| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:05:37 PM | eeash....wishing death on someone that you used to care about?.thats kind of harsh isnt it?
I mean all relationships start out beautiful and sometimes they dont always turn out as planned, in most cases when a relationship ends it is simply because It is time for it to end.
There is nothing anyone can really do about it. I just think it is easier to think of the happy times you've spent together, and put all the bad times behind you and move on. One should never have regrets, just have lessons learned. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:09:41 PM | I sure did but not to such extremes to wish him and his tart dead but it eventually faded after two years. It has been 6 years now and since I chose to keep in contact with him (financial things and use his "guilty feelings" to help me when needed) so I could see that what goes around comes around. IT did. I got a call from the tart 3 wks ago complaining that my ex is a cheater, drunk, his kid is a greedy **** and everything I already knew but since she was so dang naive of american ways (she was asian) she played along with him. She called twice and I was quite surprised and I asked her what did she think I was and I found out he was lying big time to her about me as she found out thru friends that I was none of the things he portrayed me to be. The Tart got her just reward and my ex is now playing another fool.
But there are times I still remember the good times but the bad times come back and I thank my lucky stars I am rid of him as a hubby. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:28:44 PM | I have ane comment, and a suggestion to all of you who have hated and wished death. Hatred consumes your very being. Your body, mind and health will suffer ... It will wear you down if you can't let go and rise above.
all you women please watch the movie: "Diary Of A Mad Black Woman"
You don't have to be black or even a woman, just put yourself in her shoes. This is my story, the very same thing happened to me ... and I cried all the way thru the movie.
Be happy, Fishing Lady .... Lorie | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 6:38:32 PM | | My ex though she could scare me out of her life by talking about marriage. She even took me to different stores to look at rings and even gave me price quotes! When she found out I was not scared, she sent me a Dear John letter. The letter was pretty graphic about her new found love and a whole indept critique of me. What had happened is we broke up in January of 2003 and I left because she told me she was not happy. Three months go by and a night club fire that killed 90 people occured during a concert that I ended up missing. It was my favorite band playing at a local club. The pyro burned the place to the ground. The ex calls the next day and says she wants to get back together. I agree because I missed her and that was my downfall. I should have stayed away even though it hurt the first time. Dealing with the whole mess of the fake marriage proposal and the fact that she was sharing with another man, putting me at risk for disease really hurt. I did experience that love hate feeling. I think my stomach was in bad shape for a few weeks. I had that feeling of riding a roller coaster, but that shallow feeling in the stomach was very painful. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:03:13 PM | | Yeah thats right, the Great White concert. It's in the news again. They are testing the sound proofing foam. It's actually amazing that I was not there that night. I own all the albums and I have seen the band live 5 times since 1996 leading up to that show. I have even seen them and met the band the previous time they played at the station. Whats funny is I am able to listen to the music like nothing ever happened. I do dream about my ex, but I pretend it's like a death in the family and I moved on from that period of my life. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:05:44 PM | | Thats actually a really good point to make. Strange but after all the shit my ex put me through i thank him too, for opening my eyes to many red flags to watch out for, and for helping me find my independence after i left him. Dealing with him has actually made me a stronger and smarter woman. Man he'd hate to hear that. lol | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:21:33 PM | wished him dead? for all the pain and anger he caused me over 20 years??
sometimes.
but mostly I wanted him to marry someone who was evil and self-obsorbed and always right, just like him. I wished him justice on this plane, and not just the next.
