| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 10/22/2005 2:13:58 AM | | The study in Europe has merit. Logically and bilogically sound. Procreating is subconsciously inherent for accepting women. Thereafter, nurturing males are needed. | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 10/22/2005 2:37:08 AM | Ahem, there are a lot of guys who do the same thing, and don't seem to have a clue what they want :-) .... I'll be the first to admit, I have no idea what I'm really looking for~~I'll know him when I meet him... Otherwise, he just has to be honest and sincere....I can't tolerate anyone who lies, for any reason.  | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 10/22/2005 6:14:27 AM | Posted By: lil_luvin1
ps, if it was'nt for WOman, There would be NO man!....IMAGINE THAT!
Way I heard it was that woman came from a man and was also the first recorded case of woman saying one thing and meaning another.  | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 10/22/2005 6:41:03 AM | stop blaming your problems on women. to them it looks like we do the same thing. It's hard to explain but very similar to theory of relativity. We can all watch the same event yet we each see it our own way from our perspective and it cannon be exactly the same as someone elses.  | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 10/22/2005 12:08:51 PM | A lot of women have weak character because they are used to batting their eyes to get their own way all of their lives and therfor see little need for being honest, nor do they respect honesty or clearly discern it in others.
Some women are cool though. | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 10/22/2005 12:48:51 PM | thas right lizard breath! an ifn ya dont believe my sister speaks tha truth when she bats her eyelashes..............................i know some KING size lizards real close like here in tha swamplands..............care to take a lil stroll and let yer ancestorssssss know yer aggravatin a swamp princesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.............................lemme slip on my lizard skin boots an we will mosey on down to tha waters edge where tha big boys play...................
ya know somethin sis, even God himself knew a job well done ...........didnt he stop creatin after he made us womenfolk! | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/9/2008 6:50:19 PM | | well i must say that it can be the other way around men say one thing and do the oppersite thing why cant they be truthfull is there any men on this site who dont what sex and look at ppl and think us woman are all after sex ( well were not ) come on guys start treating us good hey there are some pp on here that are honest and are trying to find someone is that hard to do maybe it asking to much lol | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/10/2008 6:16:56 PM | I'd like to know why some women (1 in particular actually) tell you they love you..........
Then just cut all comunication off. (POOF) Just like that.
If she hadnt left certain things behind, it's like she was never in my life.
Sure makes a guy want to commit again, eh? | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/10/2008 6:29:55 PM | Funny because this is what I said in my profile....
I want someone to call when I get bored, to sneak me junk food when I'm sick, *to understand that I mean the opposite of what I say* someone that will know how to cheer me up when I'm down, that won't have overwhelming expectations of me, that will feel comfortable around my family, as I will be with his.
Just someone that truly enjoys my company as much as I enjoy theirs.
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/10/2008 6:40:39 PM | I hear that driffle all the time "men never listen to what women say" so when I'm at work writing my notes and a woman asks to see my pen... I hold it up closer so she can see it and then put the cap back on it and put it in my pocket..... They get angry, then tell me you KNOW what I meant! I reply, thats NOT what you said, You SAID let me see it... you're telling me men never listen... I did EXACTLY what you asked... I let you "see it"  I also say when you expect me to make ASSumptions about what you MEAN, you then tell me I'm wrong, so now I do exactly what you say and I'm STILL wrong?!?! When they ask me if they can try using my pen I reply with a simple "no" then they get angry again! I just reply "look it's a very expensive fountain pen and I don't borrow it out, sorry. the question has been passed down forever, and truly doesn't relate to just women! lol Just my $.02 worth of humor. | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/10/2008 7:27:40 PM | My response below is mostly tongue in cheek:
>>>Same could be said about the guys when they say looks don't matter,
I never said that one and any guy that does is a liar!
>>>>>that they want someone who is honest to share their life with,
well who would actively want someone dishonest but a masochist? as for the sharing life part...true, most guys just want to conquer the flag then move on to another mountain but girls seem to let them so easily climb!
>>>>someone who knows who she is and what she wants.
Most guys don't care about this, so long as who she is , is someone that wants him at the moment he's interested. ;)
>>>>>With the majority of guys, not all guys, that's a crock.
I'd agree only with the sharing life part, everything else *most* guys really do want.
>>>> The majority want the submissive woman who won't give them any grief and looks like a barbie doll.
Weeeeell I didn't know that grief in a relationship was a normal thing that we had no choice but to accept. (sarcasm) As for Barbie doll and submission....you got us pinned but two days later we might want domination and a Barbie doll...that is a notable difference!
>>>>>>Face it, with a majority of guys, the woman that stands up for herself is a threat because he won't have as much control as he wants.
Majority means 50%+ hmmm.....in my experience I'd have to agree but I never felt that way personally. I like to fight every once in a while. *grin*
>>>>>>Not all women are the way you describe, nor are all men the way i described. It's something that is always going to be confusing and there will probably be no one answer to this question.
On that we can agree 100% | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/11/2008 2:58:21 AM | | I think we want both. Or at least I know I do, I want a guy who is nice and sensitive to me, and give me compliments but I also want a man who can be strong and protect me, and doesn't need "his boys" to tell him how to act. A man that can make his own decision. So maybe your just hanging out with the wrong girls. | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/11/2008 3:06:53 AM | Reading this thread started me thinking about a scenario where every man, woman and child was forced (for whatever reason) to tell the unvarnished, unspun, unadulterated truth. I wonder if we'd survive it LOL. Can you imagine? I see this as a great plot for a Mel Brooks movie. Forget I ever divulged the idea, ok?
Sorry to get off topic and, I guess i should say something about that. The only way two people can connect is by connecting with "what is". That's all anybody knows. If you go into it like Chuck Norris, chewing nails and yelling "c'mere baby", that might not work for the women who's looking for something more on the overtly sensitive type. Bottom line is be just what you are. She won't be able to find you until you do. | |
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| Why do women say one thing and mean another
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:41:19 AM | | You have to tailor fit your game to the woman you are talking too. Not all girls like arrogant, brash dudes. Persistence and luck is way more important than people think. If you are out trying to meet women, then you won't be needy because you know you can abd want to meet more. Women are everywhere so they aren't special. Your attitude will change automatically once you get out there and get some experience with girls. | |
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