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Posted: 10/6/2008 3:08:53 PM | When will women learn from their prior mistakes and poor choices? Sadly here you are at 28, 3 years after your first post where you were pregnant and abandoned, then there was an update post about getting married in May 2007, now here you sit now with two children by two different fathers and again alone... I hope you are done now! Let's not try for three, okay? As much as you love your daughters, being 28 with two kids from two different dads and currently alone is really nothing to be proud of in life and which warrants a  . | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 3:42:55 PM | Love the comment
I know guys who are in the same boat...different children with different woman....and never will they allow that perhaps some of the problems are of their own doing. | |
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Posted: 10/6/2008 3:43:47 PM | Missg..you are going through a hard situation. I went through the same thing with my daughters father, however, he broke up with me while I was at work, he sent me an email and told me he had never loved me and wanted no contact with me. I didn't know I was pregnant at the time and when I found out, I tried to contact him to no avail.
Child or no child involved, he didn't want to be with me so I relented in contacting him any further. I did call his mother and tell her the situation and she made a bunch of empty promises and all that nonsense BS.
I went through it alone and now knowing what I do, it was the best thing I could have done. You have to focus on your pregnancy and your current child, screw him and his crap. Take care of yourself and after the baby comes file paternity papers and garnish him for child support. You will save yourself much time and heartache, and don't worry about when or if he will ever come around, that's not what is important right now, it's you and the baby.
I wish your situation were different, but many of us have had this happen and it's never easy. My best to you in your pregnancy and hope you have a healthy, happy, beautiful baby. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 4:15:39 AM | When will women learn from their prior mistakes and poor choices?
As much as you love your daughters, being 28 with two kids from two different dads and currently alone is really nothing to be proud of ....~Amoré~
 Wow amore....great input..too bad it was an opinion that allows only you to bend over and  your own behind?
May I remind you of one thing....you are also a single parent...who's choices and practices of parenting can be brought under the scruntity of others.
How dare you talk to this young mother that way...these forums are meant for seeking advice for some....so if you have none too offer....move on.....and continue the yoga exercises that allow you to bend over so low.....(here is where I would insert the cat smiley face if there were one!)..........ppprrrrrrrr. | |
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Posted: 10/12/2008 4:25:26 AM | has it occured to any1 he could be locked up ?
the guy was happy she was preggas seems odd ....
but then so was my youngests dad until his ex showed up! | |
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Posted: 10/17/2008 5:52:38 AM |
May I remind you of one thing....you are also a single parent...who's choices and practices of parenting can be brought under the scruntity of others
No need to remind me, I have been a single parent for 11 years. Scrutinize all you want - I don't have any issues with childraising, especially any that warrant posting in forums for opinion. My daughter is a fantastic person, life is good :)
too bad it was an opinion that allows only you to bend over and your own behind?....and continue the yoga exercises that allow you to bend over so low
This was not nearly as witty and clever as you probably think.
The point of my post, which you missed, was that the OP continues to repeat the same mistakes again and again and come back here and wonder "why"? | |
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Posted: 11/11/2008 1:53:44 PM | | Amore, I may have put myself in a bad situation before, but I am out of it now. I made a huge mistake marrying him and I admit that. I am happy just to be a mother. I wasn't supposed to be able to have children at all and now I have 2 beautiful daughters. We're getting by. My youngest's father and I realized while I was still pregnant that while we love each other, we just can't be together as a couple. He is as involved as he can be, living in another state, and we have arranged it so that he gives me gas money to bring her to him twice a month for a weekend each time. Part of that deal is I get to be close by in case he needs help as he has a disability which affects his nervous system. If he needs help, he asks for it. Otherwise he does it all. Things are working out well and we're both happy. | |
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Posted: 11/11/2008 2:07:55 PM | Edit - didn't see the response above :) Glad you have come to a resolution, everyone involved will be better off for it :)
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