| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 9:25:54 AM |
Giving up parental rights and providing support are two entirely different things. For something like this, he'd better see a family lawyer who is very familiar with the laws in the area that he and the girl live in. If she continues threatening, not only should the police be called in, but a call to the Childrens Aid Society might also be prudent. If she threatens others, then what may she also do with the child?
Wouldn't it be an interesting turn of events if he does call in the authorities, they find her unfit and award sole custody to him? lol, stranger things have happened | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 9:42:37 AM | | MOST definetly this is a bad situation gone wrong. See though the thing is, for all involved, if you are willing to have these intimate encounters, be prepared for the consequences. Whether she was 20 or 35, he got her pregnant, they created a child. She should not HAVE to abort because he does not feel like being a father. He is feeling suicidal? Please, if a 38 year old did not have the conscience to screw around with a 20 yearl old, he is feeling guilty, not suicidal. Think faster than you act! | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:06:52 AM | | kill himself!!!! seems to me the only way to prevent it happening again! and there ll be one less self absorbed useless a***part in the world!!!! (man hater moi??!!) | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:10:48 AM | trapped? getting screwed?
remind me not to procreate with any of you morons. in fact, none of you morons need to be procreating at all. zip it up, sew it closed do the world a favor
we need to be concerened with the infant and not the poor 38 year old ADULT who needs to learn how to look after HIMSELF. he can a baby can't
also this guy is a first class dumbass. she's 20 for god's sake and probably TOTALLY freaked out. he feels threatened? oh lord. here's to hoping the child doesn't inherit those genes.
feeling suicidal? hmmmmm not a bad option | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:21:20 AM | 38 year old gets 20 year old preggo
20 year old is calling wanting child support
38 year old broke and barely making it
20 yr old is threatening him yadda yadda yadda
38 yr old suicidal...please...
1. 38 yr old must have DNA test done ( no ands if fors or buts about it)
this will determine the rest
2. If he is the father- he has a couple of choices.
1. Determine if she is a fit mother
2. if she is- the pay child support and work out visitation
3. if not- then he can get the child and put it up for adoption (best solution)
3. He can request that he have no parental rights to the child.(long court battle)
4. If he is the father and he has to pay- the he has to pay.
the child must come first in this situation ( I am with you on that one Cutie)
get a counslor for both. Sit them down and work it out. that kid is going to have a hard enough time when it grows up and wonders why dad is 56 and mom is 38 | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:35:09 AM | | This happened to a bartender friend of mine..the woman called in six different men for the paternity test..he was the lucky guy...he'll be paying child support until he's 60..! | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:36:35 AM | | what if its only partly his? maybe there was a sperm milkshake and he'll only have to pay a fraction | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:38:43 AM | i don't understand no one being worried about the baby. a 20 year old mother and a not too bright father.
poor kid is doomed from the start | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:40:32 AM | | ok, now time to bring it up... do i dare say it? ...maybe the "father"'s idea wasnt so bad.... start the brawling | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:43:04 AM |
kill himself!!!! seems to me the only way to prevent it happening again! and there ll be one less self absorbed useless a***part in the world!!!! (man hater moi??!!)
This coming from a girl who is looking for intimate encounters and datings interests are "men men men". hmmmmmmmm | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:46:08 AM | | easy, easy now.... lets stay on topic. here, i'll even say "KILL THE BABY" just so the anger can be directed at me | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:46:49 AM | He could plant vast amounts of drugs on her and get her deported/thrown in jail.
Or he could leave the country. Start a new life in New Orleans - I hear that's the newest virgin land that will soon be ripe for the picking!
He could poison her too...
Lots of options. | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:47:17 AM | remind me not to procreate with any of you morons. in fact, none of you morons need to be procreating at all. zip it up, sew it closed do the world a favor
Damn, call me crazy, but I thought they were "screwing"...Procreation is normally attempted without a condom...accidents happen... | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 10:59:08 AM | | i think im with SI on this one.. if you get pregnant, that probably counts as procreation... well maybe it was amateur creation, but whatever | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:07:02 AM | | if i were the girl, i wouldn't force him to pay child support. the way i look at it. they both made a mistake and if she is choosing to have the baby then that's fine, but that's her choice. yes i know he was an equal partner in making the baby, but if he doesn't want any part in this child's life then that's his choice. he will miss out on countless moments in his child's life. first smile, first tooth, first step, first word (usually daddy), etc. the way i look at it is let him be a dead-beat dad. i just hope he remembers that carma is a **** and it will come back to bite him in the ass. | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:11:20 AM | | I did think of telling him about this thread but decided against it. I dont think it will help his present state of mind. | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:17:11 AM | | she's too stupid to swallow a pill? are you, by chance, mentally challenged? so he has no responsibility whatsoever? | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:23:58 AM | I never have given the man that responsibility...I always took charge and made my own birth control choices. However in this case, he did do the responsible thing and use a condom.
I took my daughters to the doctor for birth control too....so I taught them to be responsible for their own bodies. This girl does have parents who are in her life so she isn't on her own. | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:28:54 AM | ........and by the way.....
She is obviously planning on keeping and raising this kid. If he ever want's anything to do with this kid.....he need's to start seeing what he can do to make her pregnancy easier and healthier. Everything that will be needed for the baby to come home should be purchased before the third tri-mester. This gives the mother a much more relaxed pregnancy.....and in this guy's case...it will pave the way for fewer battles in the future with her.
I'm no expert. I can just look back and realize the things that I personally did that were right and wrong. I feel sorry for the guy. But, he stuck his dik in her....now he has to decide whether he is going to be a stand-up guy or another statistic.
And tell him to document everything that he does. Keep receipts on everything he buys. And if he can stand to be around her....go to some of the appointments with her. One of the coolest things that I have ever seen was my son on a sonogram. It is miraculous.
And tell him to keep in mind that he is fuked. Don't worry about it. Just do the best that he can to make the kid happy. Fuk him and fuk her. All kids should enjoy their first years of life with people that love them and teach them the basics. Period.
Sorry, I got on a roll. My ex is fuking me around again. | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:29:38 AM | | Ther is no way that this is going to be fair for either party.I have four children two of which were made on birth control.the problem at least how i see it is that the man has no say so.I understand that it's her body and she has the ultimate decision but if it is a decision that will change your life forever no one wants to be left out of the decision making process.No one has once said that they were using condoms for a reason and it wasnt just std's.if you are having sex with someone and it is understood that no one wants to have a baby why should one party be able to change that without consulting the other.What if this man is a good man who wants kids but just wants to be able to plan and prepare for them?I have seen people thrown into financial ruin because of simular circumstances.for the people that say the only way to prevent kids is to obstain thats true but the only way to prevent car accidents is not to drive but it's little comfort to a family that lost someone who was wearing there seatbelt.what i mean by that is the best preperation cant prevent everything.I feel for both of them but most of all for the child involved. | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:30:02 AM | | Both are complete idiots. He cheated from his marriage and she shouldn't have put herself in a situation with a married man. Either give up parental rights or suck it up and be a man. You made your bed, now lie in it | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:30:22 AM |
she's too stupid to swallow a pill? are you, by chance, mentally challenged? so he has no responsibility whatsoever?
Are you to stupid to comprehend what you've read? Read the damn post.
 moo | |
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| Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/7/2005 11:32:20 AM |
And if he can stand to be around her.
no he can't.
She has had some mental issues and been hospitalized for cutting herself. He didn't find out till after he was intimate that she had scars on her arms. | |
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