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 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
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lol...I think a woman maybe in her 50's after you would be a cougar We have a bar here like that. Stampede Corral..or the Trampede as I like to call it..lol. Why is it only country bars are geared towards the older crowd? I'm not a big fan of country music and the other bars here are overrun by University Students.
 Wizard097
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 252
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:30:42 PM
hmmm Destiny..you have me worried now...wondering if I can outrun a 50 yr old
You are right though, most bars in our age group are country bars..not for me regularily
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:38:32 PM
No need to run...just find the closest young man around you and push him into her path...lol. Although, that may not be a distraction, you are very good looking and I can see why the Cougars love ya
 Wizard097
Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 254
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:45:35 PM
1st: thank you :)

I never thought about that...ill try and shove a youngster in the next ones path next time and see what happens

Ive been thinking of this thread though..
As we get older we need to accept the fact that people do with their lives as they wish, as long as it doesnt hurt anyone else..Meaning that if older women or older men want to date someone younger,or younger wants older, who do we think we are to judge them. What happens with 2 consenting adults is between those same 2 consenting adults.
 Tansi
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 255
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Posted: 4/30/2006 5:18:17 PM
I'm sorry..I am still back on "faguar"!!! I have to admit that is good. My best friend is a gay male and he will roar when I tell him that. I will never look at a 50 year old drag queen the same way

As for the gentlemen in this thread........Glad you took part. Not sure I agree with labels, but for sure I have no preferences surrounding ages. My companions are from 30 to 63. Its what's between their their ears, not between their medical card and their social insurance card in their wallet. Oh, you don't keep your birth certificate there? Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 256
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Posted: 4/30/2006 5:19:45 PM

a cougar is an older woman usually late 30s or 40s..sometimes even older, who go to bars just to pick up young guys (19 20 years old) for the sole purpose of having sex with them..or just plain using them, treating them like trash...


This is the definition I know ~ not flattering and not something I'd like to be called. MILF isn't nearly as negative as Cougar.
 Tansi
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 257
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Posted: 4/30/2006 5:36:35 PM
^ Not all Cougars are mothers.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 4/30/2006 5:56:37 PM
Point taken, you can be a Cougar if you choose, I prefer anything but....it's just too negative for me. (If people could hear what my men friends say about Cougars, I seriously doubt anyone would like to be in that category. But to each their own.)
 Tansi
Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 259
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Posted: 4/30/2006 6:17:34 PM
"What other people think of me is none of my business"
 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 260
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Posted: 4/30/2006 7:15:24 PM
still being in my early 30s, but with a definite preference for younger men...friends tend to call me a 'cougar kitten'. i don't really see cougars as being a negative thing at all, and surprise, but some cougarish women actually would enjoy dating the younger men they take home...it's often the guys that get too nervous for that to be a possibility.
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 261
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Posted: 4/30/2006 8:51:36 PM
I don't like the term MILF or cougar either......but at least MILF doesn't put a derogatory spin on MY taste in men!
 looking_for_cougars
Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 262
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Posted: 5/2/2006 6:43:13 PM
Can anyone tell me what bars are the cougars bars in the GTA, i've been to a bunch and I haven't found a single cougars
 Wild Heart
Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 263
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Posted: 5/2/2006 7:09:58 PM
From what I've heard, a cougar is not someone who looks young, but rather a woman who likes younger men.

Me - not into the cougar thing. I like guys around my age (not sure why though lol)

To each her own though. If that's what yanks yer chain....
 Ciana5
Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 264
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Posted: 5/2/2006 7:10:01 PM
Woohoo charming. Yes I agree, I don't get asked for ID anymore since 40 is creeping up on me but after 2 kids I feel absolutely fantastic!!! And yes, I love it when young men still eye me in the street
 oceanpearl202
Joined: 9/21/2005
Msg: 265
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Posted: 5/2/2006 10:01:46 PM
What's wrong with cougars? I think that it's awesome that women are putting age to the wayside and living their lives and feeling sexy about themselves after a very narrow minded society tells them that they're done. I'd say God Love Em!

