| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/24/2005 7:38:55 PM | | Good point Jude... And what if things start a bit playfull while we are getting to know each other...Guys take what you give them! Keep some for later, keep the mystery on for an extra day and you will see the men coming out of the pack...Those who are looking for a well rounded woman who they will be able to evolve with. I prefer to see life as a bus and you steer it as you go, not a train that goes from birth to death... Offer sex on date no 5 and the bus will go in that direction. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/26/2005 1:30:21 PM | | A whole city of players .... that would be depressing. I don't think that's true, just people who have not found the right person yet. Is it necessary to respond to every email you get? I disagree .... I respond to people I am interested in only. If that's bad netiquette, let me know. If a guy is smooth does that mean he's a jerk.....maybe he's just better at schmoozing than others or has more confidence. You have to learn to size people up before you meet, and if they don't turn out to be for you, just say thanks and no thanks. I don't get why people get so irked when it turns out that way. If everyone was my match, this would be easy! Just my 2 cents. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 10/29/2005 1:09:50 PM | | The whole city is about getting laid? Geez, i really have to move from the south shore then! | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 11/3/2005 12:02:21 PM | First no one ever said that dating would be easy.
No matter how much you think your a good person, sweet and caring, people always judge you first by the way you look. I believe that personality is key but you need to have a attractive glinch for the opposite sex.
Montreal is a great place and its a shame sometimes to think that the only thing a man/woman wants is to get laid. I really don't get it? Don't you rather be with that one person, get to know them, spend time with them and get laid or whatever instead of having sex with all sorts of different people you have no clue about or their physical past because lets face it, they might look nice and clean but they can be the biggest whore (men and woman) and have some sort of disease you'll never know about or might get.
I go out all the time and all I get are the ones that want something physical cause they've been drinking or no one aproaches me since I'm a big girl. Its really ridiculous and I even have a beautiful tinny waist big boob friend that gets hit on all the time but by all the losers as well.
So in conclusion, try to live your life to the best you can and enjoy to the fullest without trying so hard to meet anyone. Fate will bring you to the person sooner or later. You never know what your life will lead you.  | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 11/28/2005 11:13:07 AM | | I think Montreal men are cute - like little terrier dogs that think they're oh so scary and have no idea how ridiculous they look. Montreal guys are so into their machismo and are so homophobic that they don't take their underwear off in the mens changing rooms at the public baths - its hilarious! they shower with their swim shorts on! LMAO | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:05:59 PM | Hello Solidcat!
You need to spell Probley... Probably... It might hurt you with some women. I think you are an amazing man with a whole lot to offer to a good woman, but some woman just go with the statistics... They judge you by what they see... And yes, a lot of women are idiots, they do not know the difference between a good man and a bad man, a lot are dishonest, users, etc. But there is still some good, worthy, attractive women out there that will want you, not because they are desperate and unattractive, or because they want an unfair deal, but simply because they like you!!! They are honest about everything... It seems to be a rarity, but they are out there somewhere... Good luck to you... I know exactly how you feel... Bye! Marc | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 3/13/2006 9:25:26 PM | | You are absolutely right! Real men are not players... They might seem like jerks sometimes, that's because they really care, that's because they don't do this everyday... And that's GOOD!!! Women do not understand this... Stupid women that is... The rest are just dishonest... A very few are honest, and they are out there... So there is hope!!! Bye Marc | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 3/14/2006 1:00:15 AM | | And then there's some nice guys just looking for a friend and their profile states specifically they are not looking for sex and women are still don't write. What is a man supposed to do?????????? | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 3/14/2006 6:46:42 AM | As a great animated man once said
"Peter Griffin"
Well, I'll tell you what you want, you want nothing. You want nothing. All right? Because we all know that no woman anywhere wants to have sex with anyone, and to titillate us with any thoughts otherwise is - is just bogus. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 3/14/2006 2:21:18 PM | We suck?
Well I never come to this board, and no I don't want only sex.
The only think I suck is apple juice. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 3/20/2006 1:03:11 PM | Great post GreenEyes;
Funny, I just got through the "why do montreal women stink" (or whatever) thread. I think this points to 2 basic things.
First of all, because of the degree of anonymity here, there are a lot of "players" on both sides. It's hard to spot them right away so a lot of people will take the better safe than sorry approach. That's what I would do. any red flags in the profile or postings would result in a deleted email. It only makes sense (to me anyway).
The second thing is I think the numbers are a little out of whack (i.e. more men than women on here). That means (just like P of F says) some women get a LOT of emails so of course they're going to zone in right away on the ones that are interesting.
All of this can be very frustrating - but lashing out isn't the answer.
Green Eyes said it well: "So in conclusion, try to live your life to the best you can and enjoy to the fullest without trying so hard to meet anyone."
Patience young grasshopper, patience :) | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/8/2007 11:50:37 PM | lol
I didn't even look at the other posts - So I'm doing this one solo. First off - where are you from? Second - Montreal men men have the best taste on the planet, because we have the best looking women on the planet - Check the stats.
