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 Author Thread: She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
 urbanmonument

Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 26
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Thank you all
Posted: 9/8/2005 6:39:03 PM
Thanks for all the advice. Some of witch was really helpful.
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 27
She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 9/8/2005 6:43:19 PM
why have you been seeing her for 6 months? <<-----ummmm

MOst people will dump the one who loves them.

ummm

*n scratches madly at his confused head*

Forget it; I missed the "falling out" part there. I say just go get 4 or 5 friends with bnefits dude. No real emotions....no committment...no work to be done.

Sh*t..have your cake and eat it too!
 djpapparitchey

Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 28
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 9/8/2005 7:07:04 PM
No, man. Give it to her staight, kiss her on both cheeks and let her find her way. And YOU, move on.
 djpapparitchey

Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 29
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 9/8/2005 7:10:06 PM
Well, let me explain. In Europe one kisses a girl on both cheeks to be able to say "We Kissed" but as friends or relations do. It means "I care" and nothing further. People don't do enough of that here. I found it a good way to "judge" the character of close friends.
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 30
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 9/8/2005 8:04:08 PM
Honesty is the best policy.......

You don't have to go on and on about what you don't like... just that the chemitry isn't there for you....
 justhere4sex

Joined: 8/5/2005
Msg: 31
She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 9/8/2005 8:44:01 PM
Buy her a cheap ring, offer engagement, have a party, collect all of her girlfriends phonenumbers then dump her.
 VirgoGrl

Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 32
She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 4/19/2008 12:05:28 PM
Tell her the truth. Why did you fall out of love with her? Be prepared to tell her that too. Why are you still with her? The sex? Be prepared to man up and tell her that.
 beautifuldancer400

Joined: 6/12/2007
Msg: 33
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 5/4/2008 5:49:44 PM

hahahaha!!! gutted!!! if u ditch her she'll either go totally loon and start stalkin u or she'll jus go totally loon and kill ur dog!!!! even the women who claim to b sane r plain crazy baby!!


Ummm - yes - some women will do this but so will many men. Most men take rejection much worse than women. I think it has something to do with their competitive spirit or just a power trip. But men defenitely take the prize in the stalk and whine contest.
 pnayplayr

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 34
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 5/4/2008 9:42:15 PM
i believe in the whole "falling out of love"...if you enjoy her company...why not?! ya, it may not be fair for her, but as long as you treat her right, s'all good. a person can truly love her and abuse her...and that's not good.

i say...as long as she's satisfied...then let's all live in a happy world.
 mthomjmark

Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 35
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 5/4/2008 9:48:55 PM
First of all you were in "infatuation" with her. Now the fun and newness are gone and your not into it; it happens.

You want her as a friend only; why do you want to date her still? oh the sex thing.

Friends with benefits? well if you really care with her you will be her friend and stop playing with her heart. Only friends? thats cool, then NO sex.
 Blondebabi

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 36
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 5/5/2008 2:37:57 AM
It's never a good thing to lead somebody on, honesty is the best way!! You need to tell her and soon so she can move on with her life. If you don't love her anymore - well I think that says it all really!
 Prissymae

Joined: 8/19/2007
Msg: 37
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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do
Posted: 5/5/2008 4:24:21 AM
You never loved her. You are confusing Love with Lust.

Let me refer you to the thread entitled "Do men always lie to get sex"
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