The only old person - young person couple that I'm worried about is Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes..lol.. now THAT is creapy!!!

LONG LIVE THE COUGARS!!!! I wanna be one..lol

OP
 imraan47
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 266
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Posted: 5/20/2006 1:30:15 PM
I am also looking to get out this summer and live in Toronto and see if i like older women and i know i do prefer older women more so than the "my age" category. Can any ladies please reply to where they hang out looking for the younger generation or any people that are into the mature ladies, please reply.
 Leogurrl
Joined: 4/29/2004
Msg: 267
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Posted: 5/21/2006 3:53:28 PM
Yeah, I think you may have been misinformed a little. Cougars don't typically "look like they are 20-23 years old". More often than not, they are identified by wreaking of the 80s. lol The most general definition would be that they are older women who "hunt" for younger prey. Since we ARE at our sexual peaks, it makes total sense! The younger guys may have stamina, but they don't always have skill! This seems to be the common consensus...but there's always an exception to the rule. I don't personally consider myself a cougar (wait, would anyone want to identify with that term anyhow??)...at least not yet.
 NoahCoast2Coast
Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 268
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Posted: 6/30/2006 2:10:51 PM
Cougars are great
It's really nice to meet a person who can hold a conversation, and who can turn helpless me into putty ( or better) in their hands
 eman07
Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 269
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Posted: 6/30/2006 2:16:01 PM
lets be honest.....what do a 35 year old women and 23 year old guy have in common?.....ahem....sex.....your certainly not going out with them to "hang out"......i would have more respect for "cougers"....if they just say,,,,im out for the sex....
 misseyes
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 270
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Posted: 6/30/2006 2:22:17 PM

hmm guess I'm a bobcat ...what you describe sounds more like a shark


I think I'm a kitten compared to some of these descriptions, wowee. If I date someone right at 30, I start to wonder if I'm pushing it. I think I'm going to get scared again.
 TAMMYGIRLL
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 271
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Posted: 7/1/2006 3:49:23 PM
The thought of being called "cougar" just makes feel old and on the prowl. Which I am defiantly not.
 *mae* flowers
Joined: 1/15/2006
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Posted: 7/1/2006 7:31:03 PM
Cougars, hate that term. I didn't know what a cougar was until maybe a year ago when a single friend of mine wanted me to go to this club with her. A co-worker said it was a cougar bar. Well that stopped me dead in my tracks, didn't end up going with her because of that.


...maeflowers
 nerkman
Joined: 6/2/2006
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Posted: 7/1/2006 7:59:11 PM
Cougar is a frat-boy term, much like MILF. I find those terms to be disparaging of women because it insinuates that somehow women who are older or who have children are somehow 'damaged goods' and aren't worthy of being sought after like a young, single woman.

They have a whole sub-industry in porn catering to that tasteless fetish.
 bookwormmy
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 274
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Posted: 7/1/2006 10:03:23 PM
When I hear the term "cougar", I always find it derogatory. To me, and many male friends, cougars are simply older single women, desperately trying to look young and failing, truly fooling themselves into thinking they are still appealing, trying to fit in with a younger crowd but not accepted, and taking whatever they can get as affection or attention. They appeal to some men only for one thing, the one body part that counts to the shallow takers. They don't want to be totally useless to men, so they make themselves readily available for sex to validate themselves. Male cougars only have one thing to offer, money and possibly power. And they don't care if they get no real love, as long as they get the sex and arm candy. So hollow, I hope I do not ever get so pathetic if I get really lonely and start feeling worthless. Young people of either sex like the cougars because they provide without effort. Anyone who uses a cougar for that is low, really low and just as desperate, same thing different role. And no I don't mean everyone over 40 is a cougar. It is a minority thank goodness.
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 275
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Posted: 7/2/2006 7:08:17 AM

When I hear the term "cougar", I always find it derogatory


Exactly. To me the term means the person is thinking like the guy above defined the term.

It is an INSULT.
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