| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/11/2005 1:44:35 PM | As one of the certified "old wrinklies" here I'll add this........................
More than a few times I've seen a younger woman who's either cute, beautiful, interesting, sensual-looking, intelligent, HOT or in some way draws my interest. Nearly everytime I've known in advance there wouldn't be any reciprocal "romantic" interest on their parts so I didn't approach them in that way. I've received comments from "Uhhhh....like, Dood....ur......ummmm....errrr....like OLD....." to "Thanks but no thanks" to "Thanks for the nice words". After reading a few posts here on POF when/if I contact someone in compliments only manner I include a disclaimer saying what I'm doing. Funny thing is I STILL get that same mix of replies!
If someone outside your age preference does contact you tell them the truth---just don't be mean about it! I personally have no problem being told I'm a bit outside the age limits and don't take offense to being told so. Those who have said accept it and send a polite reply show some nice, kind traits---we all TRY to offer that I hope?!?
Anyway, Geezers RULE!! Keep up the good work kids and smile---one day you'll be here looking back and wondering where the He77 YOUR youth went---I'm STILL wondering!! LOL
J W | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/12/2005 7:00:00 AM | | The men older than me are dead or in nursing homes. The men my age want teeny boppers....what's a woman to do? (I don't email younger guys because that's not what I want, but I'm scared to email guys my own age because even if they are older than me, I'm still too "old" for them, I guess.) Life is a bytch and then you die!! LOL | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/12/2005 8:13:36 AM | I agree we all need more friends.. right?
I'm 38... and I've gone out with younger guys and older guys..... Not meant to offend anyone here.... but I've actually had a lot more fun with the younger guys... I haven't really met any older ones that are as active as I'd like... or that are interested in what I like...
Hmmmm I could apply for the position of older woman! LMFAO! But I'm guessing it's been filled LOL | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/12/2005 8:50:51 AM | I respond back.....I have been guilty of deleting someone after reading...but I read all mail sent to me.....and try to reply in a sweet way....there is no reason to hurt anyone's feelings...unless they hurt yours..hehe....
I have dated men older and younger than me......I like MEN period...even if it is only of a friends only nature....I think men are so interesting....and intriguing...and just downright COOL......
I have told men they were too young for me....and too old for me.....but in a nice way!!!
I have been told I am too old...hehe....a couple of times too.....but along the phrase...you couldnt handle this baby!.....I laughed and said..I am too OLD to get caught by THAT phrase BABY...hehe | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 11:57:45 AM | | I have tried the just writing as friends. You know, talking about what your town is like, what hobbies, things like that. Sooner or later it always gets around to - "Well, we have been writing for so long, how about we meet ? I really want to get to know you better." That is why I will not even correspond with anyone too far out of my age range that I have set, they never want to stay just "chat friends". | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 12:05:47 PM | THis is what i do.....
Dear (person).... WOW!! Thanks for e-mailing me!! Youre so much older than me!! You know i've always been into that granny lovin anyway,so youre makin me horny just thinkin about ya already. I have alot of other strange and bizzare fettishes that i picked up from pof forums ,you probably wont like some of them but you will....Once were married... Maybe your 27 yearold granddaughter can get involved with us too ....Gawd wouldnt that be so hott.... i think i love you .....Can i just call you granny from now on ... cause it just sounds so dam hott!! Also you will have to support me and my chronic beer syndrome ,oh and all my bad habits too... Can you cook? Can you clean ? Can you wash my truck ? Lets do some red hot cam'n soon k .. bye for now i love you!! | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 12:17:55 PM | | It would make to much sense that maybe they just e-mail u because they saw something on ur page yall had in common and wanted to talk about it..Or the fact they wanted to say u where beautiful or handsome....But by all means go show them what a ***hole u are and automatically assume that they're there to hit on u.... Get ur head out ur ass and try speaking to them first.... I pray the God when ur 45-50 looking for a converstation some one be as rude as u was to them... | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 2:50:36 PM | | I'm here for friends and forums mostly... and I really don't get a lot of mail from older guys... younger or my age mostly. I think it's o.k. to have friends and age shouldn't be a barrier for that. Not everyone that contacts is interested in dating...some, just want friends...and that's o.k. by me. Now...the one liners... I never reply to...doesn't matter how old they are. | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 4:28:41 PM | | As an older guy that does e-mail younger ladies, I love to get a response even if it is a " sorry but I don't date older men" response. It shows respect and means that you actually read your mail. I am always looking for friends and younger people make great friends too. | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 4:41:43 PM |
What ever you do, be kind, and don't be a jerk about it. Rember that you don't know what life is going to hand you in the future. You will be 35 some day, and may say something nice to a young lady and you will want her to atleast be nice. I was your age once too and I got alot of Mail form the older gals, I still do from time to time. Not everybody finds that special someone at a young age. And relationships very. Ive seen older men with younger women, and Ive seen older women with younger women. Who knows why we fall in love with who we fall in love with. So If it turns you off, just be senceable and kind to her. In the blink of an eye you will be 35 soon too ;)
I totally agree with Sundown. Let's just treat each other with decency and respect. I email everyone who writes me and let them know I am not interested (even those who obviously didn't read my profile). It's just polite in my opinion.  | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/13/2005 5:36:59 PM | I pretty treat their messages the same way i treat anyone else. If i am interested, i respond in kind. If i am not, i also respond in kind but i let them know they are not exactly what i am looking for. However, i appreciate their interest and wish them well on their  | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/14/2005 10:16:12 AM | -lazyboyz
not sure if u were talking to me or not. if not, disregard the following response. he,he  ... not like that at all... however, if sean connery or morgan freeman showed up, who knows  . however to stay in contact with other females on the site & etc, i was instructed to remove all restrictions on my inbox.
besides that my profile states exactly what i am looking for. however, i don't know that many people that get exactly what they want :lol: | |
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| What do you 'guys' or girls' do when someone much older e-mails you?
Posted: 9/14/2005 10:23:31 AM | | i totally understand, older men dig me for some reason, but just tell them that you are not interested. Luckily the older they are the better they handle things so they wont freak out like someone who is 20 or 21 might. Just be nice and tell them that you cant see yourself with someone that much older than you and say that you can still be friends and then wish them luck finding what they are looking for. | |
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