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 Senual_One

Joined: 11/21/2005
Msg: 201
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 1/31/2006 4:43:39 PM
Posting from " Catch a star "


If he's wearing white socks with black shoes, I can't help but wonder if he's been institutionalized. I know that may be wrong, but I can't help it.
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Your funny. When was the last time you has your brain checked out for a malfunction?
Or could it be that when you were " institutionalized " this is what you had to wear...

Females are a riddle packaged within a paradox.
 tmbttd

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 202
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 2/13/2006 8:49:48 AM
As a male, BA/MS in Interpersonal Communications (EDD in Education) behaviors of eyes are #1. To prove my point: Gentlemen, stand in a shopping mall and observe the eye behavior of women who approach you. Stand square, i.e., trunk of your body, shoulders, head straight toward them and watch their eye movements. My guess is they will look first at your eyes and then their eyes will zip down to your feet, back up again to the crown of your head. In that instant they will have you categorized, classified and filed away in the pigeon holes of their minds from which they will do one of two re-actions: 1) they will lower their eyes to yours again, signifying the communication channel is open and either she will speak or she is inviting you to speak to her. 2) if her eyes do not remake contact with your eyes, the communication channel is closed and she wants absolutely NOTHING to do with you now or ever more. Period. Move on to the next lady.

A woman's eye bahaviors determine if the "game" is on. You know the "game": "If she, will he?" or never forget a man chases a woman until SHE catches him.

Everything else is frosting on the cake, my friend.
 CUTELADY

Joined: 11/24/2005
Msg: 203
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 2/13/2006 9:00:30 AM
I always go for the smile and the eyes, if I like that, the personality is always what hooks me. If he is a creep, it doesn't matter what he has.
 l14capri

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 204
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 2/17/2006 5:26:35 AM
i look at his teeth whenever he speaks, his body language, posture, his hands, mannerisms, --a lot of things can tell you how well he cares for himself, what work he does, whether or not he is lying, how he is around other people, and whether or not you would want him to touch you
 old_hipbilly

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 205
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:03:15 AM
Then WHAT do you do ? NOTHING and he just keeps going, thinking , that was a cool llooking chick, but she must have someone or she would have said something.
 Patti-O-Lantern

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 206
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:37:53 AM
a man's tone and character in his voice will crank my head in an instant! after that its a laugh, smile eyes and hands
 daniel1962

Joined: 2/23/2006
Msg: 207
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:55:38 AM
mes think that we all look at the same things only at different times
 catrianne

Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 208
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:59:28 AM
I would have to say... hands... I know, weird, but I love hands... That and a great smile and I'm putty in your HANDS... haha.
 lalby

Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 209
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 12:23:16 PM
i always look at the shoes then the smile but good shoes good impression
 puppyluv123

Joined: 1/9/2006
Msg: 210
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 12:37:31 PM
For me, the eyes are the first thing I notice, they do say that eyes are the window to the soul don' they?

The next thing if he talks to me is the teeth, these can be a dealbreaker for me if they are particularly nasty. Please don't flame on me for this comment, its been debated on here a bunch of times and many people feel the same way. Just my opinion....

Once the physical attraction is there, personality is the final make or break thing.
 dollface07

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 211
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 3:15:43 PM
if he's wearing a wedding band or has a tan line where one used to be....
 wikkidd

Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 212
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:49:19 PM
I look at his walk..is he confident or slinking towards me.?..then i give the once over..eyes..smile..general appearance..how he is dressed tells me how much he thought about me when picking out his clothes...did he make an effort or just throw something on and dashed out the door? and the clincher?...his voice!! If he is going to be whispering in my ear all night...i'd like him not to sound like Elmer Fudd!!
 pnayplayr

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 213
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:52:06 PM
his smile, n the way he carries himself
 Sweet sensations

Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 214
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:19:28 PM
Definately his face, his eyes, his smile and ....

A full head of hair....

I Can't help it ... I've even tried!

Its just my personal preference.


Then its how the conversation goes and how we communicate and how the conversation goes during that first date that would enhance my interest in wanting to see him again and get to know him on a more personal level.
 kermancutie

Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 215
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:28:10 PM
I see his smile,Ok honestly i see his machoness
 Sea_drifter

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 216
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/9/2006 9:59:34 AM
why are we doin this, we all know what a woman checks for , his looks,, just go online, and if you dont have a pic, thats the first thing she will ask ya, duhhhh!!!
 coca2

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 217
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 3/15/2006 5:12:32 PM
I check out the teeth first...i also do that with everyone. the package deal is next..head to toe inspection.
 l14capri

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 218
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/9/2006 1:22:48 PM
first, the condition of his mouth and teeth as he is talking, then everything from there follows quickly--his belly - yep -too big is too nasty for me-- his butt, his walk, his hands and the condition of his nails - yeah- you want to be clean to be touching me - and in between all of the physical once over i am simultaneously analyzing his attitude, body language, behavior, intelligence -- all in the first several minutes -- like they say - you only get one chance to make a first impression
 Silent_Lucidity

Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 219
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/9/2006 1:34:18 PM
I seem to notice one very common thing irl and as stated here on forums, eyes.

I seem to quite often catch ladies looking at my eyes, then they seem to look like they fell into a trance. Then when I move near them, they scramble. I figure hell.. i'm a pretty scary lil fella i guess. :p

SL
 _ashlee_

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 220
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:08:14 PM
I definantly look at his smile, and his eyes... and if hes funny then thats a huge bonus!!
 lady_bugg65

Joined: 9/16/2005
Msg: 221
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What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:08:51 PM
his lips......and if they look suck-able.......
 AREALANGEL

Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 222
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:58:56 PM
I look in his eyes...listen to what he says closely..and enjoy the moment..
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 223
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/10/2006 6:05:09 AM
Eyes ...any spark?
Bottom lip ...nibbling

buzz
 bondgrl

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 224
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/10/2006 6:34:10 AM
EYES,the eyes are the windows to the soul..They can tell you if someone means to harm you or is intrigued and amoured by you..They can tell if he is healthy or sober and they can tell you if he is a good person or not,usually...

The chest is a turn on for me but it is not ALWAYS essential I like a muscular and well built guy,and a toned chest pecs are huge turn on.
But have responded to and corrosponded with many flabby and sweet guys too.

THEN I look for ring LOL!

Nat
 FlirtynFun4-1

Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 225
What do Woman 'Check out' on a Guy on First Sight
Posted: 4/10/2006 6:45:50 AM
The shoes are not the first thing I notice but I know where your coming from.
Dirty nasty shoes makes me think they don't take care of anything.
Old pair of comfy shoes is another story!!!

I look at the whole face ... smile, eyes, and if there is a connection there,
The rest of his body doesn't matter its what comes out of his mouth!!!

Shallow people drive me crazy. You can meet a knock down gorgous
person but illness stress etc can change a person. I want to know the
person for who they are. The rest can easylie change at any time but
an attitude, personality?? That is the whole package to me!!!
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