Revenge is a dish best eaten cold. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:22:06 PM | | If I could take one thing back, I would have handled it better at the time. The best way to go is quietly and not to give the person that broke your heart any satisfaction what so ever. The best thing to do is to keep your mouth shut. I did the whole nasty message routine and I wish I could take them back. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:41:42 PM | | there are two kinds one of hate and one denial of hate all are angry because of what a person has done cheated twisted the situation etc but be aware that social scientists in other countries blame these feelings on the way men are treated by society here women cheat and twist this to get vi0lent men in trouble and all that happens is the male suffers in the end; in other societies the woman is punished by society for what she does. she is put to death for cheating bringing other peoples children into a marriage etc so be aware that you can use this as an opportunity to find a better person in the whole world europe etc where women are still women and not muscle builders and men with holes. in the army there are women who kill men deliberately so do not be surprised at the new role women play in this society dr savage at krla sees this as the result of homosexual lawyers who have altered the system to destroy men in this society. the lawyers and the judges are putting men in jail now for yelling at their wives. this is called abuse in fact to look at a women with her tits hanging out is sexual harrassment. have you noticed how they hang out their tits and if a man hangs out his****which is like a tit a sexual organ he goers to jail to look at a women for more than 3 seconds is a sexula crime here and people are treated for this by the courts dr sage see this as a middle class mental disease get his book and call him at KRLA the most popular talk show i am sure he will find you frustration as part of the problem with the men as they are treated by women in this society . you can always go to another society and find a real woman and like good wine when you find one you will not drink piss anymore from these women | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/5/2005 7:42:22 PM | | there are two kinds one of hate and one denial of hate all are angry because of what a person has done cheated twisted the situation etc but be aware that social scientists in other countries blame these feelings on the way men are treated by society here women cheat and twist this to get vi0lent men in trouble and all that happens is the male suffers in the end; in other societies the woman is punished by society for what she does. she is put to death for cheating bringing other peoples children into a marriage etc so be aware that you can use this as an opportunity to find a better person in the whole world europe etc where women are still women and not muscle builders and men with holes. in the army there are women who kill men deliberately so do not be surprised at the new role women play in this society dr savage at krla sees this as the result of homosexual lawyers who have altered the system to destroy men in this society. the lawyers and the judges are putting men in jail now for yelling at their wives. this is called abuse in fact to look at a women with her tits hanging out is sexual harrassment. have you noticed how they hang out their tits and if a man hangs out his****which is like a tit a sexual organ he goers to jail to look at a women for more than 3 seconds is a sexula crime here and people are treated for this by the courts dr sage see this as a middle class mental disease get his book and call him at KRLA the most popular talk show i am sure he will find you frustration as part of the problem with the men as they are treated by women in this society . you can always go to another society and find a real woman and like good wine when you find one you will not drink piss anymore from these women | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 10/6/2005 7:16:22 AM | NO.. He is the father of my children,I wouldnt wish it.. They LOve him.. Whatever problems we had,I also had a play into it.. I think it is pretty much both sides when problems arise..And if they treat u bad,Well I think u are pretty much responsible for that hurt if u keep letting it happen..  | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 12/12/2005 3:02:26 PM | | Yes, I have wished my ex dead. We had a very tumultuous relationship but I loved him so deeply that I never believed the end of us would come, but it did and he was doing well with moving on with his life. This was just in the past few months and I just learned today that he passed away over the weekend. I am feeling soooo guilty right now. I guess I got my wish. Be careful what you wish for, it just may come true. In retrospect I never really wanted him dead, I was just bitterly angry that we broke up and he was able to move on. Now I get to deal with this guilt of wishing him dead. | |
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| Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 12/13/2005 3:43:20 AM | WELL I HAVE HATED DEATH ON MY X ..
WHY CAUSE HES CONTROLLING BOSSY RUDE TO ME HE WISHE'S
DEATH FOR MY OLD MAN,
HE'S GOT A BAD HEART AND HE HAD A SEAZER THE OTHER NIGHT ,
I CAN'T SEE ANYONE SUFFER OR WISH DEATH ON NO ONE.
THATS' MEAN JUST SO HE CAN HAVE WHAT HE WANT'S SO IF ANYONE I WISH DEATH FOR THAT WOULD MAKE ME WRONG.
I CAN SAY I WISH U DIE SOME DAY FOR TALKING THAT WAY WITH ME AND ,HE CALL'S ME LOW CLASS I CALL HIM A HIGH CLASS SNOT.
HE'S GOT NO HEART NO FEELING'S ALWAY'S ASKING IS HE GOING TO DIE SOON KNOW.
WHO ASK SOME ONE THAT HE SAY'S HE LOVE'S ME BUT I DON'T THINK I WANT TO BE WITH SOME ONE WHO'S LIKE THAT WISHING DEATH ON ANYONE,
I HAD ANOTHER MAN HE WAS SO MEAN HE STEPPED ON MY FACE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD AND BUSTED MY BOTH JAWS AND MY CAT'S EVERYTHING I LOVED HE KILLED IN FRONT OF ME AND NOW HE'S PASSED ON HE DIED IN NOV2000 AND U KNOW SOMETHING HE GOT WHAT HE GOT CAUSE THE WAY HE WAS HE WAS OUT OF CONTOL AND THE BEATING WOULDNT STOP I LEAVE HE HUNT ME DOWN SO NOW HES DEAD I WISH HIM HELL I DIDNT KILL HIM I DIDNT WISH IT BUT PLAYING GOD THAT IS WHAT HAPPENS LATER THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT WANTING TO KILL ANYONE | |
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