and at the bottom line, what makes a good lover is whether he can make the woman feel physical, sexual and EMOTIONAL arousal -- how she FEELS when she's with him. | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/21/2008 8:26:40 AM | | we men are always thiniking size matters for woman and we freak out but i think this topic is no more than us men fault cause maybe one day an average guy like as had a nice and sexy woman but he always thought of him self and never of her saying that when they had sex he would only think of him cuming but never try to make her cum and then maybe she met a big size guy but he did knew how to work her and after that is when woman started to think that it was cuase of size. SO MEN STOP THINKING ABOUT SIZE AND START THINKING TO PLEASE THE WOMAN USE TONGUE FINGERS WHAT EVER IT TAKES BUT MAKE HER REACH FOR THE SKY | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 3/21/2008 9:20:35 AM | Size matters.
I've had lovers who were too small, and lovers who were too big.
I like anything in the 6-7" range.
My fiance is 8.5" and too big... but we make do. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2008 10:12:09 PM | Size probably matters to some women. True story: First of all, I'm joe Average - average height, average equipment, average looking, middle aged, etc. Not long ago, I dated an escort for a few months. She was even taller than me. First met her as an appointment. Obviously, she'd seen guys who were small, huge (as in ``you're not getting near me with that thing'' huge according to her) and everything in between. Appointment ran over about twice as long. Second appointment: ``Can you stay over night?' Overnight lasted a few months. Really great sex. Escorts go to a lot of effort to stay detached, so why me? I take lots of time to get to the sex part and seriously, if you spend a large percentage of your time doing the deep thrust tango, where it might matter, you lack imagination.
Experinent a little. Make sure she is getting wetter and wetter as you go. (Known as positive feedback to you engineering types.) Once you realize that penetration with deep thrusts is only a small part of the picture, you'll figure out that having abnormally large equipment could only matter a small percentage of time you spend in the sack, even for a size queen. What you do with your other 90% of sack time is way more important. Women like to be held. You don't need a big d**k to get that right. Women like to be kissed (unless you're inept). Women like you to ``appreciate'' their anatomy, so to speak. What does 12 inches buy you here? Whatever size you are, you have the same problem of figuring out what to do with it. If being big mattered for sex. love, companionship or anything but a photo op, an escort would never date me, yet several have.
If you're a guy with a hangup on size, do yourself a favor. Save your money and book a couple of hours with an escort. $700-$800 for 2-3 hours is about right. Before you get there, remind yourself of how many guys she's seen and your chances of being Mr. Big. You should have an epiphany at this point and come to your senses when you're back in the real world. You'll stop secretly hoping you're the biggest your date has had and it won't be a crisis when she tells you that you aren't even close. It'll be more like an academic question. (``Oh really? That's nice. Now get undressed.'') (Dating one will help you guys that get all weirded out about your partner's past.)
(If you take this advice, try to remember that escorts are just like other women, except they are often more interesting to talk to and the sex isn't as good as with a significant other type of partner unless your significant other is an escort. Then, it's about the same.)
Some women probably will judge you with a ruler, no matter how well you do horizontally in every other way. Most really care about the every other way, so find one of those ``most women.'' It's not your problem. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2008 12:57:59 PM | | Of course size matters, no doubt. Ladies like a nice big piece. But also, you have to make the girl wild and wanting it badly. You have to be good with your hands, tongue, and the way you rub her body. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2008 1:14:00 PM | Man, this thread is 4 years old.
I think the moderators need to make something like general consensus post after so long and then just lock the thread or something.
Yes, size matters, but it differs from one girl to the next. So hope that you're somewhere in the middle, but more towards the larger side.....if that makes sense. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2008 1:17:18 PM | "Does size Matters?"
Did George W. Bush write the title for this thread? | |
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Posted: 4/5/2008 10:38:55 AM | I don't really care one way or the other.
The intimacy, passion, and connection to that person makes the experience pleasurable.
The size of a man's heart is what concerns me most. | |
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| For the Ladies: Does size really Matters?
Posted: 4/5/2008 3:59:06 PM |
Did George W. Bush write the title for this thread?
Yes, he did. And afterwards Darth Cheney assured him that no matter what his size, that the
two of them had done a great job fvcking the country.  | |
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