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Posted: 8/13/2006 6:13:05 AM | | Good for you, belle....i had to learn the hard way and it took eight years with a guy. when i caught him doing something questionable, his reaction was alway shifting the blame back on me...and i bought into it. Not internet stuff, actually pursuing other women when he was "working". For some reason, his family and friends never liked me, even though nothing had happened directly between us for that to be justified...his way of keeping me isolated so i wouldn't know what he was up to. i really learned alot from the relationship...he was never home, always "working"..until late at night and in construction, lol. i bought his excuses every time...until befriended by a guy and his wife that had worked for him and they told me the real story....and we are divorced now and get this, he is 41 and my new renter's roomie is young beautiful girl (very nice--23 years old) that he had hit on bigtime last summer..so i will always check a little with anyone i am ever with again. I wasted eight years with this loser--but then it was so new to me--had never been with anyone that lied so blatantly like he did, took me a long time to even realize there are actually people that live their life like that...heal and find a man with good character next time and don't waste time with this guy......... | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 11:27:25 AM | didn't realize that this post was written a year ago...why are we dredging up posts from a year ago?
Because starting another thread on the same subject is considered "redundant". What the person dredging it up did was techinically correct, if you are going by forum rules.
However, case specific threads such as this one seem trivial to keep around because now you have people offering advice to someone who probably doesn't even read this thread, or even participate in the forums anymore. She's probably going to get a whole ton of e-mails all of a sudden about this, 10 months after she's probably already dealt with it and moved on.
Might be prudent to put an expiry date on threads, but that's not my decision to make.
That said, however, it can still be productive if people just use it to continue discussion of similar events that have transpired in their lives, and disregard offering advice to the OP. Just a thought. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 11:44:41 AM | I am sorry to hear about your pain.
I found out that my brother has entered POF on my password so that his g/f would not find out......sad but true. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 11:45:14 AM | Good for you :) My ex was doing something like that. MEN are clueless. They think we Females are dumb.
Get rid of him.. Obviously not worth your time or energy. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 12:37:04 PM | Girls and boys, if anyone is suspicious of their partner and they share the same computer, even if they log in seperately, you can download a "key logger" for free on the internet, this is totally invisible and will tell you every key stroke that all users of the computer have made, it will also tell you what pages and sites they have visited and collect all passwords that they have, this is also useful if you have kids and want to make sure that they are not visiting any sites that you do not approve of, it will even tell you what instant messenger sites that all users visit and record every outgoing word of chat. The best I have found is "teslain keylogger"
Oh and by the way, just in case you have not realised, I am a man and it was my wife of 17 years that turned out to be the whore, so it is not just men that cannot be trusted.
One last thing,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,remember, your partner may have already installed one and may already know if you are up to something!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 1:00:40 PM | Omg!
"whoring"
On this site?
Is it for money?
I thought there was a rule against $ transactions at this site.
Visa, Mastercard, Paypal, Western Union????? (wink)
Reign | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 1:04:01 PM | Hello belle-6,
I am very sorry to hear about your boyfriend whoring around, the Internet is a scary thing... depending on the user.
Rest your mind and know that men are not monagmous creatures. Often guys will be attracted to others even if they have Mrs. Perfect.
I know it sucks, hopefully someone nice will come along for you.
www . my space . com / barren313 | |
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Posted: 8/17/2006 2:20:09 PM | sounds like a jerk to me sweetie. and you would be better off without him.
i am a man and know from the people i meet as a cab driver that once he screws around theres no stopping him.
get on the site yourself and find a new boyfriend. hes not worthy of you. theres plenty of men out there that are monogamus like me. (of course thats why i dont have sex anymore) lololol
no sweetie, dont let him get ya. you are worth more than he can give you. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2006 6:00:48 PM | | Hi belle, I know how you feel because a year ago my boyfriend whom I was living with I saw on his history on the computer where he was on dating sites and emails he had sent and received and then he found out. Starting yelling at me about invading his privacy and that he didn't think he could be with someone like me for something like that well he met this one girl off of one of the sights and dated her for 15 days and proposed to her married her and yes i Have had one of heck of a year dealing with that | |
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Posted: 8/17/2006 6:10:50 PM | Well, belle-6 join the crowd, my ex- bf is the one that told me about this site a year or so ago....and he was on it and match, in which I found him on both sites. I thought things for great too. You know what, I found out that he was not so great. Besides being a habitual liar and cheat....he broke my heart.....hearts can be mended in time......and maybe meeting the right person, might make you feel lots better. I am still waiting on meeting that right person....and if it happens it does and if doesn't oh well, can't say I didn't try.
So good luck to you, all good things come to those who wait. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2006 10:40:21 PM | | You are clearly in the wrong. You are just a snoop and you invaded his privacy. He had the right to get angry at you. I would have brokeup with you too. I wouldn't want anything else to do with you. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2006 7:59:17 PM | Funny, same thing happened to me...I was living with my bf..oh, and did I mention I am PREGNANT with his child? And come to find out he was still on here, tracking down single girls in the area, chatting them up and making plans to meet.
Needless to say, he is GONE and I feel MUCH better...baby is due in January  | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 1:41:36 PM | you need to dump that ass hole
if hes screwing around now it will never stop
you need trust and he just blre that
and to put the blame on u thats just tacky | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 1:42:30 PM | you need to dump that ass hole
if hes screwing around now it will never stop
you need trust and he just blew that
and to put the blame on u thats just tacky | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 5:16:24 PM | | Hey I caught one of them whoring fish.......catch and release should be against the rules because they get back into circulation just to destroy yet another heart. I caught my fish on another singles site. Hit it off, fell in love, dated 16 months, a friend found him on this site and I found another woman in his bed this morning........boy isn't life a b@#%*? Kinda saw it coming, gave him the benefit of the doubt because I loved him and wanted to trust him but he put a knife through my heart. Lied about the other woman, come on it was 5:15 a.m. when I went to his house after work, and he said it wasn't the way it looked. HMMMMM, last time I looked in the mirror I didn't see stupid written on my forehead, but apparently he thought I was. Live and learn because guys like that will never be happy unless they are playing. And the word LOVE should never come out of some peoples mouths. Cried all day still crying as I write this but I will be stronger and wiser and someday he will realize what he lost..........Your fish doesn't deserve your time or energy, sometimes love will find a person where and when they least expect it. I am on this site looking for friends, have met alot of decent guys, a couple of bad fish doesn't make the whole ocean bad. Chin up you will find your prince. | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 1:14:32 PM | Well, there is no harm in chatting with other women while in a relationship, i surely wouldn't hide it from the woman i am with.....if i lived with someone.
but also, it is HIS computer, i would find it rude to invade in my privacy, even if i am totally innocent and the contacts i have made are just friends and nothing more. | |
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