In Montreal - Name a nation or culture - We got the best of all. We also have a city that never stops - Festivals, Party's, etc ..... And when we get bored - We take on the tourists, that are always plenty ;)
I won't nail ya - But maybe you gotta check up on whats happening here first - then post a judgement. Give Montreal a chance - I promise you - You'll fall in Love!
Cya Soon - And Often ;) | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/11/2007 8:32:41 PM | I think there are a lot of judgemental people out there who base their responses by looks. Not all women get millions of emails, I being one of them. I do have friends and get the occaisional date, but i do agree, good men are hard to find.
Now im not saying they don't exist, cause they do....but we all like our own types of people.
BTW, a lot of women HATE players, I do....i think it's just sick to be that way, but that's my own opinion.
I honestly have to say i have gotten nicer feedback from men in Ontario and the maritime states.... Most men do choose to ignore me or leave me a very rude feedback from here. But, i am sure there are some nice guys here, as there are in other places....maybe i'll find one one day...LOL
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/12/2007 7:29:31 PM | | I wish you would change your mind about talking to women outside of the 75 mile range limit. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/13/2007 11:31:32 AM | I know I am going to get nailed for this one... but here goes...
It's not just Montreal men... it's men in general and even worst with online daters. I once read that about 8O% of men are looking to get laid and only about 20% are looking for an actual relationship. The reverse is true for women. So men who are actually looking for a relationship, and have things going for them: average or above average looks, weight and height that are proportionate, employed, intelligent etc etc will find that special someone with ease. Because for every serious guy who has the above mentioned, there are 5 females who also have the above mentioned. Alas, the men that make up the category of having all these qualities and seek long term are about in the 1% of online daters. Women on the other hand are about at 20%. So if you want women to reply to you here are some pointers:
1. if she indicates that she has a University degree, don't even bother unless you have a self taught general culture despite not having studied at the post secondary level. Also make sure your profile is not filled with spelling and grammar errors!
2. if she indicates that she is a vegetarian and/or works out, and/or cares about staying fit... then my advice to Mr Overweight, don't message her. You're wasting her time and yours. (unless of course you're some sort of millionaire)
3. Take a good long hard look at yourself in the mirror, ask your friends to rate you... as you browse through the profiles give the girl a mental rating... if you are rating her more than 3 points above you... move on to the next profile.
4. this should be number 1 actually: HAVE A PIC
In short, if she looks like she's out of your league she probably is.
I guess the advice above could also be good for some women out there that get scammed our of their money by pics of male models.
So have fun but be realistic! | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/14/2007 2:40:45 PM | I have to agree and disagree with you. Because if these guys would get out and meet people
Then they will have a chance I mean again if these girls are about working out and about
Money and looking for fit guys then they are the only ones that are going to get hurt
But again if you have game you can pretty much have any type of girl they want,
And it is a proven fact.
But these guys can’t be someone else they have to be them and on the internet game
Yes they want nothing to do with them because of there weight but if they were out and
Meeting people trust me it would be a different story,
When I was dating I had some no’s but I took that no and turned it around and made it a yes from another girl and then that girl that said no got really pissed because I did not care
It is one thing to play into a woman’s hands and then it is another to take control remember most of these skinny girls have some type of low self a steam and when they shit on others it make them feel better it is kind of messed up really, it is like when you don’t pay attention to someone that you don’t like that girl gets pissed but guys I am not saying go out there and play people because u will get burnt
I say go out and be ready to be rejected only then will that build your confidences | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/29/2007 4:29:17 PM | Why is it that people judge the whole based on their experiences with one or two.
Where I live...does not make me the person I am, and it's ridiculous to think that way. Just because a guy or girl thinks or behaves a certain way doesn't mean that everyone that lives in a 100 mile radius acts or thinks the same way.
Anyone who would post a "What's up with (Montreal) men (or women)?" type of topic out of anger and/or frustration is obviously an immature person who has difficulty dealing with some of the unpleasant realities and facts of life.
(sorry experienced, I can't figure out how to work the quote thingy)
This statement says it all! | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 4/30/2007 7:26:58 PM | Ok I don't know why this post got started...But I just came back from visiting Montreal and every single men that I came across where just wonderful as well as all the women.
But my god I just want to move there. I feel in love with the city.
I feel that the city is filled with all the beautiful people, outside and inside. You can tell that 90% of the really do care about their appearances. Which is good thing, because it shows they care about themselves.
Heck, I live in NYC and there are lots of beautiful people here too. But I have to say..Montreal men, well they took the cake with the looks and other aspects.  | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 5/12/2007 12:19:22 PM | Quebec City > Montreal
I had to say it. Try somebody from QC instead. Montreallers are too much like Ontarians. Probably due to the close proximity. | |
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| What's up with Montreal men?
Posted: 5/12/2007 12:50:51 PM | Yep, experienced said it already.
You can't judge all men in a city based on meeting 1 or 2. | |
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